You should never quit for any man. Quit for YOU, if you feel like your current circumstances - including your choice of partner - merits it. But never ever quit FOR a man x

I agree Nelly. That is very wise .

Never for a man and love can blind you, I was in love and when the long marriage was over I was left with nothing, Didn't even know who I was anymore. Right now I have a guy that knows what I do, Ex client, Who wants to date. We get on and have a laugh but I've told him it's not going to happen. I don't want a partner to be happy that I've sucked 20 men a week off , These kind of guys are users and ex clients want to have great sex for free.Most men now are lazy, They want friends with benefits and can't be bothered to wine and dine a women because it will cost them time and money.  Maybe it's my age but I don't believe in love, I want partnership and loyalty and I don't want a man living with me. I couldn't date a guy and lie about escorting because I'm very loyal in my personal life and relationships. But I don't think many men are loyal, Men never grow up they want to feel wanted sexually and most are cowards and won't end relationships. I don't dislike men I have loads of good Male friends I just find that they are very weak compared to women. I do miss loads from being in a relationship but not enough to seek one out, I often think about seeking out a sexy guy I want to seduce without any complications. Unfortunately I get mostly old guys as clients who are lovely but I've yet to have a hunk.

But no I will not give up escorting for a guy, I gave up a career to support my ex husband and in the end he walked away with a good salary and I was left with no savings, He use to give me a weekly allowance of £25 lol I was a cheap cleaning lady, Cook and childminder for him. Being independent is the best thing a woman can be I think.

I will be retiring next month because I am moving abroad and getting married

Originally I pondered the idea of still working but just doing massage & happy ending but I would like to just leave my escorting life completely behind and start a new “normal” life where I don’t have to hide anything

It’s only tricky because of how much money I will be no longer earning

Congrats, MWM!  Does your fiance know you currently escort?

My hooker pal says if a man doesn’t accept your job then he doesn’t accept you but I find that crap because being a hooker is just a job, it’s not a part of your personality!

I wouldn't. Men tend to be unreliable don't they.

Not all men and your still young so have all the time in the world to meet a man but I don’t, I want marriage eventually and if you were utterly in love and he said to you “it’s me or the money” then you’d pick him surely?!

I would never quit being who I am for a man.

Nobody is asking you to and that isn't what the thread's about, unless you define yourself completely by what you do for a living? The question was about changing jobs (and because you decide you've had enough and want to move on with a partner, not for any other reason).

very few men are able to provide us with what we are able to provide ourselves

Of course they're not, and I don't expect them to. Why would I?

Nobody I was 'utterly in love' with would be that much of a controlling dick, so that wouldn't happen .

I meant in general, not a specific person

Or any close [romantic] relationship?