Absolutely. Being able to roleplay well is a huge skill and it requires time to get in and out of the role in such a way that it doesn't fuck with your head.

If ever I have a roleplay and I am not feeling it beforehand, I try and fake it as much as possible. If it's been advance booked, that is. If, on the other hand, someone wants a same day booking for roleplay and I don't feel up to it, I will refuse the booking.

I have to have a balanced variety in my day so that I stay on top form. I couldn't do all roleplay, or all domination, or even all GFE. I have to mix it up. So if I have enough GFE / dom / roleplay for the day, I will refuse any more ans accept one of the other categories.

That's OK to feel that way LOTM.

Sorry honey *hug*. In this very rare case, sounds like you did the right thing in giving him back some cash & I never say that *smile*.

My huge pet peeve is when they show up wanting an RP & haven't said a word about it prior *scowl* & gee whiz, conveniently didn't bring the additional donation...

No. I need time to think, & plan & absolutely to get my head together. I can pull off an RP with 5 minutes notice, but will you be happy? I dunno.

I hate RPs, I think they're the stupidest thing ever & I pity the future SO of mine who ever requests it. He'll get an earful lol.

These men don't want to pay more for a pro sub service that charges a lot more (unsurprisingly).

Expecting escorts to read those lengthy emails beforehand is a red flag on its own.
Of course, it's a bit different if he paid for that "extra time/effort" as a compensation.
That's not usually the case.  It has to be extra free service to hand out (to get his money).
It's all about "male control".
They want to push the boundaries for freebies/expecting some response along the way.

They are also hard work, can't get it up (read: too much porn), demanding abruptly, just no "flow" in booking.  All too contrived and want you to act like a puppet he wants to control at every step of the way.


Sick in my book.
It is likely that they wank prior to the booking whilst he gets entertained via email exchange for free.  £50 on top for email exchange, that seems fair to me.
Free?   No thanks.

Now I'm the opposite, Salty. I'm all, "hey, the more info you give me, the more I can tailor it to your specifications." Write all you want LOL, maybe I'll pay attention, maybe I won't😆. Fucking RPs, man. The bane of my existence.

Had a 73 year old ask about my Oedipal Rex RP & I was horrified. I was not doing that with someone OLDER than me. Disgusting. For once ~ once! I thought on my feet & said it was only for a specific age range & well, he was over that *sympathetic look*. Sorry not sorry...🤢🤢🤢

I had a regular client who would send me erotic stories (usually about 10 pages long) for me to “study” and act out on the following booking. He paid well so I put up with it, but one week he properly told me off for not having studied the latest story in enough detail word for word. I cut the booking short and he was swiftly blocked.

LOTM, I think you work in the same city as me and I think I have seen this client!! :-P

I do think something that requires so much more prep should be valued at a higher rate than something like GFE, where you can literally just go with the flow. Roleplay isn"t like that at all. I do have one client that I see weekly who will just tell me a few hours before or as soon as he arrives that he fancies X or Y roleplay. But to be fair, every single roleplay runs around the same theme with him so I don't find it too taxing. But if I had a brand new client that I didnt know drop a complex roleplay on me on arrival, I wouldn't be too happy.

I mean, a heart surgeon CAN perform heart surgery in an emergency situation, but she / he likely plans them to the minute detail on a usual basis. Yes, I just compared roleplay to heart surgery, just to make a point.

Would that have been in Glasgow? Xx