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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: ladyofthemansion on 20 June 2016, 04:22:56 pm
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I get guys asking for oral a lot. It's not on my list of services but wonder if the guys would like that.
Thing is I wouldn't do it without a condom. Do any of you think guys would prefer that from a handjob? I wouldn't understand why if they did.
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Not possessing a cock it's hard to say, but I think the vast majority of men love receiving oral, some are just a bit more paranoid about STIs, hence OW. My guess would be a handjob feels completely different.
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Yes, I think expecting people here to speak for punters is a bit of a tall order. And we all know how much fun it is when they decide they can speak for us :).
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You can always offer them the option if you like.
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I get guys asking for oral a lot. It's not on my list of services but wonder if the guys would like that.
Thing is I wouldn't do it without a condom. Do any of you think guys would prefer that from a handjob? I wouldn't understand why if they did.
The other lady's already said what I was thinking.
I think that's something your gonna need to ask your clients and get feedback that way from them.
But my guess would be that oral and a handjob (which they can do themselves and no doubt better than us) are completely different things altogether.
Is oral WITH condom off the menu with you aswell?
xx
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Done well, a hand job can be physically more exciting than intercourse, but obviously most clients are not just there for physical experiences.
The fact that plenty of female escorts offer OW and get work should suggest to you that there is a demand for it.
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I only offer oral with condom and I think most guys are just happy to get a BJ. I have had people ask for it when booking and when told I don't do it, some of them change their mind, that's their choice.
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I get guys asking for oral a lot. It's not on my list of services but wonder if the guys would like that.
Thing is I wouldn't do it without a condom. Do any of you think guys would prefer that from a handjob? I wouldn't understand why if they did.
The other lady's already said what I was thinking.
I think that's something your gonna need to ask your clients and get feedback that way from them.
But my guess would be that oral and a handjob (which they can do themselves and no doubt better than us) are completely different things altogether.
Is oral WITH condom off the menu with you aswell?
xx
At the moment not offering oral with. But am getting a sore wrist lately lol. X
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I get guys asking for oral a lot. It's not on my list of services but wonder if the guys would like that.
Thing is I wouldn't do it without a condom. Do any of you think guys would prefer that from a handjob? I wouldn't understand why if they did.
The other lady's already said what I was thinking.
I think that's something your gonna need to ask your clients and get feedback that way from them.
But my guess would be that oral and a handjob (which they can do themselves and no doubt better than us) are completely different things altogether.
Is oral WITH condom off the menu with you aswell?
xx
At the moment not offering oral with. But am getting a sore wrist lately lol. X
Is there any particular reason why oral is off the menu completely? No need to answer if your not comfortable answering that question.
I used to do oral WITH a condom and really had no problems at all work wise or at least I didn't think I did as I always got as much work as I wanted. The most I want per day though is 2 or 3 clients maximum so it was fine for me. You would maybe struggle if you wanted to see 6 guys a day, full time.
I only really started doing oral without because I was sick of being made to feel inadequate as an escort by some punters even although I've always been honest about what I offer and nobody made them pick the phone up to book me but since offering OWO, I've noticed a massive difference in how much my phone rings so maybe without realising it, only offering OW did affect the amount of work I was attracting.
I went to my gum clinic and asked about the risks with OWO before I ever offered it, I get regular check ups (I always did before anyway only now I get throat swabs done too) and NOBODY gets OWO without showering at my place first.
And I have to say, I do enjoy giving OWO better now providing they're clean and I think it's definitely improved my service.
xx
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The bit is Kendra, even taking a shower doesn't guarantee they don't have an STI and if passed to you orally could possibly be passed on to subsequent clients.
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The bit is Kendra, even taking a shower doesn't guarantee they don't have an STI and if passed to you orally could possibly be passed on to subsequent clients.
Absolutely true.
No I get them to use the shower to make sure they're fresh and clean is all.
I have spoken to numerous people at my local clinic and each of them have told me the risks are very low and that the risks are higher with things like CIM which is something I don't offer anyway but even then....the risks are low.
I also get my throat swabbed every 6 weeks. They keep telling me that I don't need to go any more frequent than every 3 months but I still like that extra little peace of mind.
Most sexual services come with an element of risk.
Since day one, I've only ever offered what I'm comfortable with and no more.
xx
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Done well, a hand job can be physically more exciting than intercourse, but obviously most clients are not just there for physical experiences.
I agree. It seems vaginal p sex is least popular, if not unpopular it's good to have it but it seems it does not give enough excitement (or pressure). I'm tight but it doesn't have the same anatomy as anal passage or a good hand grip. ::) :(
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I get guys asking for oral a lot. It's not on my list of services but wonder if the guys would like that.
Thing is I wouldn't do it without a condom. Do any of you think guys would prefer that from a handjob? I wouldn't understand why if they did.
Hi LOTM
I do oral with a condom & have been in the industry a long time. There's lots of guys who will only see girls you do protected oral.
I do think some guys would prefer it & definitely worth asking them if your comfortable doing it.
Natalie x
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I get guys asking for oral a lot. It's not on my list of services but wonder if the guys would like that.
Thing is I wouldn't do it without a condom. Do any of you think guys would prefer that from a handjob? I wouldn't understand why if they did.
But my guess would be that oral and a handjob (which they can do themselves and no doubt better than us) are completely different things altogether.
xx
A handjob by someone else's hand is much nicer, or so my clients say anyway.
I have a great technique apparently ;D
X
Natalie x
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I offer both: handjob and covered oral (but no owo), and I would say 40% ask for oral, but then many of them, after a while often say 'oh it feels very nice, but can we go back to the hand'. Maybe I'm just crap at giving oral, or maybe a handjob feels nicer than covered oral.