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Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: Would you quit the industry because of stigma alone?
« Reply #15 on: 19 June 2015, 06:02:36 pm »
No one HAS to stop whoring if they don't want to.  I didn't stop till I was 61 but I gave up for health reasons but I know I couldn't have worked at the job for twenty or so years like some of the girls on here have done.  The monotony of the job would have driven me spare irrespective of the money I was making.

I'll try and put this in a nice way hut I'm used to shooting from the hip as many know.

Many of the girls who have worked in the job for 20ish years started when they were very young and there is nothing wrong with that. I couldn't have done it at that age for I wanted a normal married life with children and that was my priority, and they still are. 

There are not many guys around that can/are willing to accept a WGs background and that is their right as much as whoring is our right. So the way I see it, if girls WANT to settle down , some do and some don't and there isn't a right or wrong there, it is easier to settle down with a guy if they are in a normal civvy job background.

I've got to go out just now so I'll finish off when I get back.  Please don't shoot the messenger while she is out.  It's just my thoughts.
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Re: Would you quit the industry because of stigma alone?
« Reply #16 on: 19 June 2015, 06:44:17 pm »
Oh, I was actually genuinely curious. I'm surrounded, in my personal life, by a mix of sworn child-free folk and people who generally have no interest in committed relationships, so the settling down and family angle hasn't actually occurred to me until after I've posted. Kind of funny how your closest environment shapes what you perceive as the norm, heh. :)

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Re: Would you quit the industry because of stigma alone?
« Reply #17 on: 19 June 2015, 06:54:51 pm »
For me it wouldn't be the stigma it would be through a choice of my own when feel ready to hang up my stockings. The stigma is there in society for different things. Things would be easier without the stigma but not enough for me to want to give it up after four years. It is thier problem not mine.
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Re: Would you quit the industry because of stigma alone?
« Reply #18 on: 20 June 2015, 01:23:50 am »
Never. I live in a small town, almost village and thanks to an ex-boyfriend absolutely EVERYONE knows what I do including family, friends, frenemies, enemies and complete strangers because Facebook is evil lol. Some have tried to 'run me out of town' but I stubbornly stay put and it drives them mental, which is amusing to me not threatening. I'm known as the 'town bike' but I honestly couldn't give a fuck because I'm a happy whore whose life is more fulfilling than those haters could even dream of, I'm winning the war against them.

The best way to beat the stigma is become a success it drives them crazy to think your doing better than them because they think your beneath them. Although I've got an incredibly thick skin and a loving husband so a vitriolic hometown doesn't even register on my radar. I also rather controversially support the stigma against me from society because it keeps the competition down ::) I don't need approval from society only my family and they support me 100%.
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