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Mellow

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Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« on: 10 October 2011, 09:55:19 am »
Ok someone said this to me recently (who knows what I do) and it irritated the hell out of me, although I couldn't entirely work out why except that they may think they are 'above' paying or something like that.  It must be more than that tho to annoy me so much!
Any thoughts ladies?
Oh yes he then when on to brag about how he could get the pick of the ladies......for free!

strawberry

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Re: Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« Reply #1 on: 10 October 2011, 10:26:24 am »
It's a fair enough statement, and his choice.

Mellow

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Re: Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« Reply #2 on: 10 October 2011, 10:31:52 am »
I think it stung me A LOT because it was just after I'd told him what I do.  I won't be making that mistake again

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« Reply #3 on: 10 October 2011, 10:37:45 am »
I think it stung me A LOT because it was just after I'd told him what I do.  I won't be making that mistake again

Yes but you weren't asking him to pay for it, just telling him this is your job. I'd say this was a defensive statement on his behalf.

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Re: Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« Reply #4 on: 10 October 2011, 11:09:06 am »
Unless he's supremely attractive (and even then), it's unlikely he can 'have' the range of women available to him through paid means. There are many things in the world one can have for free or pay for, and the decision depends upon needs and circumstances and the quality and availability of the 'free' version. But the fact is, with sex, that demand for women will always outstrip supply: hence, a market for paid sex.

[Also I was lurking on Punternet last night and someone had in their signature: "The difference between free sex and paid sex is that paid sex costs you less." Pretty apt.]


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Re: Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« Reply #5 on: 10 October 2011, 11:48:20 am »
I love guys who say things like that, because they are usually the guys that pay for sex.  ::)

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Re: Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« Reply #6 on: 10 October 2011, 12:25:08 pm »
Blokey: "Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?"

Mellow: "It's OK luv, I wasn't offering you any!"

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Re: Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« Reply #7 on: 10 October 2011, 12:39:15 pm »
Unless he's supremely attractive (and even then), it's unlikely he can 'have' the range of women available to him through paid means. There are many things in the world one can have for free or pay for, and the decision depends upon needs and circumstances and the quality and availability of the 'free' version. But the fact is, with sex, that demand for women will always outstrip supply: hence, a market for paid sex.

[Also I was lurking on Punternet last night and someone had in their signature: "The difference between free sex and paid sex is that paid sex costs you less." Pretty apt.]






Yes that is very apt. :) Paid sex may rinse your wallet but emotional baggage should be nil. The whole Gfe experience without this baggage? What  more could any guy possibly want? :-X




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Re: Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« Reply #8 on: 10 October 2011, 01:01:30 pm »
Ok someone said this to me recently (who knows what I do) and it irritated the hell out of me, although I couldn't entirely work out why except that they may think they are 'above' paying or something like that.  It must be more than that tho to annoy me so much!
Any thoughts ladies?
Oh yes he then when on to brag about how he could get the pick of the ladies......for free!

So he needn't bother seeing you then.
  
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Re: Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« Reply #9 on: 10 October 2011, 01:26:07 pm »

Blokey: "Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?"

Me: "Not off me you cant...!"

R xx

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Re: Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« Reply #10 on: 10 October 2011, 05:01:07 pm »
Ok someone said this to me recently (who knows what I do) and it irritated the hell out of me, although I couldn't entirely work out why except that they may think they are 'above' paying or something like that.  It must be more than that tho to annoy me so much!
Any thoughts ladies?
Oh yes he then when on to brag about how he could get the pick of the ladies......for free!

Methinks he doth protest too much.  A very very defensive response IMO.  ;D
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Re: Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« Reply #11 on: 10 October 2011, 05:04:12 pm »
I've had a few male friends say that too...but to be honest I've said it myself when male escorts contact me offering their services!

Mellow

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« Reply #12 on: 10 October 2011, 05:19:53 pm »

[Also I was lurking on Punternet last night and someone had in their signature: "The difference between free sex and paid sex is that paid sex costs you less." Pretty apt.]



Love that its so true!

Mellow

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« Reply #13 on: 10 October 2011, 05:20:25 pm »
Blokey: "Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?"

Mellow: "It's OK luv, I wasn't offering you any!"

 :D

Exactement!!!!!

Mellow

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Re: Why should I pay for it when I can get it for free?
« Reply #14 on: 10 October 2011, 05:23:01 pm »
I agree with what a few of you have said - it WAS v defensive.  This was not anyone I've 'met' via any escorting site, just someone I chat to online and thought he'd be a safe person to tell as he doesn't know anyone I know, I've been bursting to tell someone - this was obviously the wrong someone!