Could someone give me few tips on managing unpleasant things about guys regulars who I don't want to see anymore.
I do block but when the one in question last visited I was polite until he left he makes me cringe.
Could you say that how uncomfortable they make you feel when they think they did nothing wrong. Just their manner and behaviour. Stating sickly comments creepy looking.
This guy keeps trying to get through this morning

I'm permanently booked up when I don't want to see someone and my tone goes from friendly and bright to a little bit frosty. Most people get the hint. If they persist in trying to get through I block them because I feel it's a form of boundary pushing. In an ideal world I could be more honest but  some guys have entitlement issues which can turn nasty so I'm personally a bit careful about what I say.

I would love to say that I I'm not seeing you because you creep me out I can't stand your stupid comments about my body parts and the way you lie there gazing into my eyes 

I tend to let them know what theyre doing is making me uncomfortable and if they continue i terminate the booking
I cant stand someone gazing into my eyes, or saying creepy things or consistently creepily telling me how hot i am! It gets a bit much! Once, twice, fuck off!

If you just take it, they expect you to do that everytime.

I normally let them know at the end of the booking, that i wouldnt be comfortable in seeing them again.

I used to just block but then one guy who I found repulsive and put up with for two bookings before blocking worked out I had blocked him and rang and booked on another number and I didn’t recognise his voice. When he arrived he started asking  if I’d blocked him and why. I was worried what he’d do so just lied and played dumb. It wasn’t scary as such but unnerving.

Now I just text them saying I’m booked up and do this until they get bored of trying which they always do. That guy only pretended to be a stranger to get me to meet him because he felt slighted and like he ‘had a right’ to an ‘explanation’.

It's a tricky one, because in an ideal world you'd want to be honest so they know where they went wrong so they don't do it again, but it's hard to know if they will turn nasty when they hear the truth. Or even if it would encourage them to engage further, or try to beg you/say they will change etc. I guess you will have to gauge it by how you think they will take it.

I block misbehaving regulars and newcreeps without explanation.
My time is too precious to teach them how to behave.
They don't listen anyway.

SaltySweet

Actions speak louder than words, give him a shit service & that will guarantee he wont return.