Have been doing this job for about 4 years but part time. Once I hit my thirties, I left my job because I was tired of working 12-14 hours a day to attain and maintain a good career and decent income. On a rare holiday, I suddenly could not face returning to a relentless and gruelling job. I felt like a hamster on a wheel doing 50 miles an hour just trying to stay put. I sat down and made a list of dreams and goals. It wasn?t anything extravagant, I just wanted to have a lot of free time to read & potter around with various hobbies. I then made another list of what kind of job would allow me to have a reasonable income with relative few hours. Escorting seemed a logical conclusion.
At the time, I was single and starting to miss sex. A quick foray into dating and adult sites made me realise that I might as well charge for it and actually get treated with more respect by clients than sleaze balls who tried to trick me with all sorts of lies to get me into bed. Because I had savings before starting escorting, I was really lucky to be able to take my time to research safety precautions, a place to work from and could afford to turn down any client that seemed dodgy. I know how tough it is when you?re with your back against the wall and how it can make you more vulnerable. I?m knocking on a massive piece of wood right now but so far I have been incredibly lucky to not have had a dangerous or unpleasant client and never been ripped off (yet). But I?m not getting complacent and if I get even the slightest inkling of something not sounding right, I simply do not go ahead with a booking. My motto is if something sounds too good to be true then 99% of the time it is likely to be untrue. For me no booking is certain or guaranteed even with regulars until the money has actually hit my sweaty palm. But then I?m content with handful bookings a month as I own my place and have very little overheads.
I don?t always feel like working and sometimes feel bit meh but compared to any work I?ve done in the past, when I dreaded each day, this job is by far the most pleasant.