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Jodie.jay

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Wife turning up
« on: 26 September 2019, 12:48:41 pm »
Has anyone had a client's wife turn up at their door? Had a regulars wife post pictures through my letter box with some not so nice writing on. And saying shes off to the police? Truth is I'm actually so scared. Can I get done for been a sex worker? Scared she will turn up when family is here more important when my daughter is here with me.

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #1 on: 26 September 2019, 12:55:53 pm »
No you can't get done for being a sex worker as it isn't illegal.She on the other hand can get done for harrassment though.

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #2 on: 26 September 2019, 01:05:17 pm »
Id be off to the police station today with the paper with her fingerprints to log a complaint. Its easy. Thats evidence. She's crossed the line. Shes breaking the law not you.how did she get your address?
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Jodie.jay

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #3 on: 26 September 2019, 01:23:52 pm »
I never thought of finger prints, I'm definitely keeping them I may call non emergency number and log it. I have no clue how she got my address I think he may have told her where I live? Or she found messages. I'm scared to take any bookings now. I'm glad I cant be done for it thank you for giving me peace of mind.

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #4 on: 26 September 2019, 01:33:04 pm »
Oh got to ask... did you see this person  in the flesh as it could be something else or the client messing you?
Was there a client dispute?
Have you got cctv?
 
Dont let it loose you work. They want you to be scared. I've used 101 and they give you a crime number so its a good start. Theyre helpful. I asked about the address to suss out whether he's revealed or if your address was stored by him or by text directions from your end. Just a thought.
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Jodie.jay

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #5 on: 26 September 2019, 01:39:02 pm »
No I didn't see the person just assumed with what was wrote calling me a whore and saying I pray on wife's husbands. The pictures are of the client and a woman. I'm definitely going to call 101 and log it, I'm so scared to take a booking but once I see one I think I'll get over it. Really put me on edge massively

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #6 on: 26 September 2019, 02:23:23 pm »
Id be off to the police station today with the paper with her fingerprints to log a complaint. Its easy. Thats evidence. She's crossed the line. Shes breaking the law not you.how did she get your address?

+ Plus. This woman is engaging in a crime (harassment), you're not. Problem is she sounds a bit mentally unbalanced so I'm not sure engaging in drama with this person is a good idea. i would contact your client and let him know, then tell him you're a discreet person and because of this unfortunate incident you can't see him again. For the sake of your mental health I would just brush it off. If she pulls any other stunt then go to the police with her notes, messages etc...and if she ever comes to your house again take a picture of her with your mobile phone too as proof.
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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #7 on: 26 September 2019, 02:43:39 pm »
That's awful. I think it's pretty spineless to post things through someone's door. Doesn't sound she's got the guts to confront you to your face. Definitely file a police complaint for harassment. If she does turn up record it on your phone, through the window don't answer the door to anyone you don't know.

You can buy those CCTV wifi doorbells quite cheaply now & they activate when someone is by your front/back door.

Jodie.jay

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #8 on: 26 September 2019, 03:03:15 pm »
Thanks everyone for the advice, definitely taking it to police and I'm keeping these and any more if she returns. So scared I'm gonna be outed, I'm pretty sure the client knows with her having my address. Think I'll lay low for a little bit and hope it blows over, I'm not gonna confront her if she comes back she seems a little unhinged but definitely gonna keep note of everything. And getting some sort of CCTV I just hope I dont come across anymore angry wife's

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #9 on: 26 September 2019, 03:12:17 pm »
Horrible situation to find yourself in and I hope things settle and you are left alone.  I have to say though I am still surprised women take up this work in this country not knowing whether they are breaking the law or not. Are you not British?

We do not lead husbands astray, they seek us out. It could be said if we didn't advertise they would not book us but they would be finding extra sex somewhere!  Some wives on learning their other half has paid a prostitute is just a step too far and it must be a huge and upsetting shock for them I suppose.

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #10 on: 26 September 2019, 06:33:19 pm »
I'm British, I thought is wasnt illegal but I then started to question it and doubting myself. It must be awful to find out but to behave like that is a too much, Its got to hurt definitely but if hed not booked me he would have booked another lady I'm sure or even looked for an affair. I'm so shaken I hope this is all she does and its dropped 🤞

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #11 on: 26 September 2019, 06:46:14 pm »
If you definately knows it is that clients wife i would contact him telling him to tell her what you are doing is not illegal and if this carries on you will be making a complaint to police for harassment and keeping evidence.

For it to be harassment you would need to tell the person to stop contacting you. In a lot of cases police usually tell you to block them if by phone or change email addresses only then if it still continues police can act. But if you contact him telling him this to tell her and it continues then you have evidence you asked for it to stop.

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #12 on: 26 September 2019, 09:28:54 pm »
I don't really want to contact him I think it may make matters worse if I did? I'm assuming he must know that she knows. I'm hoping it's an isolated thing and I'll hear no more from this but ill see I suppose

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #13 on: 27 September 2019, 12:45:03 am »
I never thought of finger prints, I'm definitely keeping them I may call non emergency number and log it. I have no clue how she got my address I think he may have told her where I live? Or she found messages. I'm scared to take any bookings now. I'm glad I cant be done for it thank you for giving me peace of mind.
I certainly would not bother with the police or anyone or forum until a crime has actually been committed.
Finger prints? think you have been watching too may episodes of CSI - ignore and move on

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Re: Wife turning up
« Reply #14 on: 27 September 2019, 10:45:28 am »
Well sending threatening and abusive mail through someones door could be considered a crime primarily under Malicious Communications and Harassment.A police website I looked at say's this about it:The Malicious Communications Act 1988 is a British Act of Parliament that makes it illegal in England and Wales to "send or deliver letters or other articles for the purpose of causing distress or anxiety".
Regardless of whether there are fingerprints on it or not it is worth keeping hold of in case anything should escalate.It is quite likely the police will have a word with this person and that would be enough for them to back off.
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