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thickthighs

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Re: How do you deal with deluded clients?
« Reply #30 on: 18 November 2020, 09:34:13 pm »
Quote from: Pepper on 16 September 2020, 01:37:55 pm
Going get shot down here.

I know there are many mean and horrible men who treat prostitutes as trash, who treat anyone as trash. However there are lots of reasons why a guy  comes to see a prostitute, maybe he wants to play out a fantasy his partner is not keen on or he does not want to share it with her, secondly he might be lonely

if you treat your clients just as a business transaction how do you expect to be treated well?

I  am also curious if you have met someone several times and they are nice to you  how do you not build up a personal relationship with them also,

but it is a business transaction ????
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Jadebear

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Re: How do you deal with deluded clients?
« Reply #31 on: 18 November 2020, 11:23:44 pm »
I agree. I've just had to stop seeing someone cause they said they loved me. They're lovely but it will never go anywhere as it's a professional relationship and a business transaction. Just because its a business transaction doesn't make us cold etc we're a necessary service, just like getting a hair cut, I don't expect my hair dresser to run away with me because she's nice to me.
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fallen angel

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Re: How do you deal with deluded clients?
« Reply #32 on: 19 November 2020, 12:04:51 pm »
Quote from: Jadebear on 18 November 2020, 11:23:44 pm
I agree. I've just had to stop seeing someone cause they said they loved me. They're lovely but it will never go anywhere as it's a professional relationship and a business transaction. Just because its a business transaction doesn't make us cold etc we're a necessary service, just like getting a hair cut, I don't expect my hair dresser to run away with me because she's nice to me.

I've had this too, them blurting out "I love you" in a moment of passion ... cringe. I just pretend I haven't heard them.
During the time I'm getting my nails done me and the lady providing the service are chatting away like old mates but I would never presume that she would want to hear from me outside of that time.
I just wish guys would realise that to us it is entirely the same concept ... we are providing a service and when the door closes behind them we don't give them another thought until they next contact us.
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Jessiegirl

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Re: How do you deal with deluded clients?
« Reply #33 on: 19 November 2020, 04:22:13 pm »
One of my clients told me he had a relationship with an escort so it does happen although probably rare. I almost started a relationship with a client. Sometimes you do meet someone you have a connection with. It's not planned but can happen over a period of time.

I do have one client who said he loved me during sex which I just ignored. Felt a bit awkward after though. Not sure I'd stop seeing him just for that but maybe if things became awkward regularly.
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BangerRacing

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Re: How do you deal with deluded clients?
« Reply #34 on: 19 November 2020, 08:50:56 pm »
The dreaded deluded. I don't deal with them. I'll ghost them if they take the piss. Anything more is not worth the mental energy.

Face to face nonsense mutterings like free meals or meeting for coffee round his house yep I even had that once & I'll tell them to go on plenty of fish or seeking arrangement etc if that doesn't sink in then they are beyond the realms of reality.




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Sprinkles

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Re: How do you deal with deluded clients?
« Reply #35 on: 24 November 2020, 09:42:27 am »
Quote from: Escortx on 14 September 2020, 07:51:18 pm
I would not date an escort user don’t know if that’s hypocritical

Just said this recently to a friend, almost word for word.  And laughed at myself for what I thought might sound ludicrous and hypocritical but so what!  :angel:

And although a few clients fantasise about a relationship, I imagine (and only speaking about mine that “want to date me”), fairly certain the novelty would wear off v quickly...

My favourite client once said something along the lines of “I wish I could have you all to myself and no one else touch you”...even tho I adore him, my first thought was...”well that’d be possible but very expensive”...
I didn’t say it out loud though...ha ha.



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Sprinkles

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Re: How do you deal with deluded clients?
« Reply #36 on: 24 November 2020, 09:58:06 am »
Quote from: BangerRacing on 19 November 2020, 08:50:56 pm
The dreaded deluded. I don't deal with them. I'll ghost them if they take the piss. Anything more is not worth the mental energy.

Face to face nonsense mutterings like free meals or meeting for coffee round his house yep I even had that once & I'll tell them to go on plenty of fish or seeking arrangement etc if that doesn't sink in then they are beyond the realms of reality.

 ;D ;D ;D

Omg you put it so well!  I admire you for not dealing with The Deluded full stop!!
And the coffee offers—I’ve had this “offer” more than once and I’m always thinking...er what? Do they genuinely think I’m gonna jump at the offer of coffee?  I don’t even see my real friends enough for “coffee”...

Oh and the most recent “would you date me/shall we go for coffee” client ended up, on his next booking, trying to bargain my 30 min rate and then stayed for almost an hour!! I messaged him telling him off then BAMO (blocked and moved on).
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