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ladyofthemansion

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When the guy is too fat....
« on: 29 February 2016, 06:25:03 pm »
Feel really bad. The guy was about 30 stone. Tried to risk him going on my table but could see straight away it was going to collapse. Took him to bedroom but really couldn't give him a proper massage in there. Just a hug, stroking and hand job. Felt like I had shortchanged him but what could I do? Was trying not to offend the poor guy too. :-( And was petrified he would break the bed.
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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #1 on: 29 February 2016, 06:31:07 pm »
I think you at least gave him a service as best you could.I have had my bed broken by a really big guy and its a pain in the arse but if you are 25 stone plus you must already kind of know that some things are going to be awkward and getting on a massage table is one of them.

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #2 on: 29 February 2016, 08:58:05 pm »
I've had a few overweight clients but they've all commented on it themselves and are aware of their own capabilities haha. One guy was too big for sex but was happy with role play and oral on him.

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #3 on: 29 February 2016, 09:19:17 pm »
Sounds awkward, Ive had some big guys but not that big. I have a problem with not knowing what to say when they start talking about how they hate being fat and eat too much, which they always seem to start talking about.. I have problems with binge eating too and its a constant struggle to stay thin but I dont really want to talk to them about something so personal so I just make sympathetic noises and feel awkward

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #4 on: 29 February 2016, 09:45:22 pm »
I've only had one majorly overweight client and his willy was small aswell which made it even harder to get in positions because his belly was on the way and he kept saying "sorry I'm so fat I bet it disgusts you" I felt really sorry for him, he was really shy aswell poor guy.

He kept mentioning how he wanted to lose weight but didn't know how to go about it and things I felt really bad for him he was out of breath just walking up the hotel stairs! He did book me again but it was more fondling and kissing, such a lovely guy though!

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #5 on: 29 February 2016, 10:18:36 pm »
I have had a couple of very overweight clients and they have both been very aware that because of this sex is very unlikely.

Like someone else mentioned mine both had very small willies too.......even had they wanted sex it would've been impossible, since I'm very slight.

Neither minded that it was more kissing/fondling and oral or handjob.

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #6 on: 29 February 2016, 10:36:36 pm »
I seem to get ones that can't seem to understand that sex is going to be awkward.No matter what position at the end of the day if the guys tummy covers his bits it's not going to be likely.

ladyofthemansion

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #7 on: 01 March 2016, 04:04:16 am »
And the willies tend to have the most awful smell when you roll back their belly.
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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #8 on: 01 March 2016, 07:02:18 am »
That is why I specify in my profiles no 'overly obese clients'.  After a few of them it got too much.  Besides which it doesn't do great wonders for my bed which could do with replacing ....

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #9 on: 01 March 2016, 01:14:37 pm »
Sex with overly obese clinets is hard - pardon my words but it's like mounting a horse or something.
I can also be suffocating having someone on top. I've seen bellies bouncing and i think omg! And unless you're very throrough washing in between is folds is hard.  :-X

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #10 on: 01 March 2016, 01:29:12 pm »
They also get all hot and sticky and sometimes a bit whiffy  not the best all round is it lol.

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #11 on: 01 March 2016, 04:34:22 pm »
I think doggy is the best bet, or stick to oral. Unless anyone has an idea of a better position? Perhaps reverse cowgirl? But I don't like to keep trying different positions if it's not really working, it feels awkward and then I feel sorry for them... It must be difficult for some with body issues or low self esteem even to see an escort so I try to give them lots of intimacy and be understanding  :-\

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #12 on: 01 March 2016, 04:45:56 pm »
I think doggy is the best bet, or stick to oral. Unless anyone has an idea of a better position? Perhaps reverse cowgirl? But I don't like to keep trying different positions if it's not really working, it feels awkward and then I feel sorry for them... It must be difficult for some with body issues or low self esteem even to see an escort so I try to give them lots of intimacy and be understanding  :-\

I seen an obese client once. Didn't try doggy. I would be too scared of the condom slipping off and stuff. Actually I would be scared of that regardless of what position. He had a wash when I came, but his cock was really renk. Pulled back foreskin and it was full of white cheese and his balls was like black.  Would have been nice of him to tell me he was obese though or atleast say extremely overweight. he said he was chubby but...... I would not call him chubby :o

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #13 on: 01 March 2016, 04:53:48 pm »
I have one regular who is on the large side. Ever such a sweetheart but some positions don't work and he knows that. I'm quite short though so doggy tends to work since it's kind of at an angle that avoids clashing with his belly. We usually go for reverse cowgirl or with him sitting up and me on top like sort of a lapdance position with his legs open. He can use one hand for support and another to touch me which he quite seems to like. He's not huge down there though so sometimes it can be awkward to find the right angle to get it in and to keep it in so it won't fall out. Better for him to avoid any attempt at thrusting just get him in there and work my hips.

Much of our meets tend to be more oral stuff or him just doing stuff to me.

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Re: When the guy is too fat....
« Reply #14 on: 01 March 2016, 05:33:52 pm »
I find doggy can be worse as I have quite a tight fanny opening which is nearer my bum than my clit and if a guy has a big belly he can't see to put himself in.Its awkward for me to reach under and guide him if he is pressed up against me.Sticking ones bum right on the edge of the bed and then putting the legs up round their ears works better for me.Worse is cowgirl if they have a small willy and big gut.I have to sort of kneel on one leg with the other foot down on the bed scoop them in then put the other foot down and then sort of scooch the belly out of the way.