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TantricTease

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So sex worker ladies, sex worker girls, sex worker women, sex Transmen, Transwomen, Male Straight/Bi Escorts, Male Gay Escorts,..,basically ever single sex worker that is here on Saafe and can post...What was your opinions of sex workers before you did your first job yourself?

I knew a sex worker when I was 13/14 and when I was that age I loved being friends with women over the age of 21 and to this day I still have zero idea why  ??? Anyway she was perhaps 23-26 years old and she had an adorable little boy was who 3.5 years old and myself and friends went through a stage of taking kids out for the day to give their mothers peace, yet as much as we liked the little kids then it was their mum that we usually found ourselves in awe off, ye’know in that silly pathetic way teens fall for adults, and it is ya quite common for this to happen and especially if the relationship with your own mother is fraught with issue...anyway that’s story for another day...

..So it ended up coming to light that our marvellous cool free spirited lady was a hooker (prositute on my day and at school  :FF and we always found pretty explicit photographs of me fully naked and

Nadya

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I imagined it was all intercourse 24/7, pimps and violence (Something like the first series of 'The Deuce' for those who have seen it). I had no idea that it could be anything outside of that.

I actually do very little penetration.  Many of my clients are either not interested in penetration or have erection problems.

Kay

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I'm not really sure I gave it much thought. My mum, however, was always very grateful to a lady in Hull who looked after her (bought her a cup of tea and saw her onto the bus home) when she had to take me into hospital with a fractured leg at 18 months of age. This was Christmas 1968, so no mobile phones etc. She couldn't get hold of my dad at work, a neighbour was looking after my sister etc. and I think she was just a bit overwhelmed/upset! I certainly never heard either of my parents talk about prostitutes in a derogatory way.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

CelesteManchester

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For me I always imagined it as 1 extreme or the other. Either the complete down in the dumps, crack addicted, pimp having, bruise collecting faded girl who'd run away from home, or the $2,000/hour gal who services only the most discerning gentlemen, & jets all over the world at the drop of a hat 🎩.

The truth is that most of us are just....regular ppl😯😯😯. Omg! Just women trying to make a buck in an unconventional sense, & an unconventional manner, & still being shunned for it. Sigh.

That was the biggest eye opener for me.
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Mirror

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The idea of being paid for sex really intrigued me, I knew street workers existed and I knew indoor workers existed. A boyfriend often said "If I was a woman I'd be a high class prostitute in London". Later I had a boyfriend who told me about the Escorts he'd booked" one was in a real mess with alcoholism however others sounded as if they did the same things I did, treated better (he wasn't very pleasant especially in drink or drugs) and they got paid well.

Curvymamma

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Even from a very young age I was fascinated with SW, as I grew up I would always read or watch everything related, I remember at about the age of 15 reading a book about Linda Lovelace.  I never really connected the dots about my fascination and it took a lot of years for me to get me where I am today......loving what I do!

matcha

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I've always found the idea exciting, remember reading a punting forum on an odd day when I was 16ish, looking more often at the websites of high class agencies in my country then and again when I was 18 but never applying because I thought I was nowhere near that gorgeous. Plus I think I was just nervous and I was living with my parents so I completely rejected the idea.

Looking back at it now, I'm really glad I started properly escorting (had received money for sex before that) at the age I did, starting as an indie and doing a tonne of research beforehand.

Snow Whitest

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I think I'm just fascinated by anyone who chooses to live their life differently, outside of the 9 to 5. A close family member has been as escort on and off her whole life. I wasn't shocked when she told me, more curious. I think what shocked me is how prevalent it is and how there's this whole other world going on in suburbia that no one knows about!

TantricTease

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I think I have always been unconventional and my mum always says why can’t I just do a normal job like everyone else, and I said because I’m not like everyone else, I don’t want to fit in to a nice little box just like the rest of society and you brought me up so have a word with yourself mother!!😂😂😂

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TantricTease, I hear you girlfriend!

Lushblossom

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I had always had a kinky curiosity ref escorting and over the years when I used to live in London I met two women who both had friends who were high class escorts. I had also met a stripper socially. I have worked with homeless women a few of whom had done streetwork to e.g. fund their heroin habit. I also met a woman who had done escorting briefly consequently I have not lived a sheltered life so felt relatively in the know. All these insights helped.

cleojones

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Conservative. Probably what your priest thinks about it  ;D

Saffy

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Remember when you were at school and you were like 'euuughhhhhh I wouldn't sleep with him for a million pounds! ".

And today that is exactly what most of your customers are like..

It was either street walkers or high class prostitutes. I lived a very normal life I guess.



« Last Edit: 01 July 2020, 01:00:44 am by Saffy »

Justine

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I knew another sp some time ago who told me she previously worked in an office with several other women and the subject of paid sex came up. One of her co workers stated ugh I wouldn't sleep with XXX for ten thousand ££ and my friend replied "fukk I would do it for a hell of a lot less, it's only sex!!"

Great answer and I totally agree.  :)
« Last Edit: 01 July 2020, 06:16:36 pm by Justine »

Emmaaa

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I went in to escorting blind.