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prettywoman__1541

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Work persona / real life persona
« on: 14 April 2014, 04:49:13 am »
What are you like outside off being a prossie? How much do you spend to keep up your appearance? What is your typical day like?!
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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #1 on: 14 April 2014, 09:59:40 am »
Is this really a question for advice to do with escorting. I notice no one is rushing to answer.

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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #2 on: 14 April 2014, 10:59:08 am »
I read this but had nothing to say because I'm just normal like everyone else.  Anything more specific is private and I don't want to discuss it on here.

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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #3 on: 14 April 2014, 11:44:54 am »
Washing, ironing, shopping, housework etc...

And the occasional lunch with friends...

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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #4 on: 14 April 2014, 11:57:18 am »
^^^^^ What they said.  I just go in to Granny mode and no one would guess what I've been up to.  ::)
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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #5 on: 14 April 2014, 08:07:17 pm »
Cooking, cleaning, days out... We all live normal lives, there's nothing glam about what we do x

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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #6 on: 15 April 2014, 12:15:48 pm »
Cooking, laundry, housework, odd trip to beauty salon/hairdresser, fitness classes/gym, theatre, meal outs, usual stuff

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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #7 on: 15 April 2014, 03:02:42 pm »
Depends if I am well enough to work  If I am then it is work, shopping, cooking cleaning and if not I am in bed curled up in a ball covered in pillows and wedges.
As for keeping up my appearance. Once a month a small trim, Once a month get nails done and that's it.  I don't use sunbeds or have fake tan, I don't go for loads of beauty therapies as I find a daily cold shower and exfoliation is good enough
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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #8 on: 15 April 2014, 09:20:22 pm »
Do you find you differ??

Personally for me, I cant wrap my head around the fact I have happily posed and have photos online of myself in crotchless knickers and various assortment of lingerie with men paying for my body, yet I am way too self-conscious still to wear a bikini during the summer! I hide behind a top and shorts or one of those dress style cozzies from AA.

I'm also painfully shy in my own life with people my own age, yet am able to just chat away and seduce (attempt to at least haha).

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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #9 on: 15 April 2014, 09:28:03 pm »
I've merged this with the one from the other day, since I think it's a similar topic.

It's not worth me commenting because I'm pretty much the same all the time and far too lazy to put an act on :).

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« Reply #10 on: 15 April 2014, 09:30:41 pm »
Oop brainfreeze sorry! Thanks  ;D ;D

I think a big part of it is to do with no one in real life knowing about it so I can be however I want and then if I choose to walk away it's like it had never happened, so I don't have to worry about being shy out of self-consciousness of what people who know me in my real life will think

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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #11 on: 15 April 2014, 10:42:16 pm »
Do you find you differ??

Personally for me, I cant wrap my head around the fact I have happily posed and have photos online of myself in crotchless knickers and various assortment of lingerie with men paying for my body, yet I am way too self-conscious still to wear a bikini during the summer! I hide behind a top and shorts or one of those dress style cozzies from AA.

I'm also painfully shy in my own life with people my own age, yet am able to just chat away and seduce (attempt to at least haha).

Haha this made me laugh! This is me. I dress like a beatnik nerd when I'm not working and the only make up I wear when "off-duty" is to cover up my acne. I also wear granny knickers and those t-shirt bras you buy in 3 for 2 type offers! I am quite shy and introverted as well. That even spills into my work because I still rarely look customers in the eye  :o

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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #12 on: 15 April 2014, 10:43:43 pm »
I couldn't be more different in RL than i am when in escort mode. The escort me is a well spoken, well educated, butter wouldn't melt, mind your P's and Q's sort of girl. Whilst the real me couldn't be further from middle class if i tried - and i swear like a builder lol, they seem to believe my persona though, apparently i'm a good actress

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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #13 on: 16 April 2014, 10:22:54 am »

I'm also painfully shy in my own life with people my own age, yet am able to just chat away and seduce (attempt to at least haha).

I have the same problem! I'm very shy in my personal life and because of this I tend to become standoffish when men try to approach me in real life. But on-the-clock Cara is a flirtatious temptress seducing men into paying for my time. But other than this problem, my prossie's personality mirrors my regular self except with the grumpiness, temper and cattiness toned down.

I have my hair color maintained every 5 weeks as my roots grow too fast. I have a pedi done every 3 weeks. And am currently undergoing IPL to have unwanted hair removed. Best decision ever. Gone are the days I have to shave my legs daily for client meets. If I wasn't an escort, I would wear pants more.

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Re: Work persona / real life persona
« Reply #14 on: 16 April 2014, 11:06:36 am »
Oh yes I forgot to say about beauty, I get laser hair removal after 6-8 weeks (best money ever spent), a rigorous skincare regime including chemical exfoliates and natural oils in my hair each week. Mani/pedi I tend to do myself at home just a file and polish as I keep my nails shorts due to wearing contact lenses.