Hmm Tricky one... The thing is, he may well be telling the truth, there are some really horrible girls out there! Personally, I would be charming to him on the phone, let him get his angst out and let you listen to the expanded picture before making a decision. As a get out clause if he is just too judgementmental then you can always 'say' you would be happy to see him but think as he's had such bad experiences he may be better off taking a break for a while? Not a rejection flat out, but a 'nice & polite' not now... and thank him for his time! xx
I agree with this, he may well have looked at some 'glossy' photo shopped photos of young women who appear to do everything for a very low price, booked them and then been 'stung' by a few, ie; they looked nothing like their photo's and didn't do all they advertised, or charged extra for this that and the other.
Then he decides to use his brain rather than his cock and chooses someone with good reviews etc, but possibly he's also got it in his mind by then that all escorts are bad so just wants to make sure he's made the right choice this time. I wouldn't feel under pressure to go out of my way to reassure him, with these types I just say "Well you never know until we meet" As I said to one similarly 'worried' client recently, to remind him what it is: "I hope your 'PAID SEX' experience with me is better than your last one that you described
ok so this guy turned out not to be ok ....but I've had so many guys get in my door and say' oh thank God I've been so worried, I've had a couple of bad experiences and they make me really dubious , some examples , guy had his car trousers phone stolen when taking a shower ( he only thought one girl there) quite a few have turned up to women who have absolutely no resemblance to their pics , another asking him to bring wine , he did and she drank it from the bottle, when he said , I think I might leave it she started screaming "well as long as you fucking pay me" he said he did just to get out ..another shagged an 'ironing board' who he said didn't move her body or look at him , another asked if she was pregnant when he arrived and she said "yes but it's only six months " and these guys have been in my opinion sensible men who have been totally misled , And also totally relieved and more than grateful to meet somebody , polite, nice and aware that they are spending one hundred and fifty pounds of their hard earnt money ( for a quality hour)...I'm not saying every guys great by any means but I still think it's a lot of money they invest I'd be seriously fucked off if someone told me they were years younger, completely different size, bad breath from fags etc (pig sty house, babies in the house etc ,when their profile said the total opposite and I had been fool enough to believe it....unfortunately it doesn't help genuine girls and the guys are dubious to say the least