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UrbaneAspects

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Would you go if he asked you to?
« on: 12 September 2009, 11:33:57 pm »
The other day I was extended an invitation by a client I see frequently to attend an orchestra in which his (get this) partner would be playing there. its a couple days from now.

Im not so sure if I should because although his partner and him go out to stripper bars together, he doesnt exactly know about the 'other men'. And on top of that, He says its okay to "come up and say hi" to them if I see them at the reception, but to just be discreet about how we met  ???  Now, I can act it well because I have done it with someone in the past with a guy I was f/b with and once ended up meeting his wife and stepson, and his best friend who thought he was straight  :o

LOL, I feel silly even talking about this, but I just had to ask some of you how would you feel about it. Dont beat me up for not saying "no" right away though LOL. At this point it doesnt even look so good for me going because I have no one to go with, and my hair's a mess. But still...
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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #1 on: 13 September 2009, 01:40:24 am »
Thought about hiring an escort to go with? ;D
So long as he pays you upfront you are covered and can get your hair fixed! Terrible advice I know but its 1.30am.
Usual rules apply though. If you think he is arseing you around, then say you cant. Have several pre-thought out excuses at all times. Let us know what you decide.
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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #2 on: 13 September 2009, 01:54:36 am »
Sod that seems to much like hard work for me.

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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #3 on: 13 September 2009, 02:36:25 am »
Yes Joey, Amber is right in a way. If its going to turn into a mistake do you want an orchestra too! Proceed with caution. ;)
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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #4 on: 13 September 2009, 03:41:02 am »
Well basically you will have to act but without a script. Don't see many hollywood actors doing it and they get paid fuck loads so why should u!?

Thats the thing with lying it can get quite detailed, complex and fucking hard and thats with people you already know. Before you know it you are saying you are related to the queen because you are trying to get attention away from 'so how do you know my beloved then'

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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #5 on: 13 September 2009, 10:44:34 am »
Before you know it you are saying you are related to the queen because you are trying to get attention away from 'so how do you know my beloved then'

Thats what Im saying! What if he says he met me one way, and then I say I met him another way...it would just make it all so awkward. Im more so concerned if I could even have the guts to do that LOL.

And Cindy, unfortunently I dont think it'll be a paid booking. He'll be there with his hubby! We wouldnt even be sitting next to each other, I'd just simply come up and say hi if I see them at the reception. LOL so no money for an escort, and no hair do   :-[

He's actually dead-ass serious too. He sent me the entire invitation, place and time. Im just afraid to do something so brazen.

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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #6 on: 13 September 2009, 10:58:06 am »
Yes Joey, Amber is right in a way. If its going to turn into a mistake do you want an orchestra too! Proceed with caution. ;)

Are you implying that I may get killed if something goes wrong  :'(

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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #7 on: 13 September 2009, 12:22:48 pm »
Well it depends on if you want to go then. But girls get this stuff a lot, ie "Lets meet for a drink." or "I want to take you out in my new car." All unpaid of course! I try to think, hang on hes my punter not my boyfriend. He could well push for more of these evenings in the future also with sex involved afterwards. Are these men likely to leave home and walk off into the "sunset" with me? Hell no!!! They are manipulaters.  :o
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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #8 on: 13 September 2009, 01:15:26 pm »
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Yes Joey, Amber is right in a way. If its going to turn into a mistake do you want an orchestra too! Proceed with caution. Wink

Are you implying that I may get killed if something goes wrong  Cry

Thats it scare him Cindy!! Please tell me u didn't go! What have you got to gain from it? fuck all!

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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #9 on: 13 September 2009, 11:03:18 pm »
Are these men likely to leave home and walk off into the "sunset" with me? Hell no!!!

yeah that is true...good point. And no I havent gone yet, its tomorrow. I dont think Im gonna go. Just because my hair is messed up until Tuesday

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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #10 on: 14 September 2009, 03:03:50 am »
Ditch the cheeky beggar!
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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #11 on: 14 September 2009, 09:21:57 am »
LOL, no I cant do that...we have an upcoming getaway to the country coming up next month...


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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #12 on: 14 September 2009, 01:37:00 pm »
Really, Joey? Has this client taken you away somewhere (fully paid and no issues) before?

He sounds awful. No boundaries. But then again, I do like to keep all my hooker-client relationships businesslike during the times they're not in my boudoir. As in, no friendly hour-long phone calls and no bizarre requests to go to the same orchestra he's taking his partner to so I can bump into them and make up a story about how I know the guy for no actual reason because his partner probably wouldn't even ask if they didn't already know something weird was up.

Joey - come to London and socialise with us if you're really looking for something to do! :P
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Re: Would you go if he asked you to?
« Reply #13 on: 15 September 2009, 05:39:51 am »
LOL, haters...don't hate, congratulate  :D

Anyway, I decided not to go. My car starting acting up last night, so I spent the afternoon installing a new part. Yay! Im a mechanic now  :'(