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Caledonia

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Re: Your education
« Reply #60 on: 07 September 2016, 12:06:54 pm »
I'm into my 2nd week of an NQ in Business, wether I will move on to the next level (if by some miracle I pass  ;D) is another matter.

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« Reply #61 on: 08 September 2016, 12:38:37 am »
I only got five GCSEs, much to the concern of my family. Since then I got qualified in my field and became a published author. Qualifications are great but they are not the be all. You can do whatever you want as long as you have the passion.

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Re: Your education
« Reply #62 on: 10 September 2016, 05:54:37 pm »
I only have 5 GCSE's, C D D E E. I went onto college for some health and beauty courses for 3 years and then I was fed up of college when I was a stripper at 18-19 as I found I liked escorting more than any other job after I was 19/20. Now I'm 25
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Re: Your education
« Reply #63 on: 11 September 2016, 11:47:19 am »
I have a degree and worked in management positions from graduation for 15 years. Started sex work whilst still working for my last job as I left my husband and moved into a flat by myself which stretched my finances a bit so I started on adult phone lines and then sex work once I realised that was more lucrative! I loved it and it made such a massive difference to my income. Juggled both for a year or so until I got outed by a tabloid and had to resign job- ironically pushing me into sex work full time!

I lost the nerve to apply for jobs because a quick google of my name would bring up my 'tabloid shame' and I couldn't face getting a job and then being found out and losing it. Even though I resigned my job as opposed to be sacked and was assured a fair reference I just couldn't do it. Anyway, escorted full time for 4 years and 18 months ago got another freelance job with a small business where I told the boss the truth- she was a friend of a friend who recommended me to her and my friend say she thought the woman would understand. She was outraged at what had happened to me and took me on! I now do sex work part time and the other job part time. It;s great because I'm paid by the day and at busy times it's a full time job and I can do less escorting but during quiet times I can escort more.

I'm lucky really, having been in a place where I believed my career had been ruined and there was no way out of sex work.

Sorry, went off at a tangent there!

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Re: Your education
« Reply #64 on: 14 September 2016, 08:27:47 pm »
maybe one day I will go back to school but I would feel kindof silly now doing my GCSEs at my age.
I'm rather late to this post but just felt I must comment. I have no idea how old you are but please don't feel silly doing GCSEs because I did one recently and I was older than the teachers! ;D It was fine and I wasn't the only mature student by a long shot. Loads of middle aged people like myself go back to school when they decide a change of career is what they want. If you feel too self conscious sitting in a class room you can always learn the subject at home but register yourself for the exams. I'm back at uni (doing a BSc) and loving it, even though I'm one of the oldest there.

I went into sex work yonks ago when I got bored of my old career and on the whole it has suited me. The flexibility has allowed me to take courses and do voluntary work which would've been impossible had I still been in mainstream employment. The worst part is that this job has caused relationship difficulties (I've found most men don't want to love an escort if she's still seeing clients) and I've worried for years about what I'd put on my CV. Thankfully part of one of mymodules involves writing CVs and doing mock interviews so that should be interesting! 

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Re: Your education
« Reply #65 on: 23 September 2016, 09:07:53 pm »
I had a very respectable career/ job in which I got verbally  threatened daily , attacked physically at  various times and escorted ( lol) from courts etc due to the evidence I had to give , so I've had to be a good judge of character, risk assess situations , people and their drug alcohol dependency etc ...so as far as escorting goes I feel less vulnerable ( but still acutely aware of the risks) than I did and I earn 3/4 times the amount I did then ...plus it had huge responsibility and a whole heap of stress so it's helped me in the long run , I've been paid to be assaulted / abused prior to this and I'm aware it could happen at anytime but I've been fortunate so it's helped me so far , plus I relate to colleagues that visit me to release their stress lol