I always thought charging for extras was dodgy from a legal point of view?Or advertising that you charge for extras, I don't know I'm probably wrong (it happens quite a lot ).
There is
nothing illegal about charging (or paying for) sex, no matter how you word it. The thing you can't do is go up to somebody in the street and say 'I'll shag you if you give me ?X', but if you invite them indoors for tea first, it's fine
. It's not the doing it that's illegal, it's making the offer in public that falls foul of the soliciting laws.
I think it's probably easier for people just entering the industry than it is for people who've been in it for quite a while to charge a bit less. I met a woman from here for coffee once, who was just getting back in after taking a break for ten years and she was shocked at what you had to offer now, and the prices you had to offer it for. I however wasn't overly bovved, as it was just normal for me.
Casey_Kisses post make a million better points than I probably will (but bless me I'll try). From a business point of view if you're looking to maximise your earnings over a short period of time you do have to take into consideration what other people are offering and at what price. It's common sense, or The Primark approach if you will.
If you're not looking to see more than one guy a day (or even a week), then you can charge whatever you feel comfortable with if you feel that you can ride out the quiet patches without stress.
I don't know pricing can be such a contentious, personal matter. From a really detatched business point of view I can see that saying, 'yeah full service for ?50/ph' would bring in loads of customers a day - but the problem with that is I (I personally, this isn't a dig at anyone else) would probably end up having a nervous breakdown, end up sectioned and never get to spend any of the money I earned.
It's a tough one
I do think it makes a difference whether you're in it for the long haul (and just want a steady income and a comfortable lifestyle with plenty of free time) or whether you're looking to only work for a short/specified amount of time and make a killing, whether it's to pay off a debt or to save up for something like education or earn enough money to take to your home country and set up a business or whatever - I know people in each situation and all of them have their merits.
I'm resolutely long-term, but I'm in the fortunate position of being reasonably established and always have as much work as I want without having to faff about with my prices, although I haven't put them up in a while apart from for occasional tours to places where the going rate is very different to mine and not changing them would make me look a bit strange. And all of these occasions have involved me putting my rate up, not down.
I don't see my job as that different to the hairdressers - we sell a service which involves physical contact with people in exchange for cash and I don't sell my body any more than the hairdresser sells their hands. Hairdressers have to use nasty chemicals, spend long hours on their feet, use hot and sharp appliances and be around water and electricity regularly, as well as deal with smelly people, people not turning up for appointments and then the pissing and moaning from the ones who do, especially when the poor sod doing their hair can't make them the spitting image of Rihanna because they look like Jerry Sadowitz.
It stands to reason that the more you charge the fewer enquiries/bookings you'll get and vice versa, but when you need to see twice the punters to make the same money I think you need to decide on where the happy medium is; I'm happy enough to see six, eight or ten a day when I'm touring but I don't even want that many in a week when I'm at home. And I agree with the ladies about the marketing stuff - if the OP has only looked at AW, she's going to see the cheaper ads because that's where most of them are - it doesn't mean that nobody is charging more elsewhere - if I looked at nothing but fancy agency sites (and I have met punters from other countries who had done this upon arriving in London) I could be forgiven for thinking that ?200 or ?300 per hour was the 'going rate', which isn't true either.
Some ladies also prefer shorter bookings and more of them, whilst others would rather do fewer and for longer - how you want to work is a big decider in pricing and provided everybody's happy there's room for us all to do our own thing
. The one thing I don't concern myself with (and I can only speak for myself) is what others are charging and/or offering - as somebody else has said, there will
always be somebody cheaper and that way just lies madness. I don't even know who else is on AW in my town, and I don't care - it isn't going to affect me and I can't see the point in worrying about things I have no control over.
Actually one other thing I don't do is ever set foot in hairdressers - is that seriously how much it costs?