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Milf-G

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Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« on: 04 February 2022, 08:14:51 pm »
...and not get the hint they are blocked?? It really spooks me and I'm worried they're going to turn up unannounced.

I've had quite a few that I've blocked for various reasons keep trying to call me for months and months. Once I even had an email to my escort email after this guy tried for 9 months to see me again after he was blocked m after his 1st visit. I absolutely went mad at him. He tried ringing literally every week for that entire time.

I blocked one in November because I just didn't enjoy him, saw him twice and he would order me around.  He's tried ringing every day for nearly 2 weeks now.

I find it really creepy

 

Jadine

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #1 on: 04 February 2022, 08:37:37 pm »
Just like you I get it too
There's one in particular forever ringing  , I'm sick of him he will not stop, blocked him forever this time his stupid keeps the same number ,  I used to shout at him and tell him to stop and fuck off  but he continues  he and others  are just freaks getting a kick out of annoying us , they not right in their backward heads .

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #2 on: 05 February 2022, 03:49:32 am »
...and not get the hint they are blocked?? It really spooks me and I'm worried they're going to turn up unannounced.

You're getting me worried now! I've had a few on my blocklist calling sometimes repeatedly since the pandemic eased a bit late last year. Some were no hopers I declined to see and blocked. Some I had seen before but only once or twice maximum. One I threw out before he paid me and blocked so you'd think he would get the message. One maybe two I had previously asked to stop calling or messaging. They eventually give up so far.

I don't know why they do this. I guess because we sell availability and they convince themselves? I suppose a few may not realise they are blocked. Could be a billion reasons. Their own feelz? Thinking we're just busy? The worst for calling was the one I threw out so maybe the odd one is just a controlling creep? That one sounded "posh" on the phone but different in person and reeked of being an ex-lifer or something equally not nice. That one spooks me.

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #3 on: 05 February 2022, 08:07:23 am »
I have blocked clients who still ring me yet must have rung at least twenty times....!

Milf-G

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #4 on: 05 February 2022, 08:45:49 am »
I don't know what message comes up when they try to ring and I've blocked them, but I'm pretty sure I would get the hint if I was trying to contact someone and not getting connected. I'm so glad I've moved and some of these creeps don't know where I am anymore.

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #5 on: 05 February 2022, 09:57:09 am »
I don't know what message comes up when they try to ring and I've blocked them, but I'm pretty sure I would get the hint if I was trying to contact someone and not getting connected. I'm so glad I've moved and some of these creeps don't know where I am anymore.


Yes I agree very creepy.. it worse when  they try and trick you off a different number.. what I do now is I ask all new clients (new numbers) to phone call me…(no phone call no booking)  I will then ask them have a I seen you before.. I have caught one out who I posted about as he admitted he changed his number once I did the screening..

It’s extremely Annoying but i think getting all new clients to phone call is the best way to spot the blocked types as after a few questions most will slip up and show themselves..Just have to have your guard up and screen so they can’t slip through the net..

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #6 on: 05 February 2022, 10:28:08 am »
It’s even worse when they confront you on cam about it when you’re trying to cam! So awkward and stressful. This is why I wish they’d let us have separate profiles!

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #7 on: 05 February 2022, 11:50:33 am »
I usually block people because I can tell right away he doesn't understand boundaries, them continuing to pest me "makes sense" (if you get my drift) and just confirms my intuition was right. I don't sweat over it.
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Milf-G

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #8 on: 05 February 2022, 02:21:56 pm »
Pet lover that's a really good idea. I'm going to use that. When I get a blocked number trying to call me then get a new number calling  shortly after I do get quite anxious that it is perhaps the same guy. There was one day last week where I was so spooked by incessant phone calls that I just said I was fully booked all day and saw no one.

Milf-G

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #9 on: 05 February 2022, 02:22:27 pm »
I usually block people because I can tell right away he doesn't understand boundaries, them continuing to pest me "makes sense" (if you get my drift) and just confirms my intuition was right. I don't sweat over it.

Very true!!

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #10 on: 05 February 2022, 04:57:26 pm »
I don't generally tell the ones who didn't get past the enquiry stage they're blocked, so I do get them calling and texting but I find they give up eventually when they get no response at all. If they use a different number the reason they were turned away will still be there, since they lack the self awareness to know what it is.

I did have one turn up at my door a couple of weeks ago who booked on another number; I'd put him in the See If Starving section of my phone and ignored a text from a couple of days earlier (because I wasn't starving ;D) just because he was such bloody hard work - not awful, just draining and annoying. I got on with the booking but that really pissed me off and if he tries it again I won't open the main door (which is my own fault for not looking at the CCTV carefully and just pressing the door release).

It’s even worse when they confront you on cam about it when you’re trying to cam! So awkward and stressful. This is why I wish they’d let us have separate profiles!

Adultwork (whom I'm assuming is 'they') don't, but Adultwork isn't the only webcam/advertising site?

Milf-G

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #11 on: 05 February 2022, 06:12:34 pm »
Sounds awful Amy. I might have to do a 'only when skint' list because I block far too easily.

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #12 on: 05 February 2022, 08:06:51 pm »
Sounds awful Amy. I might have to do a 'only when skint' list because I block far too easily.

Yeah. Mine is for the ones who aren't terrible and didn't do anything wrong but who I'm just not keen on or find really draining for whatever reason - it's really the second chance list as most who go on it either don't seem as bad the second time they visit or they're even worse (and get blocked ;D).

If a SIS one wants to book I try to shove them in the middle of a busy day, then they're easier to deal with. I don't entertain the blocked ones at all though - I once let one through because it was so long since I'd seen him I'd forgotten why he was persona non grata and he seemed pleasant enough, but I soon remembered  >:( ;D

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #13 on: 05 February 2022, 08:54:06 pm »
Everywhere I go on tour I still have the same people trying to contact me, years later. Since anyone with half a brain would realise they were blocked, my initial action of blocking them in the first place is satisfyingly justified.

Milf-G

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Re: Why do blocked clients keep trying to call you...
« Reply #14 on: 05 February 2022, 10:00:04 pm »
Everywhere I go on tour I still have the same people trying to contact me, years later. Since anyone with half a brain would realise they were blocked, my initial action of blocking them in the first place is satisfyingly justified.

They don't realise though do they, lol.