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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: peaches_xx on 14 June 2020, 05:11:25 pm
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It's basically just punter code for "I want a huge discount". Also is a favourite of fantasists who have no intention of turning up.
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Cool. I stopped offering them because I can't keep the 'on' switch flicked for that long and find it too stressful, I can't sleep in bed with a stranger (which meant I wound up taking the following day off and sometimes the one after that) and I hate being poked and prodded first thing in the morning when I'm barely awake. I've never found either of the above to be a problem, though.
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Cool. I stopped offering them because I can't keep the 'on' switch flicked for that long and find it too stressful, I can't sleep in bed with a stranger (which meant I wound up taking the following day off and sometimes the one after that) and I hate being poked and prodded first thing in the morning when I'm barely awake. I've never found either of the above to be a problem, though.
Agreed. I honestly couldn’t think of anything worse! I did a few back when I started in 2015 and they were always all nighters. *shudders*
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Yes I set my price to be my price, which depends on exact details and ease of making arrangements. Interestingly those who try for discount or a deal tend to want to string out communications umm and ahhh.
Had some really nice over nights, including some very straightforward ones. Also some which were edgier, I've learned to be very clear and also firm.
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Cool. I stopped offering them because I can't keep the 'on' switch flicked for that long and find it too stressful, I can't sleep in bed with a stranger (which meant I wound up taking the following day off and sometimes the one after that) and I hate being poked and prodded first thing in the morning when I'm barely awake. I've never found either of the above to be a problem, though.
I'm the same. I'm a grumpy cow in the mornings, and I can only play nice for about 6 hours... :-\
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I stopped overnights ages ago. Some were ok, some were awful and the rest probably just boring. I never got even half the sleep I needed so the next day was a washout, so not good value.
More than all the above though I just do not want to spend several hours with any paying client.
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I like em especially in hotels with champers, a bit of room service nosh, and a big bathtub...girly I know!
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I think overnights I could have coped with in my thirties as I would have still had the energy but I find it harder to wake up properly in the mornings for the first hour or so now I am in my fifties lol.
I often don't sleep well as it is without some geezer playing with my bits every five minutes. No wonder the price is set so high as you must have to be a saint to cope with it....!
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I've never, ever offered them. Good job really as I tend to fart a lot when I wake up and I can't really stop it :D ;D
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I get asked for overnights maybe once a month, I’ve been escorting 5 years and only just did my first one back in February. I usually say no because they are timewasters or people I haven’t met before but this one guy I saw in January so I knew he was ok & I could tolerate a night with him.
I initially didn’t want to do it because the only guy I like waking up to is my partner but I asked him whether I should do it as it’s an a lot of money and he said he was ok with it.
Glad I did, he bought me perfume, sex toy & lingerie & took me out for a nice meal. We had sex once then fell asleep, he didn’t want anything in the morning- honestly couldn’t have gone any better.
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I get asked for overnights maybe once a month, I’ve been escorting 5 years and only just did my first one back in February. I usually say no because they are timewasters or people I haven’t met before but this one guy I saw in January so I knew he was ok & I could tolerate a night with him.
I initially didn’t want to do it because the only guy I like waking up to is my partner but I asked him whether I should do it as it’s an a lot of money and he said he was ok with it.
Glad I did, he bought me perfume, sex toy & lingerie & took me out for a nice meal. We had sex once then fell asleep, he didn’t want anything in the morning- honestly couldn’t have gone any better.
Wow that’s like the best overnight ever!
I don’t do them either, last one I did was maybe 5yrs ago with a regular. Few hours of fun and Roleplay, slept in separate beds (by mutual agreement). Early wake up but just a morning BJ.
Reason I don’t do them is I just don’t sleep at all in the same bed with a virtual stranger.
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I get asked for overnights maybe once a month, I’ve been escorting 5 years and only just did my first one back in February. I usually say no because they are timewasters or people I haven’t met before but this one guy I saw in January so I knew he was ok & I could tolerate a night with him.
I initially didn’t want to do it because the only guy I like waking up to is my partner but I asked him whether I should do it as it’s an a lot of money and he said he was ok with it.
or a niGlad I did, he bought me perfume, sex toy & lingerie & took me out for a meal. We had sex once then fell asleep, he didn’t want anything in the morning- honestly couldn’t have gone any better.
If I could have a guarantee they were all like that I would be back doing them! :)
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If I could have a guarantee they were all like that I would be back doing them! :)
See, I still wouldn't. I don't want to go out in public with punters (and if I know them and like them enough that I do I'm happy to go and eat McDonalds or KFC off the clock after their booking, or whatever) and I can buy my own perfume and lingerie. An overnight would cost me two days of time and I can make the same money doing a handful of one hour and half hour bookings while keeping my sleep pattern and my sanity.
The one and only overnight incall I did at mine many years ago also reminded me of how men leave the toilet the morning after some rich food, too. I did think about just burning the house down and having done with it :(
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I get asked for overnights maybe once a month, I’ve been escorting 5 years and only just did my first one back in February. I usually say no because they are timewasters or people I haven’t met before but this one guy I saw in January so I knew he was ok & I could tolerate a night with him.
I initially didn’t want to do it because the only guy I like waking up to is my partner but I asked him whether I should do it as it’s an a lot of money and he said he was ok with it.
Glad I did, he bought me perfume, sex toy & lingerie & took me out for a nice meal. We had sex once then fell asleep, he didn’t want anything in the morning- honestly couldn’t have gone any better.
Yes I usually stipulate certain amount of uninterrupted sleep, price reflects amount of time I'm away from other life or in comparison to other bookings. Advertising makes it clear I'm not offering an all night shaggathon and I mention this to any enquiries.
Interestingly some of my worst have been with clients I've known and even had previous longer bookings with including other overnights. What made the difference was context, their guilt about the story they'd told their partner, or perception of the overnight. I've found success rate to be unrelated to familiarity, had some very good one offs.
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Tried a few times - nope never again
1) expectation of constant fucking
2) resentful punter when you tell him you’re tired and need sleep (“I am not paying you to sleep”)
3) inability to keep up the enthusiasm for that long (especially when tired)
4) tired af day after so it’s one day wasted
5) able to make the same amount of money doing a few bookings with minimal fuss and then go to bed without interruption
6) inability to sleep next to anyone let alone a stranger
Fuck that, not worth the fuss in my opinion.
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I've never offered them and never will. The thought of them makes me just die a little inside.
I would be so exhausted that I would need at least 3 days to recover and would likely make the same or more over the 3 days anyway.
There's a reason why I'm single. (Shudder at sharing a toilet seat and the rest that comes with it - boak!) And I like to fart!
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So glad I'm not the only one... I too hate sharing a bed and am not fully human before two mugs of tea in the morning.
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Cool. I stopped offering them because I can't keep the 'on' switch flicked for that long and find it too stressful, I can't sleep in bed with a stranger (which meant I wound up taking the following day off and sometimes the one after that) and I hate being poked and prodded first thing in the morning when I'm barely awake. I've never found either of the above to be a problem, though.
Yeah they expect you to engage with them the whole time. And it's also difficult to keep money secure if you're asleep.
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2) resentful punter when you tell him you’re tired and need sleep (“I am not paying you to sleep”)
Lol.
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I loathe overnights as I can’t keep my happy facade up for that many hours and the idea of so many hours of sexual stuff terrifies me, 2-3 hours is my limit with the same client, and I wouldn’t want to fall asleep with the cash in my bag and I only accept transfers when there is no other way and with clients I know and trust. When I worked for an agency then sometimes I would get a booking where the guy would ask for an extra hour at the end of the previous hour and you ended up being there for maybe 6-7 hours but it’s your choice to stay on and if he had been on coke and was a happy guy on it and just wanted to talk then I don’t mind those bookings, sometimes I’ve been in situations like that and I don’t want the booking to end because the guy has been really cool:)
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I find the worst thing is definitely going to sleep alongside another person and knowing that in a few short hours they will be mauling me awake again.
It makes me really depressed in those waking moments.
Something really grim about the effort it takes to pretend you are really OK - if not delighted - to be sucking his cock at 5am, before climbing on to ride him again :'(
No wonder it attracts such huge fees. :-\
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I've not felt at all pestered during overnights or had issues with having sex in the morning. Often it's not even requested. They tend to be chilled and easy going. In a blue moon I'll have breakfast with the client which is a nice way to end a booking.
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Personally I don’t even try to sleep during an overnight. An overnight booking for me is 10pm till 10am and I make sure to be well rested enough to not need to sleep during the appointment- for one I don’t believe it is at all safe to sleep next to a total stranger, even if it is in a hotel, and I value my payment too much to leave it unattended. I do also believe that I’m not being paid a premium to sleep, call me old fashioned but I do expect to work for my money to some degree - Although there’s no way I allow it to ever be a 12 hour shag-a-thon and am always hopeful after a few hours the client will fall asleep. I have had a few that have just been relaxing and enjoyable, mind you. It’s nice to take advantage of room service and the perks of spending time in a nice hotel that you’re not paying for.
I do not get many overnight bookings but when I do I would say they’re worth it, and they do add a bumper to whatever I’m banking for the month.
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Personally I don’t even try to sleep during an overnight. An overnight booking for me is 10pm till 10am and I make sure to be well rested enough to not need to sleep during the appointment- for one I don’t believe it is at all safe to sleep next to a total stranger, even if it is in a hotel, and I value my payment too much to leave it unattended. I do also believe that I’m not being paid a premium to sleep, call me old fashioned but I do expect to work for my money to some degree
I don't believe anybody on the thread has said they expect not to work for their money or to be paid a premium to sleep; my overnights used to last 12-14 hours usually starting at 7-8pm, and my fee for those hours worked out at not far off half my hourly rate. Had I been paid 12-14 times my hourly rate plus extra/a premium I would have quite happily fucked like a bunny for as long as they wanted and a mindless shagathon is fine by me - it's the other stuff I find difficult.
As for security, there are tips on how to keep money safe dotted around both here and on the main site (all mine involve velcro ;D), but yes - I know one woman personally who travelled a couple of hundred miles for an overnight only to wake up with the punter gone and her purse with her fee and her cards gone with him.
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I’ve only done one overnight which was with a regular I had seen at least 15 times before, I told him beforehand that he could either pay me the same price other wg charge in my area which is around £800-£100+ and I’ll stay awake as late as he likes or I’d do him a very good offer if I am able to sleep, staying awake the latest 2am, he was happy with the offer as he wanted to sleep also, we ordered room service, watched a couple of films, he had two beers (I don’t drink) had sex twice and both fell asleep around 1pm. Woke up around 7am showered together, had a “Quicky” then he showered and left around 8.30am. Most of the time when I get enquires for overnights they want to drink and take drugs which is my idea of torture so I happily decline, but my regular who I had the overnight with has recently asked for us to spend the night together again while I’ll happily accept as long as it’s along the same line as last time
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I used to offer them to my regulars .
I was always taken out to the restaurant, or to see a show ( or both , haha ).
I only hated them with one regular, but I just hated bookings with him anyway . Money were great , he was my first ever client and I kept seeing him weekly for 3 years ( until I hated it so much that I ditched him).
Other people I had overnights with were fun and easy going . I always slept at least 6 hours, and morning fun wasn’t a problem for me . Sometimes it wasn’t even wanted >:D
If it was at my working flat , we would leave at 6am and go separate ways .
If in London at the hotel , I would leave after a nice breakfast.
I stopped offering overnights when I had a partner and he was not happy about me doing them anymore.
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I used to really enjoy my overnights! I didnt get them often, but did have a few regulars who would treat themselves on a bi monthly basis. Some, we'd go out for dinner and have a great night. Some, we'd stay in the hotel and order all the luxuries. I only once had an overnight with a client I had never met before - he was in UK for work from Switzerland and kept commenting on just how cheap my rate was (I charged a flat 1k for a 10 hour outcall to the next major city!). After only 2 hours together, he fell asleep and didnt wake until it was time for me to go. I couldn't believe it! I did offer him some money back and I would leave since he was clearly going to sleep but he declined and insisted he wanted me to stay anyway. He has contacted me since for the same deal but our dates never matched but I'd swoop that up in a heartbeat.
I did have one truly awful overnight, which is one of the reasons I dont offer them anymore. The overnight was at my incall, with a client I had met twice before for shorter meetings. He was immigrating so wanted to treat himself before he went. What unfolded can only be described as a work nightmare. He wouldn't let me sleep. I pretended to sleep just to get away from him, he stroked and smelled my hair, kept trying to touch my private areas, moving closer to me in the bed as I tried to shuffle away then at one point I was clinging on to the edge of the mattress for dear life. The creepiest part of all was when he thought I was sleeping, I heard him walk about my apartment, opening and closing drawers etc., likely looking for personal items or info. I should have told him to leave there and then but it was about 3am, only 4 hours remaining so decided to see it out.
At 6am on the dot, he shook me "awake" and the horror continued. I was very glad to see the back of him.
I value my sleep slot these days so dont offer overnights, unless a very trusted regular asks me and I know I will be safe and comfortable in their company for that length of time.
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What an asshole that was torture. I don't offer overnights full stop. When I am booked for 2 hours I am always dreading it leave alone overnight. I love my sleep too much there is no way I would want someone breathing on my neck the whole night. 😂😂
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I used to do overnights and I’ve had a few nice ones but now I much prefer to sleep in my own bed no matter how much is being offered
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I prefer half an hour most the time. It's bad enough an hour if you have an uncomfortable environment. Most of the overnight bookings I've received seem like the want to get free naughty chat or waste time. I couldn't spend that much time with even a nice regular I like my own company and personal space too much. The longest booking i took was 4 hours as I'd met him a few times. I found that to be hard work. I am a bit lazy 😂
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It's not laziness, it's just bloody difficult being in work mode for such an extended length of time!
I have had one hour bookings that were horrific due to the dynamics being off, and I've had full day and even travel trips that have been awesome. It all depends on dynamics.
I met a guy for a dinner date, which was out first meeting. He drove around 4 hours to get to me. Over emails, and even on our brief phone chat prior, he seemed like someone I'd get on well with. When I met him he was so shy and inexperienced with women it was like pulling teeth trying to get conversation out of him. He asked to extend to an overnight and in theory, I could have. But I declined because it would have been torture.
I don't even like working past 6pm these days because I want to go home, get into my comfies and just relax.
But that is the beauty of the world, we are all different and all like different things!
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It's not laziness, it's just bloody difficult being in work mode for such an extended length of time!
I have had one hour bookings that were horrific due to the dynamics being off, and I've had full day and even travel trips that have been awesome. It all depends on dynamics.
I met a guy for a dinner date, which was out first meeting. He drove around 4 hours to get to me. Over emails, and even on our brief phone chat prior, he seemed like someone I'd get on well with. When I met him he was so shy and inexperienced with women it was like pulling teeth trying to get conversation out of him. He asked to extend to an overnight and in theory, I could have. But I declined because it would have been torture.
I don't even like working past 6pm these days because I want to go home, get into my comfies and just relax.
But that is the beauty of the world, we are all different and all like different things!
Yes, it’s all dynamics but if it’s the first time seeing them it’s a Russian roulette lol
That’s why it’s best to offer a max 1/1.5hr first time seeing a new person. I’ve had a couple that were shy, insecure, awkward, tense and exactly like you said pulling teeth to get something out of them. It’s an ordeal and, guess depends on individual, but I get very insecure and awkward as a reaction. At this point the air is to thick you just want to cut it short and refund the remaining time.
Thankfully doesn’t happen often.
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I've never done an overnight. I did a 3 hour once and I wanted to stab him and myself in the face 2 hours in. I am on the spectrum so find it almost impossible to act one way if I'm feeling another. Somedays I struggle with half hour bookings so!
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I no longer offer them. I've not done loads but the ones I have done have left me feeling exhausted (because I can't sleep next to a stranger). It also tends to ruin relationships with nice regulars, because either I can't keep up the happy sexy façade all night, or because they begrudge forking out so much cash, or worse they are hoping to turn it into a relationship.
I'd much rather do a few hour bookings. Keep the mystery and allure and keep my sanity. X
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I've only ever had a couple of overnights and have one coming up. I've also turned down a couple of offers. The ones I've done have been really good, one with dinner and drinks, fabulous location and chocolates and a thank you card on the pillow with the cash and a full night's sleep. The other was a bit of a 'party' booking where the guy seemed to forget if he snorted something his dick would shrivel up 😂 again, great night's sleep and no work! Mind you, nothing would ever stop me sleeping x
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I've never offered them and never will. My personal life doesn't allow overnights, but I still wouldn't offer them even if that wasn't an issue.
A full 10-12 hours with a stranger and having to be on guard at all times plus in performing mode the entire time? No thank you. I'd rather stab myself in the eyes. (Well, except maybe one or two regs. They'd be fun, I think. :D)
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I have had three overnights in my life and I'm glad I was lucky. I've heard horror stories from colleagues about being woken up by the client every hour or two to have sex non-stop and I honestly couldn't do that.
Still, nowadays I only offer overnights to clients I know well or that I have had a good connection with, just to be sure that they're not going to expect endless action. I don't feel okay with someone who wants too much time, full nights or days without having met before. Like, how can they be so sure that we'll match? There's something there that disturbs me. I have also had colleagues telling me there are clients who only do overnight+ and they are okay to see but for me it feels like a gamble. Better to know them first in shorter dates imho.
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I could never contemplate an overnight booking. I usually struggle to spend more than an hour in the company of a guy I don't actually fancy so the thought of sleeping next to them an entire night ( not that I would actually be able to sleep) fills me with dread. No amount of money ...( Ok I'd do it for £10,000 but that's not AW going rate haha) would convince me otherwise.
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I think I buck the trend looking at all the responses. I have had loads of overnights and love them. Many with repeat customers.
Only had one that ended in tears and I kicked him out of my apartment at 4am! All the rest have been a relaxed evening with not too much work. I screen all potential overnight by having a good chin-wag to ensure we are on the same page as to how the evening will go. So no, you are not going to fuck me all night, you are not going to poke me at 3/4 am and expect me to suck your cock, you are not going to sniff shit or pop whatever pills that get you going and yes part of your booking I will be sleeping.
Most of my overnights are typically drinks, order food in, 2 rounds before cat-eye and 1 round in the morning. Quite a few is just one long session then sleep and don't even want a quick one before they leave.
I would much rather do 1 overnight then do like 6 jobs during the day.
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My worst experience with an overnight was when I first started with an agency - never met the guy before and we didn't leave his tiny cramped apartment. We watched crap TV and he kept wanting sex back to back, it was the most mentally & physically draining 12 hrs of my life! I was naïve and taken advantage of.. I was almost in tears when I finally left! Ugh never again.
Now I'm independent I only offer overnights to regulars, my rate is a bit higher than the going rate and I have clear boundaries including a meal out, drinks, reasonable rest. If someone wants to see me in the confines of a hotel room, I charge by the hour. Because of what I charge they are definitely worth doing.. but I hate not being able to take my makeup off, going to the toilet with someone so close by.. I have zero sexual appetite first thing in the morning and the thought of someone trying to mount me makes me feel ill...as long as the money is good ;D :o
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I do overnights (and occasionally longer) but only for trusted clients who I know well. A typical overnight is part of a full escort experience, evening with dinner out, sometimes entertainment or a client event. I usually require a separate room in a suite, of at least my own sleeping bed if that's not available. Clients know my expectations well in advance so there is no misunderstanding. A proper overnight is very enjoyable and profitable, with lots of rest and occasionally a nice breakfast too.
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I do overnights (and occasionally longer) but only for trusted clients who I know well. A typical overnight is part of a full escort experience, evening with dinner out, sometimes entertainment or a client event. I usually require a separate room in a suite, of at least my own sleeping bed if that's not available. Clients know my expectations well in advance so there is no misunderstanding. A proper overnight is very enjoyable and profitable, with lots of rest and occasionally a nice breakfast too.
Wow if I thought I could get my own suite and not have to sleep with them I'd consider it. I didn't think they'd go for that as I assumed most hate the idea of paying for us to be sleeping and the main idea is to be able to maul us through the night, which to be honest horrifies me.
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There is absolutely no way I can put myself through an overnight, 2 hours is my limit & I find that difficult enough even with regulars. I always get really stressed before a 2 hour, I’m so relieved when it’s over. Actually I have no idea why I say I do them!! ::) well maybe I do £££ ;D
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Wow if I thought I could get my own suite and not have to sleep with them I'd consider it. I didn't think they'd go for that as I assumed most hate the idea of paying for us to be sleeping and the main idea is to be able to maul us through the night, which to be honest horrifies me.
Exactly. I am not sure where and how PS finds such guys who are happy to pay her to sleep. Unfortunately that’s not the case in 99.999% cases.
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Exactly. I am not sure where and how PS finds such guys who are happy to pay her to sleep. Unfortunately that’s not the case in 99.999% cases.
I wonder if it makes a difference if overnights are bedroom based 100% or mixed with social activities outside? Maybe some SW are better suited to one or the another?
I echo PS experiences. I didn't think having pleasant overnights was unusual. I also sleep without any issues of clients mauling or making OTT demands. I've not advertised in a novel way, or briefed them beforehand, it just works out like that. Even with coke clients who want indoors gigs with no restaurant socials I've had no issues with abusive or 'over-sexualised' behaviour.
It's wierd as I'm normally a totally quiet person but somehow overnights fly by like being with old chums. On the good-humoured funny vibe.
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Exactly. I am not sure where and how PS finds such guys who are happy to pay her to sleep. Unfortunately that’s not the case in 99.999% cases.
Same! All my over nighters have drug induced shriveled penises and are staring blankly at me at 4am sniggering “YoUrE NoT TiReD aRe You?!” >:(
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I wonder if it makes a difference if overnights are bedroom based 100% or mixed with social activities outside? Maybe some SW are better suited to one or the another?
Most of my overnights are mixed with other events (usually something in the evening) and all of them are regulars I know well. This is not something I would advertise online.
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Wow you know them already! So there's a familiarity... nice one! Mine are strangers and half my fun is the thrill of the unknown. I advertise it online so anyone can book. Whatever works! :)
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My first overnight was hardwork, I was new and only a few months into escorting and although the guy was nice he had taken some coke which I had asked him not to nut he did anyway and I had hardly drank to keep my wits about me. He was lively until 3pm and wanted it every 40 minutes, He got annoying and once he decided to get some shut eye I was lying awake for hours, Can't sleep next to strangers. Funnily after a year an a half since that overnight he just ask for another overnight and I told him I only do up til midnight then I'm off. I do overnight with very few regulars that I know will be a nice easy evening I can enjoy. And I won't see anyone on coke they are the most annoying to put up with and needy. For me the end of the night is for me to relax after they have gone and I can cleanse the air and start the next day fresh or I'm all spent and working on empty.
Perfect long booking is dinner and drinks and a girlfriend experience with 90 min max in the bedroom with pillow talk.
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I've just recently stopped offering overnights as I cannot get any sleep sharing with a man (even if I'm in a separate room), and hate having to catch up after. I envy escorts that are able to sleep during overnights. I'm not a great sleeper at the best of times
Plus knowing that I'll be fumbled with the next morning puts me about as well as the journey home.
I used to like the idea of them and have had nice experiences previously, but now I don't think the money is worth it.
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Overnights are so hit and miss for me...
I usually don’t work the next 1-2 days thru exhaustion (moreso keeping delightful convo up for 6+ hours etc than sex!)
There is usually a discount (urgh)
And more than once I’ve missed a favourite client’s message/call the next day or that night because of the overnight.
It’s a balance I guess, and I’m now much more hesitant and selective for overnights. I remember when I started escorting I was naively desperate for them, and wondered why anyone would prefer an hour to an overnight...now I know. ;D
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Wow you know them already! So there's a familiarity... nice one! Mine are strangers and half my fun is the thrill of the unknown. I advertise it online so anyone can book. Whatever works! :)
I'm the same Saltysweet.
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I only do them with trusted regulars I really get on with mainly especially if in a lovely hotel. Normally have a session early evening, get ready, go out for dinner and drinks, maybe another session in hotel after.
The only thing I hate is if he snores, farting a lot and leaving disgusting smells in the toilet.