To be honest no, it wouldnt offend me. We know we are fresh but you have to remember that just as we sometimes encounter manky men the men also sometimes encounter manky women. He has to feel comfortable during his booking as we do. I see nothing wrong with the comment really. Yes its a bit annoying but at the same time understandable if neither of you has met before. If I was in a bad mood it might piss me off a bit but I would usually just write back that we can share a shower if he likes. We think nothing of making sure the guys know we expect them to be daisy fresh so we should expect it back sometimes I guess lol x

Sassy slapper going on past posts, we have completely opposite end of the scale opinions on what we think is acceptable or not which is fine since this is a forum and it would be a boring old world if we were all the same but I think you must have a mega thick skin or must be great at dealing with arseholes and must be a very strong person as nothing seems to bother you when it comes to some of the stuff clients say or do prior to meeting.

As far as I see it, each and every person who walks though my door is a complete stranger and I need to feel comfortable with that person. I cannot judge them for who they really are as I don't know them nor do I know a thing about them so I can only judge them as a potential client based on the dealings I have with them, anything doesn't sit right with me and I do not meet.

Also bearing in mind that we offer a very different service so you will cater for many more clients than I do so what you may enjoy and think is acceptable, I don't.

This guy sounded like a total chav, I prefer not to meet with guys like that but that aside this guy thinks I am gonna be fucking from the roof tops like a revolving door,  pure fucked, messed up, drained and done in by 1.30pm in the day??

So he has the wrong idea completely of who I am and what I offer which makes me think that if I did meet him, he would come in and treat me like some sort of cock crazed porn star which couldn't be any further from what I offer.

Lots of the more adventurous or kinky guys out there will be put off me because I can't give them what they want but luckily for me, I am busy meeting with guys who I am compatible with. I save all the porn/kinky stuff for my bf when I have one who I am attracted to, have feelins for, know is clean, trust etc etc etc.

We all have very different standards as to what we thinks acceptable or not, I have zero tolerance for idiots which is exactly why I never use feedback to make my decisions, I only use it as a brief guide. What may be acceptable for one escort won't be for the next.

Sassy!

I do see it from their point of view, I am well aware that coming to see any escort for the first time can and will be a nerve wracking experience, I also know that some may have been greeted at the door by a fake or a scammer or may have walked into a hell hole or worse and yes some may have been greeted by a sweaty conveyor belt but this is my whole point about reading my profile before picking up the phone or sending an email, if they did that then they would know that I am not like that and with 300 positive feedback and not a negative in sight then I think anyone would realise there is a pattern there.

I treat my clients with the utmost respect and I expect the same back, the clients that I moan about on here are what I class as undesirables to my standards.

With all you just said about how the client may be feeling, I totally get that and feel for all the decent clients out there who must walk into some of these situations but as I say again, I am NEVER talking about those clients on here, I am talking about all the idiots.

So when an idiot phones me up and say's..........

Awrite doll, much tae pump up the arse for an hour? Am I seriously expected to see it from their point of view that they may be nervous about seeing an escort? I think not!

What about the guys out there who target escorts to rob or attack them (which has happened to me 3 times, twice robbed and once attacked) Am I suppose to be feeling sorry for them?

So the point I am making is that any decent client out there need not worry at all at what he's walking into with me providing he's happy with what I offer and I do completely understand what I may be like for them with nerves walking into the unknown but that's the choice they make when punting and that's the choice I make having the unknown come to me as an escort but naturally I want to keep the dangerous clients and undesirables to a minimum.

Crazies aside, if I have a guy phone me up asking me if OWO is on offer then to me that's a numpty that hasn't bothered to read a word of my profile or even just my service list so I would not see that person whereas you would because you would cater for that sort of client so what I am saying is there is a massive difference between the both of us as to what we find acceptable.

We can't all have all these crazy, weird and rude clients and you have zero so I think your just far better than some of us at dealing with them.

For every bad man out there, escorts are extremely vulnerable to them and that's always something that's on the back of my mind. Men are naturally stronger than women so 9 times out of 10 they will always have the upper hand if they wanted to try any funny business and I always try to avoid awkward situations aswell so if I don't like the sound of someone for whatever reason I wonder that if they can't sound like the type of person I would want to be alone in a room with for a whole 90 seconds on the phone then there's no way they are going to make me comfortable in person.

I know I am super fussy about who I see but I've been busy and met my financial target for 2 and a half years now so being careful has never caused me any problems. Back when I was attacked and robbed and a few other nasty things is all when I was new, naive, clueless and had my guard down.

I wouldn't be offended, because his behavior reflects badly on him, not on you. He could have just gotten back to you and asked to bring the appointment forward because his schedule had changed. Instead he offered this boorish explanation of why he was changing the time. Not the sharpest tool in the wood shed, clearly.
I'm more worried about the guys who want to be the last of the day. Usually they're either boundary pushers who think they can linger and loiter beyond the time they're paying for, since I'm not expecting anybody else that day, or, even more sinister, they reckon I'll have a stack of cash in the house they can relieve me of.

I would be a little offended precisely because that that kind of boorish explanation is just plain unneccessary and showed him up totally.  I would also actually be thankful that his character showed though so blatently before a booking, and releived that I wouldn't actually have to spend any time with him.

I think being nervous and not sure about procedure etc is a little different from this kind of behaviour, whereby the only reason you are getting the attitude/disrespect, whatever you want to call it,  is precisely because you are an escort and the person concerned has very stereotypical views about what an escort is/should be.

I have found with experience that guys with this kind of attitude tend to be the ones that don't read profiles, just ring a number and then go to an appointment not knowing what they will get, or even what the girl will look like , if the place will be clean etc etc.  Then they are the ones that complain very loudly when the truth is, what do they expect.

Haha tbh honest if someone phoned up and asked "how much to pump you up the arse for an hour" I would just laugh and explain how much it is but that they dont have a hope in hells chance of doing it for an hour because none can fuck for an hour unless they are deliberately holding back from coming and I just dont deal with that. I would just say "times up" if they stopped a couple of times. I would also suggest that a fuck-a-cup may be more up their street.

We all get these guys. Ive had a lovely little spat of the "suck us off for ?20" texts lately. I usually just text back saying something like "haha very funny". You just have to laugh at the piss takers because if you dont its not their heads that get messed up its your own x

Quote from: happyhappyjoyjoy on 09 June 2014, 02:58:18 pm

I had someone call up and then said "are you tight?"

My answer to this is usually "No it's the size of the Grand Canyon"

did he get straight back to you and book ?