i can see that i have been rather insensitive. never drink wine and be on line! but yes its all individual, and circumstantial. i think to be honest i am pretty lazy, so i have high prices and less work, but pretty happy to scrape by and have lots of free time. and yes bad term selling our bodies. i too feel in control so this is just the wrong term to use. ladies i eat my words, and no more wine on line. x