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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: sweetshycanada on 25 September 2016, 10:38:59 am

Title: Wtf did they see it in a porn?!
Post by: sweetshycanada on 25 September 2016, 10:38:59 am
Two lovely gentlemen yesterday, nice, clean, respectful, but they both tried this one move I was like wtf! So advertising as a submissive escort face fucking is something that comes up regularly, but as a twist (maybe it's just I'm still very new) but this was the first time I had been positioned head off the edge of the bed him standing, now with the play before hand my eyes are watering my nose is running and now my head is upside down I can't breath through my nose and they are more face sitting than thrusting... it was like excuse me a really don't feel like dying asphixiated by your cock!  :FF
Title: Re: Wtf did they see it in a porn?!
Post by: Emma_C on 25 September 2016, 10:41:39 am
Be careful because they could choke you unconscious then do anything to you. Take the lead with the position then pretend they are in control.
Title: Re: Wtf did they see it in a porn?!
Post by: amy on 25 September 2016, 10:49:22 am
Be careful because they could choke you unconscious then do anything to you. Take the lead with the position then pretend they are in control.

Yeah, it's a fun position but I wouldn't do it with a random stranger for exactly this reason (unless he had a cock like a cornichon, in which case I think you're probably safe :)).
Title: Re: Wtf did they see it in a porn?!
Post by: bristoljen on 25 September 2016, 11:09:30 am
Yes, I have tried it a few times in my private life, I am naturally very submissive and I do enjoy the sensations you describe. When receiving a facefucking it needs to be with a trusted partner or in a safe environment where someone can keep an eye out for you just in case you do pass out. (I have never passed out btw)   
Title: Re: Wtf did they see it in a porn?!
Post by: TrashAzn on 25 September 2016, 05:03:25 pm
You definitely need some ground rules with this sort of thing or they'll take liberties, some guys will actively try to hurt you with it. If somebody tried ramming it down my throat and holding it there while they crush themselves against my face they'd start feeling teeth, they can complain that it isn't submissive but being a sub needs to come with safety rules and they need to respect that.
Title: Re: Wtf did they see it in a porn?!
Post by: Hannaah on 25 September 2016, 07:38:40 pm
I use this position quite a lot but use a non verbal safeword which is agreed on before the start of the booking, such as a pinch to his thigh. If  that was ignored I'd be biting down hard. Luckily I've never had  any problems so far.
Title: Re: Wtf did they see it in a porn?!
Post by: Mi on 28 September 2016, 03:55:09 pm
I do this quite allot, i would say it's not a rare thing for guy's to do. Communication is key with doing submissive stuff.
Title: Re: Wtf did they see it in a porn?!
Post by: Gracious on 29 September 2016, 02:36:32 am
Its actually quite a common position. My first ever client tried this with me but I found it uncomfortably frustrating because he would just stop randomly with his cock sitting in my mouth. Nah mate - either thrust that shit or get the fuck out  :FF
Title: Re: Wtf did they see it in a porn?!
Post by: BarbaraB on 29 September 2016, 02:59:09 am
yeah  hun this is face fucking .. ill  say  start  one ...