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Author Topic: WHY WHY WHY is AW set up to put in bookings without any prior communication?!  (Read 4428 times)

Fabulassie

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I have to have my times available if I want to use "available today" although I guess I could put the only time every day as a very narrow window. Of course, that would mean that silly punters who can't read would think I'm actually only available one hour a day.

I just hate when their first contact is via a booking. As if they were ordering a takeaway delivery via a website.

What I do is email them and say thank you for the booking request but I will need to communicate with them, first.

My biggest fear is someone putting a booking through just so they can leave arsey "feedback only."

TheLittleMatchGirl

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They can't leave feedback unless you confirm it.
I agree though about the takeaway thing. I just fill out the entire grid as available as I'd have to update it all the time, they generally always message to ask when I'm available anyway
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Louisa

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it's rubbish. I had one of those, and was in the middle of my exams, and tolerance levels were at an all time low.. I messaged the guy telling him it was rude to just expect me to be available at any time of any day, it clearly says on my profile I have a life outside of AW etc etc.. so what does he then do? Leave me a 'feedback only' saying that I had been rude to him..  I replied saying the profile is there to be read, and he clearly hadn't read it..

Long story short, yes AW have a few creases still to be ironed out in their system.. the number of people who see a profile they like and just message/book without clearly having taken the time to find out the basic info is both laughable and shocking..  ;D

ah well.. as long as they keep subscribing to the PG it's all ok I guess ;D

Rosa

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I don't rant, I just send a polite email requesting an introduction and confirmation they wish to go ahead.

They either reply, or they don't, this seems to prevent escalation and accusations of rudeness.

Doesn't mean it's annoying if you've explained this clearly in your profile. Also be aware that the mobile app doesn't automatically open up the main body of your profile - only your summary and contact details, so this can often go unread for this reason.

The way AW is laid out does to some people make it look like that is how to make a booking, on the other side the amount of guys who don't understand you do need to submit a form to leave feedback is also fairly high so I can understand how misleading the whole thing can be. A fair few have emailed me after the booking to ask why I've not left them feedback, often as if I've not bothered. I reply explaining it can only be left if the booking system is used. If someone asks me before the booking I'll then advise on submitting a form.
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Nia Hope

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They can't leave feedback unless you confirm it.
I agree though about the takeaway thing. I just fill out the entire grid as available as I'd have to update it all the time, they generally always message to ask when I'm available anyway
They can leave feedback only, and some guys do if you don't respond to the booking request, usually with a bad comment, I just delete these type of booking requests x
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Erotic flower

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They can't leave feedback unless you confirm it.
I agree though about the takeaway thing. I just fill out the entire grid as available as I'd have to update it all the time, they generally always message to ask when I'm available anyway
I am careful with the availability booking screen times nowadays as had guys booking at stupid hours and not even made contact to confirm after id text them to call me back  I just cancelled it  not had any feedback left at all though

Nia Hope

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I am still curious as to why aw allow the system to  let clients leave feedback only? How does this benefit anyone! It is often abused by weird stalker/nasty people too, x
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AnnaBBW

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After you pay for 'Available Today' you can clear your availability schedule so clients are unable to submit a booking request without contacting you first.

Nia Hope

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After you pay for 'Available Today' you can clear your availability schedule so clients are unable to submit a booking request without contacting you first.
I don't usually pay for available today and luckily I'm still busy, I did start making my diary unavailable to stop random booking requests but a few clients commented on me being unavailable all week! Just wish aw would stop this option altogether as it's pointless in my opinion x
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Ieaio

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Yep i got some arsey feedback only from a guy who "Travelled down to my general area" despite me not confirming his booking nor even saying a word to him. Just one of those things you've got to put up with with adultwork & think of the positives of the site aka your main source of clientele :)

Fabulassie

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When I get one of those uninvited booking requests, I will email them and tell them that I can't accept a booking without communicating, first.

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Even more annoying are the pillocks who put in a booking request for like 30 mins before they want to see you with no communication!

BibiofLeeds

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When I get one of those uninvited booking requests, I will email them and tell them that I can't accept a booking without communicating, first.
Me too it says clearly enough on my profile to ring or email first. Its the usual prats who can't/won't take 5 mins to ring a profile that basically walks them through booking etc.

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I am still curious as to why aw allow the system to  let clients leave feedback only? How does this benefit anyone! It is often abused by weird stalker/nasty people too, x

I think the reason they allow it is so that if a client has a booking with an escort and the booking does take place (but the escort doesn't confirm it for whatever reason) they can still leave a comment about the booking. So if the booking was really bad, a client could leave feedback only to warn others even if escort didn't confirm it. Obviously it's a flawed system as some guys do just use it to post nasty comments seemingly for the sake of it  ::)

Erotic flower

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Even more annoying are the pillocks who put in a booking request for like 30 mins before they want to see you with no communication!
I get these too and my booking screen slots are blank so how  do they manage to use it I've no idea.!
I delete their booking after trying to call them often getting voice mail then no feedback left fortunately.