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Miss-Olivia

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Words that make you cringe!
« on: 05 August 2015, 06:15:44 pm »
Is it just me or do certain words put you off taking a booking..... Just got an email from someone, sounded ok, genuine enough but then ended the email with "teeheehee" that along with being called "sexypants" makes me want to be sick! Tell me it's not just me!

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« Reply #1 on: 05 August 2015, 06:30:06 pm »
That guy sounds like an old timer lol. I got an email today "hi hunny your cunt is nice" no booking though from it & I probably wouldn't entertain him. I detest "awesome", "my bad", "hun & babe" - Americanized parlance mainly & anything trending. I'm coming around to the word Pussy, it's never been one I've liked.
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Re: Words that make you cringe!
« Reply #2 on: 05 August 2015, 06:32:45 pm »
loool. It's not just you. Trust. Anything along the line of:-

Sweet Cheeks, babe, baby, bb, love, sweetie makes me just not want to accept the booking. :FF
Not sure what it is to be honest. Probaly cuz I feel as though those are words you use when you feel affection for someone, not someone you have to pay to sleep with you. My bf calls me that cuz he loves me. when a punter does it its sickening. Just imagining some smelly fat ugly old man calling you baby. ewww  :-X

And for the tehehehe at the end of the email. WTF? what grown man types that lolz. You have to wonder if he is mentally slow.

Don't know why they do it. Perhaps they think we'd be flattered? But nah. it's similar to an ugly guy chatting you up. Just 3 times worse.

Miss-Olivia

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Re: Words that make you cringe!
« Reply #3 on: 05 August 2015, 06:38:50 pm »
Haha really.... How hard is it to be polite introduce yourself and ask for a booking. Such small things put me off  clients.... Speaking to someone just now and he asks " why are you doing this, I would think someone who has a job and car wouldn't need it, is it for fun or extra cash?"  Why does he think I do it! Deleted and blocked!

Oh god I hate sweet cheeks to, and the ones who write shexi instead of sexy...... Really! X

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« Reply #4 on: 05 August 2015, 06:42:23 pm »
And for the tehehehe at the end of the email. WTF? what grown man types that lolz. You have to wonder if he is mentally slow.

Yep, that would get him filed under 'oddball' and I'd suddenly be very busy, at least unless the washingmachine had broken down or something. I can't picture any normal adult male writing that, and I'd have him ingrained in my head as being some precocious twelve year old whose nanny hadn't noticed he was on Adultwork even if he turned out to be 57 ;D.

My pet hate in terms of words rather than the stupid 'anything instead of my name' greetings which I'm pretty sure most people loathe (and we have a similar thread somewhere as I remember posting it before) is people using the word 'meet' as a noun instead of 'booking' or 'incall' or even 'appointment' as well as them asking if we can 'meet' or 'meet up'. Either they come to me or I go to them - I'm not 'meeting' them anywhere. I don't phone my surgery and ask if I can 'meet up with' the doctor.

To be fair though, grown adults typing things like 'lolz' into a thread criticising others' use of English has an element of pot and kettle about it ;).

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« Reply #5 on: 05 August 2015, 07:33:28 pm »
And for the tehehehe at the end of the email. WTF? what grown man types that lolz. You have to wonder if he is mentally slow.

Yep, that would get him filed under 'oddball' and I'd suddenly be very busy, at least unless the washingmachine had broken down or something. I can't picture any normal adult male writing that, and I'd have him ingrained in my head as being some precocious twelve year old whose nanny hadn't noticed he was on Adultwork even if he turned out to be 57 ;D.

My pet hate in terms of words rather than the stupid 'anything instead of my name' greetings which I'm pretty sure most people loathe (and we have a similar thread somewhere as I remember posting it before) is people using the word 'meet' as a noun instead of 'booking' or 'incall' or even 'appointment' as well as them asking if we can 'meet' or 'meet up'. Either they come to me or I go to them - I'm not 'meeting' them anywhere. I don't phone my surgery and ask if I can 'meet up with' the doctor.

To be fair though, grown adults typing things like 'lolz' into a thread criticising others' use of English has an element of pot and kettle about it ;).

Oh gosh, yes the "meet" or "meet up" I bloody loathe those and I think I'm still allowed to use the word LOL ;D I only just turned 20, straight out of college so I think I can get away with it. Don't think I'll still be saying LOL when I'm 50 though :-\ much less "teehehee" :o

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« Reply #6 on: 05 August 2015, 07:35:14 pm »
I cringe when guys put in an email or say to my face "play" "playtime" or "I love playing with you" just referring to bookings as play for some reason really cringes me out , I hate lol too and sexy, Hun anything like that x
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« Reply #7 on: 05 August 2015, 07:43:19 pm »
I cringe when guys put in an email or say to my face "play" "playtime" or "I love playing with you" just referring to bookings as play for some reason really cringes me out , I hate lol too and sexy, Hun anything like that x

Reminds me of a guy who texted me saying "Text me if you want to meet up for fun and money" ???

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« Reply #8 on: 05 August 2015, 07:55:13 pm »
"hehehe" in texts, freaks me out, sounds like some dirty old man lol  ;D
Another one I hate is the ones that say I'm the most beautiful thing they've ever seen, I'm amazing, blah blah blah.
I KNOW I'm not the most beautiful thing on the planet, I'm also not amazing and my beauty isn't blinding, so either book or fuck off  ;)
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Re: Words that make you cringe!
« Reply #9 on: 05 August 2015, 07:58:15 pm »
it's got to be 'fingering'!

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« Reply #10 on: 05 August 2015, 08:00:20 pm »
When they say they'd like to worship me like the goddess I am! X
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« Reply #11 on: 05 August 2015, 08:08:27 pm »
I HATE when guys email and say "Can I book an appointment with you" appointment? Am I your doctor? I hate that. Or "Can I book for an afternoon session" can't stand that either LOL! Another word I loathe is fanny! It makes me cringe every time I hear it.

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« Reply #12 on: 05 August 2015, 08:31:46 pm »
I don't mind appointment or session at all, i prefer it to be unemotional, I don't like the word pussy, prefer cunt! I hate flowery language x
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« Reply #13 on: 05 August 2015, 09:12:38 pm »
I don't mind appointment or session at all, i prefer it to be unemotional, I don't like the word pussy, prefer cunt! I hate flowery language x
Personally I prefer booking. I just think "appointment" sounds really formal when we are gonna have sex haha! I don't really like the word pussy either, I don't think there is a flattering word for the vagina!   ;D;D

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« Reply #14 on: 05 August 2015, 09:14:37 pm »
Is it just me or do certain words put you off taking a booking..... Just got an email from someone, sounded ok, genuine enough but then ended the email with "teeheehee" that along with being called "sexypants" makes me want to be sick! Tell me it's not just me!

Oh god, grown men who say 'teehee' in any context are terrifying  :-X