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EllaUnicorn123

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Re: Why I stopped offering overnights
« Reply #45 on: 12 October 2020, 07:16:53 pm »
Exactly. I am not sure where and how PS finds such guys who are happy to pay her to sleep. Unfortunately that’s not the case in 99.999% cases.


Same! All my over nighters have drug induced shriveled penises and are staring blankly at me at 4am sniggering “YoUrE NoT TiReD aRe You?!”  >:(

PleasureSales

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Re: Why I stopped offering overnights
« Reply #46 on: 13 October 2020, 05:57:55 am »
I wonder if it makes a difference if overnights are bedroom based 100% or mixed with social activities outside? Maybe some SW are better suited to one or the another?
Most of my overnights are mixed with other events (usually something in the evening) and all of them are regulars I know well.  This is not something I would advertise online.

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Re: Why I stopped offering overnights
« Reply #47 on: 15 October 2020, 01:30:55 am »
Wow you know them already! So there's a familiarity... nice one! Mine are strangers and half my fun is the thrill of the unknown. I advertise it online so anyone can book. Whatever works!  :)
« Last Edit: 15 October 2020, 01:35:25 am by saltysweet »

MissElvira

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Re: Why I stopped offering overnights
« Reply #48 on: 26 October 2020, 09:23:56 am »
My first overnight was hardwork, I was new and only a few months into escorting and although the guy was nice he had taken some coke which I had asked him not to nut he did anyway  and I had hardly drank to keep my wits about me. He was lively until 3pm and wanted it every 40 minutes, He got annoying and once he decided to get some shut eye I was lying awake for hours, Can't sleep next to strangers. Funnily after a year an a half since that overnight he just ask for another overnight and I told him I only do up til midnight then I'm off. I do overnight with very few regulars that I know will be a nice easy evening I can enjoy. And I won't see anyone on coke they are the most annoying to put up with and needy. For me the end of the night is for me to relax after they have gone and I can cleanse the air and start the next day fresh or I'm all spent and working on empty.

Perfect long booking is dinner and drinks and a girlfriend experience with 90 min max in the bedroom with pillow talk.

Maz

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Re: Why I stopped offering overnights
« Reply #49 on: 09 November 2020, 04:46:42 pm »
I've just recently stopped offering overnights as I cannot get any sleep sharing with a man (even if I'm in a separate room), and hate having to catch up after. I envy escorts that are able to sleep during overnights. I'm not a great sleeper at the best of times

Plus knowing that I'll be fumbled with the next morning puts me about as well as the journey home.

I used to like the idea of them and have had nice experiences previously, but now I don't think the money is worth it.
« Last Edit: 09 November 2020, 05:09:44 pm by Maz »

Sprinkles

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Re: Why I stopped offering overnights
« Reply #50 on: 24 November 2020, 10:22:55 am »
Overnights are so hit and miss for me...

I usually don’t work the next 1-2 days thru exhaustion (moreso keeping delightful convo up for 6+ hours etc than sex!)
There is usually a discount (urgh)

And more than once I’ve missed a favourite client’s message/call the next day or that night because of the overnight.

It’s a balance I guess, and I’m now much more hesitant and selective for overnights.  I remember when I started escorting I was naively desperate for them, and wondered why anyone would prefer an hour to an overnight...now I know.  ;D

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Re: Why I stopped offering overnights
« Reply #51 on: 24 November 2020, 03:54:11 pm »
Wow you know them already! So there's a familiarity... nice one! Mine are strangers and half my fun is the thrill of the unknown. I advertise it online so anyone can book. Whatever works!  :)

I'm the same Saltysweet.

Jessiegirl

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Re: Why I stopped offering overnights
« Reply #52 on: 24 November 2020, 04:36:34 pm »
I only do them with trusted regulars I really get on with mainly especially if in a lovely hotel. Normally have a session early evening, get ready, go out for dinner and drinks, maybe another session in hotel after.

The only thing I hate is if he snores, farting a lot and leaving disgusting smells in the toilet.