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Title: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Erotic flower on 02 March 2015, 07:40:04 am
I was wondering if anyone else had been spotted or approached by their clients whilst looking different.
I wear a blonde wig over long brunette hair out seen last week at texico petrol station the  guy kept looking at me I was hoping he wouldn't come over but he did eventually asking if he knew me !
I said "where do you think you know me from"? and laughed he said you" look different but im sure its you, what's your name?!"
told him not to worry about it and paid then went off lol   ::)
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Fabulassie on 02 March 2015, 07:52:26 am
I had a guy approach me in an Apple store once. He walked up to me with a weird little grin and said, "Excuse me, you look familiar." Since I show my face it's not surprising but I think he's damn cheeky to approach me like that. I just said, "You're very rude to do this in public" and walked on.

In retrospect, I wish I'd said, "Sorry - no autographs please."
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Green Carnation on 02 March 2015, 06:14:11 pm
I once met a client at Sainsbury's, I was by myself,he just looked at me and said hi, I smiled and said hi back. He then later that day texted me asking for a booking  ;D

I don't have a boyfriend so I'm not bothered. I would personally never approach a client, but I can see why most punters get excited about spotting a wg about town. I believe it's a bit like spotting a celebrity
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: The_Lynx on 02 March 2015, 06:26:19 pm
I live in a very small town, so this happens quite often. If they greet me first, I'm happy to greet them back. That's as far as the interaction goes, though.
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: BlaqHarlot on 02 March 2015, 07:03:05 pm
I saw a client out with his girlfriend once when I was shopping! I looked and carried on with what I'm doing, glanced back and he was staring and smiling!

How indiscrete can he get! Lol.
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Bluetits on 03 March 2015, 12:49:04 am
I would hate it if someone recognised me simply from seeing my profile but hadn't actually booked me. It would make me so paranoid but I've only seen a few who I've had bookings with over the years. One last year who I recognised from far off cos of his long hair, was holding his girlfriend's hand and when he spotted me he couldn't put his head down far enough! A couple I've seen on their own who were discrete and another one with a woman who looked away a bit embarrassed when he saw me.

So those who worry about bumping into clients, I really think they're just as worried about bumping into us, more so in fact. I used to dread it but seeing some of their reactions I don't much now. Although when I occasionally go into the local (well known chain) pub, I get a little anxious.
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: peachybum on 03 March 2015, 10:18:34 am
OMG I had this one bloke who got a little obsessed with me. He was fine throughout the bookings use to come see me once a week. Then one day me and my ex took my dog a walk across the park and I got a text from him saying who was that black man you was with? Fuck all to do with him. I never replied and didn't tell my ex either. A week later I was walking through town and I saw him he starts walking towards me I ran down an alley to the hairdresser and hid in there until he'd gone. Iv refused to see him since. I get some of them looks like "I know your face... but where from" and all I'm thinking is yea you dirty bugger! Haha.
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: zoe on 03 March 2015, 12:31:53 pm
Yeah, a few times it has happened to me. If I by myself I speak to him, but if with family/friends, we just have a quick look and smile at each other.
And they then text me, saying "was nice to see you", but all been good experiences - both understand the rules.
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Jessica2017 on 04 March 2015, 10:41:47 am
When I first started Escorting in London I stupidly put a face picture up.  :FF

At the time I worked in a very big supermarket  and one day I had a customer come up and ask me about a certain cake and if we had any in stock. I went to check and said no and apologized and he walked off and I thought nothing of it. A few hours later after my shift had finished my work phone rang and it was him and he started talking about how he had seen me and as I obviously couldn't deny it I went to see him for an outcall a few days later  ;)

I saw him a few times while I was at work and if no one else was around he would say Hi but nothing else.

Obviously if he was a prat he could of emailed my escorting profile to the supermarket but he was probably more scared of being found out than I was.
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: ScotchGirl on 04 March 2015, 07:25:18 pm
I've had a couple of incidents of knowing glances and smiles, when the wife/gf has been with. One guy whispered "HI!" in sainsbury's then winked, once the woman with him had wondered off to another aisle. It doesn't really bother me as long as they keep it to that!
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Red KB on 04 March 2015, 07:47:16 pm
I had a client visit me after he'd seen my profile and then recognised me on his bus! He said he had to come and see me after he'd seen me for real. I was amused because I don't make much effort when I go out of my house.
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Ieaio on 04 March 2015, 08:37:16 pm
I got noticed in primark in the que so it's not like i could peg it. This chap started up a conversation so i just went with it trying to deter it away from where he new me from.
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Midsstudent on 04 March 2015, 08:50:02 pm
I had a client that works in my local supermarket... that I use a lot. So I see a lot of him now, I thought it would be really awkward at first and avoided going there. But in the end I gave up and it's ok. Sometimes he wonders round with me and we have a chat but that is as far as any outside work interaction goes.

Also I was on a bus once and this creepy looking guy got on and was staring at me grinning. I pretty much figured he recognised me, it was really uncomfortable as he was not the kind of client I would ever see. Creepy/chavvy/unclean.
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: victoryrose on 05 March 2015, 02:10:34 am
I had a client that turned out to be at university with me, which isn't bad as the university is one of the biggest in the country. Oh wait, yes it is because he shares two bloody modules with me! Bit of panic but I know he wouldn't tell and we don't talk or share friend circles so he doesn't know my real name and I doubt he cares, we've only spotted each other from time to time.
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Ieaio on 05 March 2015, 01:07:54 pm
Oh & not escorting but when i did stripping, literally that same week i went to my local pub then realized this drunk guy is ALWAYS in my local pub & he just so happened to be the man i'd given a dance to for 30 minutes last week. He gave me a look but not a look that he remembered me or anything (he was for sure drunk, everyone is in strip clubs)
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: cheesypeas on 12 March 2015, 09:44:03 pm
I had an appointment with a chap and am now
thinking he is a manager at my local supermarket.
He's been extra professional-friendly ever since.

I could be paranoid ;D

Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Madyson on 12 March 2015, 10:19:03 pm
I had a booking a few months back from a regular, whose wife works in a well known supermarket, when he called me I was actually just parking up at that supermarket which is only 5 mins away from my incall flat, I accepted the booking, he came and went within 10 mins (got paid for half hour ;D) he couldn't stay as he had to pick his wife up from work

I went back to the supermarket to do a bit of shopping and walked past him in the store waiting for his wife by the counter she worked at lol, we just totally ignored each other lol, weird to think we were having sex only 20 mins beforehand 
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: MissCurtis on 13 March 2015, 07:33:14 am
I have seen one client from afar on an opposite train platform, but he didn't see me. I turned around and stuck my head inside a newspaper. And then my train came, which was good.
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Erotic flower on 16 March 2015, 10:33:22 am
Had the topic conversation with my escort friend recently  whos on aw she was approached in her town by a guy who did dare say to her " are you so and so from adultwork ?", she denied it and walked away !
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Midsstudent on 16 March 2015, 05:02:00 pm
Had the topic conversation with my escort friend recently  whos on aw she was approached in her town by a guy who did dare say to her " are you so and so from adultwork ?", she denied it and walked away !

I've always hoped that no one would be so brazen as to say that, because I show my face!
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: Dani on 16 March 2015, 09:48:52 pm
I have had a couple recognise me and think it ok to just walk up and start talking (I was with my hubby shopping).  I tore both of them a new one and asked them how they would feel if they were with their wife (both are married) and I walked up and said hello do you recognise me I am the prossie you have been seeing?  They spluttered a bit and one looked sheepish and the other said it is different as they pay so they can say hello.  I am sure you imagined my response as I 'politely' explained he paid for the time he was with me not for interfering with my private life.  He could not understand why I wouldn't want a client chatting to me in front of my hubby.  I am lucky that hubby knows but I still don't believe in rubbing his face in it and after a few more very impolite words I finally got across what a total twat this guy was being and how lucky he was that hubby wasn't the sort to get jealous as some men may not have walked off laughing at me having a go and may well have given him a slap or five as this guy is not really able to defend himself although only in his sixties he is rather feeble and could easily pass for late 80s.  He became very sheepish and did apologise in the end

I get mad when this happens as clients don't know our personal situations and whilst we may look like we are alone our partner or kids or parents could be just around the corner or in the nearest shop etc.  They tend to forget discretion goes both ways and I do not expect clients to break this the same as I never would

Thankfully most are sensible enough to not do this or may just give a slight nod and sneaky grin as they walk past
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: SelenaLondon on 16 March 2015, 10:06:59 pm
My incall area and university and where i actually live are very close to each other.

I also take buses/the tube with my friends from uni every day in that area. I'm sure some punter has seen me.

To avoid being detected my appearance outside escorting is vastly different! I wear these big nerdy hipster glasses everyday like this :
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when i go to uni and jeans and trainers and no makeup at all. I look about 15 when I go to uni.

I do all I can to make my appearance vastly different and so far nothing.

If a client walked up to me while i was with my real life friends/boyfriend as mentioned above i would be LIVID!! As they don't know and want it to stay that way!
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: milfy on 17 March 2015, 04:05:51 pm
It hasnt happened yet but if it did id probably die!
Title: Re: when clients recognise you out of work !
Post by: LouDelightful on 18 March 2015, 05:22:40 pm
Aha i do have on regular who see's me about a lot in stafford but from day 1 i always tell clients if they are local out of the bedroom i wont see them out of work i completely ignore them most client that do see me out and about if i'm not working at the time usually they say its great to see em  and they think "i've fucked her" usually gets them wanting your appointment sooner lol