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Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: Why do a lot of blokes go mad when you insist on charging them?
« Reply #75 on: 31 July 2013, 02:30:44 pm »
Enjoy the wolf whistles while you are getting them.  Maybe in a few years time they will stop and then you will wonder 'am I not attractive enough for a guy to give me a wolf whistle'.  I couldn't tell you the last time I had one. << swoons at the thought,  :'( :'( >>

I do get lots of compliments from clients but that's not quite the same.  :(
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Re: Why do a lot of blokes go mad when you insist on charging them?
« Reply #76 on: 31 July 2013, 04:04:51 pm »
LL I'm sure you look lovely :)
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Re: Why do a lot of blokes go mad when you insist on charging them?
« Reply #77 on: 15 August 2013, 09:08:51 pm »
start carrying a makarov you will be surprised how empowering it feels,

Granny never left the village without one...
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Re: Why do a lot of blokes go mad when you insist on charging them?
« Reply #78 on: 16 August 2013, 03:35:07 am »
Quote from: meetingdiversity on 28 June 2013, 12:16:50 am
Quote from: Daisy_ on 27 June 2013, 11:57:49 pm
Quote from: Lady_Lust_XXX on 27 June 2013, 10:48:32 pm

...but IMO anyone doing it for free is worse.

This is what i don't understand. Why, just because it's sex, is it 'bad' / 'worse' / 'moral' vs. 'immoral' ad infinitum. I 'do it for free' quite a bit and I get paid for it quite a bit too  :D  neither of these is bad or worse than the other... As sex workers we of course have our own opinions on certain subjects but shouldn't the language and attitude we have towards sex, sex work and other peoples choices on how they express their sexuality be a little more tolerant and informed than that of the general public?


I thought it was what Daisy is replying to but wasn't too sure. Having fun for free is ok, just how it is for having paid sex fun. Some people could say that paying for sex is far worse than for free. There is for and against in every thing.
  At least you can choose someone attractive when it's for fun/free. I hope I don't stop wanting to have sex after working for a while. I have had plenty of encounters that I should have been paid for because of their attitude or lack of skill.
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Re: Why do a lot of blokes go mad when you insist on charging them?
« Reply #79 on: 16 August 2013, 10:55:37 am »
I got some bloke at the bus stop saying I looked beautiful yesterday (hair up and in a hoodie with a sports bag of vibrators en route to my dungeon...) made my day ! Always does when somebody who isn't paying/ doesn't know my job says that :)

Although there was this guy I slept with last year who is totally denying I was a hooker when I slept with him- always makes me laugh ! He should be buzzing he got it for free !!
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Re: Why do a lot of blokes go mad when you insist on charging them?
« Reply #80 on: 18 August 2013, 11:48:48 am »
In my view if a guy approaches you and you get chatting and he seems nice then I wouldnt schpeel off a price list. If he wanted to take me out to dinner and get to know me and was vaguely attractive with no obvious annoying triats plus well dressed.

If someone approached me clearly clinging to the hope of getting a leg over I would give him the list. Lets face it, he isnt someone I really want to have in my life so I couldnt care less if he calls me a dirty slag. I would just point out that "hey sad man, you are the dog sniffing at my leg " then walk away. Why wait around for the torrent of abuse that comes when the rejection hits them.
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Re: Why do a lot of blokes go mad when you insist on charging them?
« Reply #81 on: 19 August 2013, 05:01:41 pm »
Quote from: Chloe Kisses on 18 August 2013, 11:48:48 am
In my view if a guy approaches you and you get chatting and he seems nice then I wouldnt schpeel off a price list. If he wanted to take me out to dinner and get to know me and was vaguely attractive with no obvious annoying triats plus well dressed.

If someone approached me clearly clinging to the hope of getting a leg over I would give him the list. Lets face it, he isnt someone I really want to have in my life so I couldnt care less if he calls me a dirty slag. I would just point out that "hey sad man, you are the dog sniffing at my leg " then walk away. Why wait around for the torrent of abuse that comes when the rejection hits them.

Chloe, THIS is what I am getting at! I always get the latter, always, and that's why I reel off a price list. Good guys are hard to come by nowadays! :(
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Re: Why do a lot of blokes go mad when you insist on charging them?
« Reply #82 on: 19 August 2013, 06:11:49 pm »
I see it as a pointless act listing prices etc.  I would rather do without the hassle .... even at my age it happens.  Its best just to turn your back or ignore, if they wont go  away and was annoying me I would simply ask someone to have him removed or leave the establishment I was in.  Why fuel the situation further. Pointless.
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Re: Why do a lot of blokes go mad when you insist on charging them?
« Reply #83 on: 21 August 2013, 04:11:37 am »
When I see someone who clearly has money and is interested, I tend to say girls like me don't come here for free ;). - But they knew that anyway as usually their 40+ with stupidly expensive bottles of champagne around them and loads of girls in the vip.

 Think it varies on who you approach, the situation you're in and how you act.

I wouldn't go upto a handsome 30 year old who just struck up a conversation. I just wouldn't be able to draw a pricelist into a conversation somehow. What do you say to them?
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