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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #15 on: 22 November 2015, 02:20:49 pm »
The manner in which some callers use is so rude i dont want them coming over for the booking.
the consistent emails texting and calls yet no booking made whats that all about, no thanks
contrary to what these men think i wont just take any booking at times i may be struggling financially and against my better judgement i would take a callers booking then regret it, proves my instincts were right first time.

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #16 on: 22 November 2015, 02:44:04 pm »
Gosh Kendra, if I was as selective as you I think I'd end up seeing one client per month!

Haha, I have a target of 2 clients a day and a limit of 3. I've never not made my target and more often than not always reach my limit. If I don't reach my limit in a day then it's cause I can't be arsed. My phone rings a lot, well maybe 30 odd times a day (if I only advertise on AW) and there may be only 3-5 people within all those calls that sound decent to me.

That's great, good for you.
This week I saw 4 clients, which is about standard for me. That's not because I'm super selective - I see most people who want to book. I don't put my number on my profile and I don't take same-day bookings. Because I'm not prepared to do either of these things, I don't get as many people contacting me and I'm fine with that. I do sometimes consider having one day a week where I stay at home and take same-day bookings, but I have a pretty busy life and I'm not really wanting to be stuck at home all day on the off-chance someone rings.
To answer the OP: I would decline a late evening booking if it was only an hour and I didn't have any bookings all day before it, so, I might put my availability as 4pm - midnight, but if someone wants 11pm for an hour I won't take it as I'm not willing to start work so late. If they wanted 10pm for 2 hours I would accept, or if I was already booked until 10.30pm I would accept an 11pm booking as I'd already be in the apartment and have everything ready.

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #17 on: 22 November 2015, 03:04:03 pm »
I don't put my number on my profile and I don't take same-day bookings.

Similar situation here, on top of being outcall-only. I do take same-day bookings if I can be arsed and if it's not too short a notice, though.

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #18 on: 22 November 2015, 03:08:54 pm »
I don't put my number on my profile and I don't take same-day bookings.

Similar situation here, on top of being outcall-only. I do take same-day bookings if I can be arsed and if it's not too short a notice, though.

I do take same day bookings but only with some sort of notice, I hate it when I get asked if I'm available NOW  ::)

I much prefer advance bookings because then I can plan my day around my clients.

I have tried not showing my number but the vas majority of my clients don't have AW accounts and whenever I advertise on another local site.....having your number shown is essential.

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #19 on: 22 November 2015, 03:51:49 pm »
I don't put my number on my profile and I don't take same-day bookings.

Similar situation here, on top of being outcall-only. I do take same-day bookings if I can be arsed and if it's not too short a notice, though.

I do take same day bookings but only with some sort of notice, I hate it when I get asked if I'm available NOW  ::)

I much prefer advance bookings because then I can plan my day around my clients.

I have tried not showing my number but the vas majority of my clients don't have AW accounts and whenever I advertise on another local site.....having your number shown is essential.

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Far as I can tell, I am literally the only person that has no phone number showing on our local website. ;D

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #20 on: 22 November 2015, 05:49:18 pm »
I am very similar kendra with being selective, but I only accept text or email because I would be too nice to bloody refuse people  on the phone, or would be distracted from following my gut while I tried to sound sexy/appealing /professional over the phone. Lots of arrogant men think i am a stuck up cow, but I would rather stick pins in my eyes than meet them anyway. I never feel bad if they haven't read my profile properly, its their own fault if they are disappointed :)

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #21 on: 22 November 2015, 06:01:12 pm »
I am very similar kendra with being selective, but I only accept text or email because I would be too nice to bloody refuse people  on the phone, or would be distracted from following my gut while I tried to sound sexy/appealing /professional over the phone. Lots of arrogant men think i am a stuck up cow, but I would rather stick pins in my eyes than meet them anyway. I never feel bad if they haven't read my profile properly, its their own fault if they are disappointed :)

Yeah but when they don't read your profile or do read it but don't actually accept your dos and donts, you end up with bad reviews. This has happened to me a few times where people expect more from me than I offer. Rather than blame themselves for making the wrong choice....it makes them feel better to discredit my work and put me down instead and everyone else with the same mindset chooses to believe them over me. I've only just recently realised that I don't care what these guys say anymore because those who believe every word they read aren't the types of clients I want to come and see me anyway.

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« Last Edit: 22 November 2015, 06:04:00 pm by Kendra Glasgow »

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #22 on: 22 November 2015, 06:08:40 pm »
Thats it! Absolutely!  I haven't had a crappy review yet(part from a punting forum where they frequently say how i am not very attractive)  but if I do I really don't care. I would just put a comment under it saying that "unfortunately this client expected services not offered as had not read my profile.",for example..
Just to add I read the punter forum stuff about you and in my honest opinion I just think it all comes across as sour Grapes.. It came across to me as you being choosy and great at what you do, but arrogant idiots cant abide a prossie having that much self respect. We are all supposed to be eternally grateful that they offer us some cash!

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #23 on: 22 November 2015, 06:10:15 pm »
Oh, and if I were a man, I would want to meet you more for that

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #24 on: 22 November 2015, 06:20:04 pm »
 Once had a guy turn up for an evening booking around 8pm (quite rare for me, normally finish for 6ish) who had the biggest willy you ever did see. He just couldn't understand why I declined to give him a blow job let alone anything else and was persistant/cocky and I became somewhat scared as I was alone in my incall place.  I said he must know his willy wasn't built for pleasure and was taking the p*ss! I eventually pretended I 'needed a quick word' with my security in the lounge to which he finally got the message but still left protesting and I prayed he wouldn't hang around making a fuss to draw attention to what what occurring at my then incall place.

Was quite shaken after he left as he was cocky and I felt he may have got nasty  :-[ :-[

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #25 on: 22 November 2015, 06:32:49 pm »
Can we stay on topic, please? If you want to discuss other forums and their contents/members do it by PM.

I only really decline bookings outright if somebody sounds so rude and/or unpleasant or their English is so poor that I cannot have a conversation with them on the phone or reply to their text/email. The rest of the time it's a combination of smaller things where one on it's own wouldn't make me turn somebody away but two might (and three or more definitely will).

These could be: not greeting me properly or addressing me by name, not having read my ad to the extent that they don't know where I am or my fees and the long, flowery emails with lots of pointless waffle - not necessarily graphic or explicit detail but anything (including OTT compliments) that suggests they've misunderstood how punting works. Referring to bookings as 'meets' and/or asking me if I can 'meet up'; I don't call the surgery and ask if I can 'meet up' with the doctor.

Also constantly messing me about changing booking times/details (not just running a bit late, or whatever), turning up early, and endless texting approaching a booking even though I ignore it. Plus anybody who comes over as being so thick that they're going to either forget to confirm on time, get lost because they can't follow directions or just won't listen to them and/or generally be completely indiscreet outside my premises - as nice as they may be, I don't need the stress.

Everybody else is good to go :D.

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #26 on: 22 November 2015, 06:43:51 pm »
Thats it! Absolutely!  I haven't had a crappy review yet(part from a punting forum where they frequently say how i am not very attractive)  but if I do I really don't care. I would just put a comment under it saying that "unfortunately this client expected services not offered as had not read my profile.",for example..
Just to add I read the punter forum stuff about you and in my honest opinion I just think it all comes across as sour Grapes.. It came across to me as you being choosy and great at what you do, but arrogant idiots cant abide a prossie having that much self respect. We are all supposed to be eternally grateful that they offer us some cash!

I've never had a bad review either on any of my adverts in 5 years nearly....only ever on a punter forum with a random anonymous username and always from someone new or fairly new to the sites but of course they would rather believe the guy who just joined over me  ::)

And I'm not allowed on to defend myself, not that I would want to now anyway. In the past, yes but not now.

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« Last Edit: 22 November 2015, 06:47:12 pm by Kendra Glasgow »

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #27 on: 22 November 2015, 06:46:02 pm »
Can we stay on topic, please? If you want to discuss other forums and their contents/members do it by PM.

I only really decline bookings outright if somebody sounds so rude and/or unpleasant or their English is so poor that I cannot have a conversation with them on the phone or reply to their text/email. The rest of the time it's a combination of smaller things where one on it's own wouldn't make me turn somebody away but two might (and three or more definitely will).

These could be: not greeting me properly or addressing me by name, not having read my ad to the extent that they don't know where I am or my fees and the long, flowery emails with lots of pointless waffle - not necessarily graphic or explicit detail but anything (including OTT compliments) that suggests they've misunderstood how punting works. Referring to bookings as 'meets' and/or asking me if I can 'meet up'; I don't call the surgery and ask if I can 'meet up' with the doctor.

Also constantly messing me about changing booking times/details (not just running a bit late, or whatever), turning up early, and endless texting approaching a booking even though I ignore it. Plus anybody who comes over as being so thick that they're going to either forget to confirm on time, get lost because they can't follow directions or just won't listen to them and/or generally be completely indiscreet outside my premises - as nice as they may be, I don't need the stress.

Everybody else is good to go :D.

I don't really care which way they address me aslong as it isn't baby or offensive lol.

But yeah, another one you pointed out was poor English not only because I don't think I will be able to have a conversation with them but because they would draw too much attention trying to find me in my building so I tend to avoid them too.

As someone else on this thread said......it's a wonder I see any clients at all by the time I weed out all the rest of them lol.

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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #28 on: 22 November 2015, 07:28:17 pm »
I decline loads, for lots of reasons, including on the phone - anything is better than meeting with an undesirable, surely? If it's on the phone, I either say outright I won't see them if there's a good reason. If there isn't but my intuition is screaming to me I just say I'm busy, save their number, and avoid future calls.
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Re: What would make you decline a booking?
« Reply #29 on: 22 November 2015, 07:41:20 pm »
I declined a guy the other day because he sounded very arrogant. He said he was a great fuck and 'not a bad looking lad'. He said the last WG he had seen got so wet due to his amazing sexual skills, she wet right through his mattress.

I can't stand arrogance.

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