Apart from the obvious where someone makes contact and is down right rude or crude, what silly things might put you off?

I find that some punters are shocked that I don't want to meet them cause they don't think they are doing anything wrong, they might think it's a silly reason but it's not silly to me otherwise I wouldn't turn him and his money away.

Good example of a guy recently who couldn't for the life of him understand why I didn't want to meet him EVER......

Was well and truly finished for the day but stupidly answered my phone after 11pm (my own fault) but I politely told him that I was done for the day but never work at that time of night and never without prior notice, he apologised and asked when I would next be available so I said either Monday or the following weekend. At this point I was in my jammies with hair up in a bun, not a stitch of makeup on, not long out a bubble bath and was sat in front of the telly for the nite about an hour before I go to sleep and he turned round and asked me if I am sure he can't come round and suck my tits for 10 minutes? 

I said I would rather poke both my own eyes out, he said what? I don't understand what the problem is? I said I don't have a problem with titty sucking as its all part of the service but I don't want a strange man coming round to dangle from my nipples for 10 minutes out of hours or EVER for that matter. A bit more confusion as to why I didn't want to take him up on his lovely offer before I put the phone down then I received a few texts calling me stupid, cheap and something else but I can't remember now.

Reasons for me avoiding someone...... the most common thing is if I just don't like the tone of their voice. If they sound dull then I think they will be dull and awkward in person, if they sound loud and aggressive then I think they are going to be like that in person, if I think they sound chavy then I think they are going to walk in and be rough with me and try to push my boundaries. I'm put off of these types because of previous experiences.

If i get any more than 3 missed calls from the same person in a short space of time then I think they are pestering me (obviously I'm busy) and it makes me think they are looking for an emergency appointment which is something I don't do so that puts me off and I get put off by people who throw in last minute requests (for things I don't do) and will always cancel in this instance cause I always ask if they have read my profile and are happy with everything when they actually book me.

If someone asks me for a bunch of things I don't do but still want to see me then I know in advance they are going to be disappointed so I try to avoid them too for incompatibility.

I know for a fact I've missed out on loads of good and genuine clients over something silly they have said or done to put me off and that really is my loss but I would rather miss out on a few good ones than have my guard down and potentially put myself in many more shitty situations.

I've been told I'm up my own arse many times for being so selective about who I see when I'm the least up my own arse person I know.....I just get overly anxious sometimes.

Can't think of any more reasons at the moment.

Anyone else have anything else to add?

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Can't say there are many things that would make me not see a client, aside from the usual stuff like haggling, or me suspecting that they might be violent/scammers. I'm not a horribly picky person and I'm blessed with a thick skin.

The one exception is a client whom I've seen once and then decided against seeing him again. For one, he'd request really long appointments (the first booking was four hours, and I generally find even 2 H meetings to be a drag). Secondly, I suspect he was pretty autistic - everything, from the way he spoke, to facial expressions and his ability to read my own reactions was pretty damn off. Not something I can deal with for multiple hours, it just made me uncomfortable.

I generally decline short notice requests unless I'm strapped for cash, as well. I prefer if the potential client books around day in advance. Otherwise, odds are good I already made some plans for the day, even if it's something as simple as playing video games with mates.

I don't have a thick skin AT ALL! I'm growing one though 

Yeah the hagglers are on my list to avoid too.

And if for whatever reason I didn't enjoy spending time with someone whether it be their poor hygiene or that we didn't click then I wouldn't take a booking from them again. Chances are though that if we didn't click, they felt it too so probably wouldn't try to book again.

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Quote from: Kendra Glasgow on 22 November 2015, 01:16:15 am

I don't have a thick skin AT ALL! I'm growing one though 

Yeah the hagglers are on my list to avoid too.

And if for whatever reason I didn't enjoy spending time with someone whether it be their poor hygiene or that we didn't click then I wouldn't take a booking from them again. Chances are though that if we didn't click, they felt it too so probably wouldn't try to book again.

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Strangely enough, questionable hygiene (to a point, of course) never concerned me much, but that might be because I don't offer OWO. Someone smelling sweaty doesn't bother me at all, for example.

Also not too bothered about the click or the lack of it, as long as it doesn't go all the way into "uncomfortable" land, like with the aforementioned ex-client. I'm generally a fairly unsociable person, so if I started filtering clients based on my enjoyment level, I'd hardly see anyone. Quite often, I find even the company of my friends and partner bothersome enough.

Someone being sweaty etc doesn't bother me either but since I started offering OWO, I make them all have a shower at the start otherwise OWO is off the menu but when I said I wouldn't take another booking from someone with poor hygiene, I meant someone being covered in shit for example or I've had a few turn up who's whole pubic region was reeking of strong urine which then transfers onto us.

I had a client once who had it smeared all over his arse and it was stale like it had been there for days. I was horrified, he tried to book again and I had to tell him that I didn't think we clicked as I didn't want to hurt his feelings because aside from the shitty arse, he seemed like a nice person x

Quote from: Kendra Glasgow on 22 November 2015, 01:39:49 am

Someone being sweaty etc doesn't bother me either but since I started offering OWO, I make them all have a shower at the start otherwise OWO is off the menu but when I said I wouldn't take another booking from someone with poor hygiene, I meant someone being covered in shit for example or I've had a few turn up who's whole pubic region was reeking of strong urine which then transfers onto us.

I had a client once who had it smeared all over his arse and it was stale like it had been there for days. I was horrified, he tried to book again and I had to tell him that I didn't think we clicked as I didn't want to hurt his feelings because aside from the shitty arse, he seemed like a nice person x

Yet to meet someone who doesn't know how to wipe, over here. Cock cheese is sadly a thing, but yeah, I don't do anything without a rubber so not my problem.

I only just started doing OWO and haven't had any problems yet x

Lots put me off taking a booking. I say on my profile not to call me as I have another job and can't always answer... Iv wrote it in big letters to only text me, so as soon as I get a call I block the number. Also if they text me asking for things that I make clear I don't do ie incalls, 30 minutes etc I instantly block. Any text describing what they are going to do to me during the booking instantly gets the booking cancelled. Another one I hate is when they ask how many times they can cum in the booking, I know there's nothing wrong with that question but it instantly makes me decline it. I see about 1 in every 10 guys who try and book, I'm not up my own arse, I'm just a very anxious person and the smallest of things put me off, maybe I need a holiday :-) X

I'm pretty thin-skinned, too. I don't let them see it very often but I rule out a lot of people for the same reasons you do. I have a sort of narrow idea of the client I like and I feel sort of sick inside at the thought of anything else.

Regarding cock cheese and OW: If I can't pull the foreskin back I often say that I'll have to put a condom on. They may not like it but nobody has actually complained. I sometimes will clean their cocks if they haven't had a shower.

I'm pretty thin-skinned, too. I don't let them see it very often but I rule out a lot of people for the same reasons you do. I have a sort of narrow idea of the client I like and I feel sort of sick inside at the thought of anything else.

Regarding cock cheese and OW: If I can't pull the foreskin back I often say that I'll have to put a condom on. They may not like it but nobody has actually complained. I sometimes will clean their cocks if they haven't had a shower.

Wow you nailed exactly how I feel. My idea of the perfect client is one who reads and actually accepts what's offered on my profile (not one who reads my profile but expects me to be someone completely different in person), someone who phones me sounding nice and friendly, someone who is clean, someone who is friendly, respectful and easy to talk to even if they are really shy as I can usually bring the shyest of people out of their shell.

When I meet someone like that, I usually feel great during and after their booking. I feel happy within myself that I have another happy client and I feel happy within my job.

When I get someone who I don't like the sound of on the phone for whatever reason then they don't get as far as a booking with me but for those who sound normal and manage to get past my vetting procedure but turn up and are cold, disconnected, awkward, disrespectful, rude or when we don't click because of these personality defects.....I feel horrible inside cause there really is nothing worse that just being intimate with someone you know isn't happy nor a nice person.

So I try my absolute best to avoid that situation like the plague which unfortunately means I must miss out on a few good clients because I'm so strict about who I see.

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I just remembered another reason for blocking someone. I always leave my work phone on at nite (unless I'm off the following day and have plans) but I put it on silent and leave it in another room so it doesn't disturb me but when I wake up and see all the missed calls at ungodly hours......I just automatically block them x