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darlington_girl

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Workers with children?
« on: 20 November 2009, 08:55:34 pm »
Just going from another topic about what a friend said to me... Is it bad to be an escort if you have children? I'm not too sure how common or uncommon it is for workers to be mothers, or as my ex-friend suggested is it too 'un-respectable' to sell sex for money when you're a mother??  ::)  ::) Though it doesn't matter when you're providing and getting them into the better school does it..  :P
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Violette

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Re: Workers with children?
« Reply #1 on: 21 November 2009, 07:33:55 am »
Is this the same friend who basically behaved like you had leprosy when you mention working as an escort?
The blinkered world these people live in. I seriously suggest you stop trying to talk to these small-minded individuals. Stupidity like that will rot your brain.

 
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Ooohlala

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Re: Workers with children?
« Reply #2 on: 21 November 2009, 10:46:45 am »
I have a small child, and whenever I've done a job I either go and do a big food shop, pay a bill I've been worrying about or buy something to make my son smile. It takes away some of the stress of being a single mother, and that feels pretty damn good, I can tell you! The most important thing is that we provide for and take good care of our children, HOW we do it ISN'T IMPORTANT. We aren't breaking the law. I must admit I had pangs of guilt at first, but seeing the fridge full and my son's little face when I treat him to something nice soon got rid of that!

Also, to echo what Violette said, that friend sounds pretty poisonous. Either stay away or don't tell them anymore about what you do. I personally don't share that part of my life with my friends and family, there are enough wonderful, level headed and kind women on this site who understand and who have given me all the help and advice I need. Vive la Saafe!

Sophie
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Violette

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Re: Workers with children?
« Reply #3 on: 21 November 2009, 02:57:45 pm »
I too have a child, and as a mother when you are able to meet your child's needs, all else fades into the back ground. Especially when out of the blue they tell you they love you, you can float on the fumes of that bit of affection for months. Well fed children are happy children, couple that with being well cared for and interacted with by the parent, what more can you ask for? So if doing this job makes me 'un-respectful' in the eyes of your ex friend, she really needs to grown up and get rid of her rose colored glasses.
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Ooohlala

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Re: Workers with children?
« Reply #4 on: 21 November 2009, 03:02:42 pm »

Here here!!  ;D
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darlington_girl

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Re: Workers with children?
« Reply #5 on: 21 November 2009, 10:48:40 pm »
I could cry! Bless yous. Thank you thank you so much!! Yes was just on the back of that and recently a message i got from her. You're right though i know that but you know it puts doubts in your head and then you mull it over and over again.. But bring it on. Put my mind at rest now :-) thanks again :-) xxx
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Ooohlala

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Re: Workers with children?
« Reply #6 on: 21 November 2009, 11:25:49 pm »
You're welcome honey! Keep your chin up and your head held high  ;D and I dare to bet that you work a hell of a lot harder for your money than your so called friend does! Tell her to stick that up her pipe and smoke it!  :P
(that's the wine talkin' hehe)
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Milfminx

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Re: Workers with children?
« Reply #7 on: 21 November 2009, 11:42:52 pm »
I agree with all of you and as a mature escort and a mother believe me I have been there , done that etc, however
as Violette says all else fades into the background, I recently saw my daughter recieve her degree and I was bursting with pride, I got her there and that is what matters, some years ago my son received his degree and I got him there, I got them there through very different means but the end result was the same, as a mature lady I have done it all I think , cleaning dirty rooms and toilets after dirty people, production lines with leery old men, door to door crap when you really want to cry .................. you know the drill, I hold my head up , what I do is what I do, there are a lot worse things in this world girls................  chin up pets
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xxxtinyxxx

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Re: Workers with children?
« Reply #8 on: 21 November 2009, 11:51:23 pm »
Well said!

I have 3 children i work as an escort part time and have an everyday job as well, i do what i have to do to make my children's life comfortable. My heart swells when i see the excitement in my children's faces when we go on days out or they get a new toy that they have begged me for. Their happiness is absolutely priceless to me, no money in the world could buy it, but it definitely helps!!!!

Love N' Hugz.

Mak.
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Milfminx

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Re: Workers with children?
« Reply #9 on: 22 November 2009, 01:31:31 am »
xxxtinyxx

Well done hun it has it rewards   :-*
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Re: Workers with children?
« Reply #10 on: 22 November 2009, 04:04:12 am »
I don't have children, but I see nothing wrong with earning money to support them by escorting, in allows working flexible hours, with a decent income and being able to be there for them when they need you.
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