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fallen angel

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #15 on: 07 February 2022, 10:51:59 pm »
Because in the main they are obnoxious, self entitled pricks who refuse to take no for an answer.

Ana66

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #16 on: 09 February 2022, 02:26:14 pm »
I never block people (even the most annoying ones who keep sending "Hi", "Hi", every day) simply because they could try contact me with another number so if I just ignore them, they might think I'm just busy.
I really don't understand why some people keep trying and trying even when you've been ignoring them for months or even the ones to whom you explicitly said you don't want to see them for some reasons.

Milf-G

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #17 on: 09 February 2022, 08:22:24 pm »
I never block people (even the most annoying ones who keep sending "Hi", "Hi", every day) simply because they could try contact me with another number so if I just ignore them, they might think I'm just busy.
I really don't understand why some people keep trying and trying even when you've been ignoring them for months or even the ones to whom you explicitly said you don't want to see them for some reasons.

Some think with their little brain... I had abusive texts months back from a 70yr old, I say no texts, obviously I read the texts but do ignore them. He then gets really shitty and self entitled saying I'd lost out on loads of money and I had no respect for the elderly (I do have an upper age limit) and he was past it, I replied that I clearly stated texts were ignored in my profile and his reaction told me that he wasn't suitable. In the last 3 days he has tried to call at least 10 times. He obviously forgot he insulted me.

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #18 on: 11 February 2022, 01:00:43 pm »
what would be if we split them in 3 category :
1st i don't mind to see them.
2st i prefer to not see them too often, since they have one of my dislikes: are some kind of time watcers that want to make you work for evry penny that they give you, problem with hygene or big dicks.
3st one of the things that i don't like but at next level or a combination of all them ::)
i could make a price difference to first to category without being silly?

i am not a machine , so i wish to be able to make some changes without being silly or make them think i am thaking the piss.

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #19 on: 11 February 2022, 05:18:30 pm »
I love the SIS: See If Starving  :D
My equivalent is OID: Only If Desperate and I am relieved to say in 12 years I have never had to use it yet.. Usually means they are complete knobheads, utterly filthy dirty etc
I have another, HDWK: Hard Work, which usually just means they are physically very demanding, but generally clean, fresh and OK in personality

Often when a phone has blocked you, you hear a little half ring before voicemail kicks in.
Dead giveaway, but may not happen on all phones.

Miffy

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #20 on: 11 February 2022, 06:39:47 pm »
I have one who keeps emailing me from different aliases/email addresses. He's really not very bright as he not only has an incredibly distinctive way of writing (and punctuating), he always invites me to fly to his North American city, and the same hotel. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.

I no longer bother responding to him, but still he writes, weekly, from different aliases. If it wasn't so tragic it would actually be really funny!

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #21 on: 12 February 2022, 12:39:20 am »
what would be if we split them in 3 category :
1st i don't mind to see them.
2st i prefer to not see them too often, since they have one of my dislikes: are some kind of time watcers that want to make you work for evry penny that they give you, problem with hygene or big dicks.
3st one of the things that i don't like but at next level or a combination of all them ::)
i could make a price difference to first to category without being silly?

i am not a machine , so i wish to be able to make some changes without being silly or make them think i am thaking the piss.

I have to say, over the years my three categories (red, orange and green on an Excel spreadsheet) have declined to a plain binary yes or no. Life's too short to spend time with people you don't want to.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #22 on: 12 February 2022, 05:22:05 am »
I have to say, over the years my three categories (red, orange and green on an Excel spreadsheet) have declined to a plain binary yes or no. Life's too short to spend time with people you don't want to.

I have a tag and five star rating system on my phone. Five stars are instant pickup. Any client who drops below average (three stars) gets blocked. I used to see two stars for the money during a slow period. I found they are not worth the emotional grief. It seems like a similar system to your old one in principle.

I'm finding I just want to do happy things lately so making more choices which align with this.

Kiss

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #23 on: 21 February 2022, 07:49:34 am »
Many of the ones I'd blocked didn't bother trying to call again. Whether it was because they realised or just couldn't be bothered trying .
They were unsuitable or time wasters who don't quite get into their heads  you didn't want to communicate with them again  :FF

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #24 on: 21 February 2022, 09:23:10 am »
Men just don’t like being told no, I’m sure they see it as a power dynamic and some of them don’t stop until they’re forced too. I never hesitate calling my local sex work liaison police officer if I feel like I’m in danger and I hope no one else feels like they can’t get help because you’re an escort. They can give him a warning for harassment and that usually does the trick

Milf-G

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #25 on: 21 February 2022, 12:45:25 pm »
Men just don’t like being told no, I’m sure they see it as a power dynamic and some of them don’t stop until they’re forced too. I never hesitate calling my local sex work liaison police officer if I feel like I’m in danger and I hope no one else feels like they can’t get help because you’re an escort. They can give him a warning for harassment and that usually does the trick

I've threatened some with the harrassment act, but it seems my area doesn't have a police sex liaison worker. I spoke to police recently about an issue via NUM, they were very helpful, understanding and non-judgemental.

Kiss

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #26 on: 09 March 2022, 05:18:32 pm »
These pests seem to think their behaviour is acceptable.
How could we say no to them
It's about power and control to alot of them and when they don't get what they want ,you see the true nacissist come out.

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #27 on: 16 July 2022, 10:23:49 am »
I have a guy that has called and messaged persistently for the last 3yrs. Recently he’s fine no caller ID calls . So got my partner to answer when he called once. Was hilarious to hear him ask if it was me and my partner say in his manly voice do I sound like Michelle 😂.
Update : he’s still calling and texting and same guy tried to book me through another girl for a duo. Told the other girl to not say it was him. Thing is he doesn’t realise we have each other’s backs and sati
Go that to her was a massive red flag 🚩!

Jadine

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #28 on: 27 July 2022, 07:23:21 am »
Some of them are so weird
I was having the same issue for ages I got hundreds on my work phone I blocked and had some of the numbers on my personal phone where I made the mistake of text them to fuck off and leave me alone , blocked them took the numbers off ( personal phone as I didn't want their numbers saved on my personal phone )  still for months bothering me only seems to have stopped .

Milf-G

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #29 on: 27 July 2022, 03:10:54 pm »
So 2 blocked callers over the weekend got new numbers to try and book me. One failed my screening then sent a message in AW, a new account only linked because of the AKA. Another gave me his other number when he said he used to be a reg, he's been trying since October to book me again and I told him he was blocked. He was still trying from his original number just a few days ago. Another caller wa abusive when told no and has text me 12 times and tried calling over 25 times in just over a week. I mean, how dare I have the right to say no!