Outwith work, I have had a few chancers e.g. at bars try their luck.

I obviously make sure it's an area outwith where I live, but my opinion is, why should a bloke get it for free if he's using you and slagging about?

I get the whole sleazy speel, so then I say my price list.

Instantly, I get a tirade of abuse.. "I wouldn't even pay 1p for you, you disease ridden slag".

Yet these blokes put it about..

Maybe it's just me, I don't know. I just think that me and other ladies are worth our prices, so why shouldn't I get something in return?

It's the whole reason I avoid bars/clubs now (plus am getting on a bit lol). But I still get hit on sometimes on the street when I'm out minding my own business.

Clients aside, I don't get why blokes go nuts if you state your price list. The saying "no such thing as a free lunch" springs to mind..

Daisy- simply because, that's how we're labelled all the time!

Maybe I just hold a totally different view

Now, I love this job, really I do. I work with a good team, my clients are 99.9% nice men, I go to some lovely hotels, spend it with great company, have some good fun. But obviously, and I know there was a similar thread recently about money etc, but it's good to be paid for it.

Perhaps, outside of this job, I have been used once too often, I dont know. But outwith this job, I find sex dull, boring and well, not interesting! And I don't see why some guys think they can go about asking for it without expecting something back! Like I said, may have to be an agree to disagree post, but personally I would rather be paid for it

Some people see our work as being cheap and dirty but IMO anyone doing it for free is worse.  That's just my opinion though.

You always get some men like this.
You charge it your a whore you freely give it your whore.
I'm in the same mind set Lil Lolita if I spilt up with my bf I doubt I'd just go out for sex and not be paid 

Outwith work, I have had a few chancers e.g. at bars try their luck.

I obviously make sure it's an area outwith where I live, but my opinion is, why should a bloke get it for free if he's using you and slagging about?

I get the whole sleazy speel, so then I say my price list.

Instantly, I get a tirade of abuse.. "I wouldn't even pay 1p for you, you disease ridden slag".

Yet these blokes put it about..

Maybe it's just me, I don't know. I just think that me and other ladies are worth our prices, so why shouldn't I get something in return?

It's the whole reason I avoid bars/clubs now (plus am getting on a bit lol). But I still get hit on sometimes on the street when I'm out minding my own business.

Clients aside, I don't get why blokes go nuts if you state your price list. The saying "no such thing as a free lunch" springs to mind..

Most likely these are average men who don't use escorts for whatever reason who react badly. I just smile when out having a dance and flirt separating this and personal time. But would much rather getting money in returning both lives, But in my personal life this is a big secret so can't go on like that, as come across respectable engaging with others.   It would do my head in living 24/7 in a prosy mind set.

Quote from: Lady_Lust_XXX on 27 June 2013, 10:48:32 pm

...but IMO anyone doing it for free is worse.

This is what i don't understand. Why, just because it's sex, is it 'bad' / 'worse' / 'moral' vs. 'immoral' ad infinitum. I 'do it for free' quite a bit and I get paid for it quite a bit too    neither of these is bad or worse than the other... As sex workers we of course have our own opinions on certain subjects but shouldn't the language and attitude we have towards sex, sex work and other peoples choices on how they express their sexuality be a little more tolerant and informed than that of the general public?

I thought it was what Daisy is replying to but wasn't too sure. Having fun for free is ok, just how it is for having paid sex fun. Some people could say that paying for sex is far worse than for free. There is for and against in every thing.

One day sooner or later, people are going to have to accept us.

I see a few people agree, whereas a few others don't, but personally, I don't understand the full concept of why people would want to do it for free.