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ladyofthemansion

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When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« on: 21 February 2016, 02:25:46 pm »
One has booked me for 3 then sent barrage of texts saying he hope isn't will be good as the last three he visited were rotten. I texted to ask if he hadn't managed to read my AW feedback and he just went on about how rotten all the others were. I'm now trying to decide if he has genuinely been unlucky or a nutter I should cancel on.
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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #1 on: 21 February 2016, 02:29:56 pm »
He's just trying to make you work EXTRA hard to gain his approval. Isn't there a forum where disenchanted guys can complain about how hopeless, lazy and greedy we "pro$$ies" are without making us listen to that self-obsessed angry drivel?
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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #2 on: 21 February 2016, 03:09:07 pm »
I would back out if I were in your shoes. He sounds miserable and I suspect he always sees glasses as half empty.


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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #3 on: 21 February 2016, 03:57:38 pm »
Sounds like a bit of a narcissistic prick and possible boundary pusher. He's implying that his approval is an important factor and if he doesn't get what he wants he probably leaves  a bad review or becomes abusive. He probably just is one of those guys who hates women and the fact he has to pay for one to spend time with him.

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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #4 on: 21 February 2016, 04:16:20 pm »
I would back out if I were in your shoes. He sounds miserable and I suspect he always sees glasses as half empty.

I totally agree, I wouldn't be seeing him either. Sounds like a boundary pusher, that's for sure.
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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #5 on: 21 February 2016, 04:17:32 pm »
Hmm Tricky one... The thing is, he may well be telling the truth, there are some really horrible girls out there! Personally, I would be charming to him on the phone, let him get his angst out and let you listen to the expanded picture before making a decision. As a get out clause if he is just too judgementmental then you can always 'say' you would be happy to see him but think as he's had such bad experiences he may be better off taking a break for a while? Not a rejection flat out, but a 'nice & polite' not now... and thank him for his time! xx

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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #6 on: 21 February 2016, 04:17:52 pm »
It's just a really strange thing to say really.I don't go to the cinema and say to the ticket vendor that I hope this film is better than the last 3 I saw?!?
He might well have seen 3 ladies that were not good or it could be that he behaves like a prick in some way so didn't get a good service.I'd either ask what it is he is wanting out of a booking i.e he might be one of these blokes that expects things and assumes we are mind readers or say you felt uncomfortable with what he has said.

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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #7 on: 21 February 2016, 04:27:41 pm »
Well my reply is in no aimed at the poster or the previous ladies he has visited but he chose the escorts himself so it says more about his choosing than the ladies if you understand me...

If I buy something and  it's not to my taste, is that my fault, the shops fault or pure bad luck lol?
Maybe he needs to be more discerning and cop on
Or  you could say the same back, hope your better than the last few punters I have seen, useless they were haha
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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #8 on: 21 February 2016, 04:47:52 pm »
One has booked me for 3 then sent barrage of texts saying he hope isn't will be good as the last three he visited were rotten. I texted to ask if he hadn't managed to read my AW feedback and he just went on about how rotten all the others were.

In my experience, every client I've ever had who's claimed he's had bad escorting experiences has had a problem. A Hygiene Problem!!  A major Hygiene Problem! And the problem  has been HIS and not the escorts!

Think! Three escorts of his choosing! Three bad experiences! Perhaps he's been unhappy when they didn't get as intimate as he expected! Sounds like a stinker to me!!!

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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #9 on: 21 February 2016, 06:15:22 pm »
One has booked me for 3 then sent barrage of texts saying he hope isn't will be good as the last three he visited were rotten. I texted to ask if he hadn't managed to read my AW feedback and he just went on about how rotten all the others were. I'm now trying to decide if he has genuinely been unlucky or a nutter I should cancel on.

A comment like that would make me answer something in the lines of : "Apologies but you've put too much pressure on me and I don't feel comfortable seeing you". Bye.

Why? because this guy is a jerk, and sounds rude and your tipical boundary pusher. There's probably a reason why the last 3 escorts had a horrible time with him, and it's sounds like "he" is the reason.NO WAY I would take this person.

Alarm bells ringing very loud.

Thank you but no. Fully booked hun.
« Last Edit: 21 February 2016, 06:18:05 pm by Ana30 »
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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #10 on: 21 February 2016, 06:31:53 pm »
If that guy has 1. read profiles properly, 2. has chosen reviewed ladies and 3. phoned up and actually spoken to the ladies  to check for compatibility, I'd have thought it's more or less impossible to have THREE crap punts in a row. I hate punters who portrait themselves as victims of useless escorts.
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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #11 on: 21 February 2016, 07:37:45 pm »
If that guy has 1. read profiles properly, 2. has chosen reviewed ladies and 3. phoned up and actually spoken to the ladies  to check for compatibility, I'd have thought it's more or less impossible to have THREE crap punts in a row. I hate punters who portrait themselves as victims of useless escorts.

I was thinking the same thing.
I would have similar thoughts about an ecort's marketing and screening if all of her clients were nightmares, as well.

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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #12 on: 21 February 2016, 07:51:03 pm »
Hmm Tricky one... The thing is, he may well be telling the truth, there are some really horrible girls out there! Personally, I would be charming to him on the phone, let him get his angst out and let you listen to the expanded picture before making a decision. As a get out clause if he is just too judgementmental then you can always 'say' you would be happy to see him but think as he's had such bad experiences he may be better off taking a break for a while? Not a rejection flat out, but a 'nice & polite' not now... and thank him for his time! xx


I agree with this, he may well have looked at some 'glossy' photo shopped photos of young women who appear to do everything for a very low price, booked them and then been 'stung' by a few, ie; they looked nothing like their photo's and didn't do all they advertised, or charged extra for this that and the other.


Then he decides to use his brain rather than his cock and chooses someone with good reviews etc, but possibly he's also got it in his mind by then that all escorts are bad so just wants to make sure he's made the right choice this time. I wouldn't feel under pressure to go out of my way to reassure him, with these types I just say "Well you never know until we meet" As I said to one similarly 'worried'  client recently,  to remind him what it is:  "I hope your 'PAID SEX' experience with me is better than your last one that you described  ;D


 

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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #13 on: 21 February 2016, 07:58:47 pm »
In the end I turned him down because a regular client called wanting the same time as him.

He then thought he'd try and tempt me telling me he had some drugs.

So will now along with one other be writing a warning.
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Re: When they say I hope you're better than the others.
« Reply #14 on: 21 February 2016, 08:07:51 pm »
In the end I turned him down because a regular client called wanting the same time as him.

He then thought he'd try and tempt me telling me he had some drugs.

So will now along with one other be writing a warning.

My spidey senses knew there was something very wrong with this guy and had alarm bells ringing all over him. Thank god you had a regular client calling!
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