Hmm Tricky one... The thing is, he may well be telling the truth, there are some really horrible girls out there! Personally, I would be charming to him on the phone, let him get his angst out and let you listen to the expanded picture before making a decision. As a get out clause if he is just too judgementmental then you can always 'say' you would be happy to see him but think as he's had such bad experiences he may be better off taking a break for a while? Not a rejection flat out, but a 'nice & polite' not now... and thank him for his time! xx