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DBLM

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #15 on: 15 December 2023, 10:41:41 am »
Don't waste time discussing it.

There are a couple of people who contact me with messages from time to time saying something like:

How much for 1 hour.
You are too expensive for me.
I'd like to book you regularly but for 1 hour then I'd visit twice a month.

Note: my price/sessions are 2 hours - I don;t do 1 hour - and actually very reasonable for 2 hours.

I don't block any of them.

I always just refer them to my website and say that's my rate if they want to book.
I don't engage in any kind of waste-of-time discussion.

I'm sure they think I don't get enough clients and that one day I'll be desperate enough to see them for £80 or some nonsense like that.

Actually - when I have people book me using the AW system one time, a guy did make a booking for just one hour and made up his own fee for it. It's a good job, I noticed, because I would have been furious if he arrived with less than the full money.

Fucking idiots.
I would have sent him away.
I have sent men away when they offer less, even when they suddenly bring out the right money after all.

How can they expect a great time when they pull stunts like that and insult the women beforehand?


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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #16 on: 15 December 2023, 02:31:38 pm »
I had some drip contact me today saying "hi i want to book you i like the look of you but can you tell me why your fee is much higher then most of all the other local women and is it supposed to be that or you done a mistake?

I just hung up on him. TBF after i went and had a look at some other women's prices i suppose i was 20 to 40 more but for Fucksake just piss off calling me.

I know i could get more clients with cheaper price for the services but it also means seeing more people and with hotel prices so much.  I also need to pick better areas where prices are not too low. Such hard work.

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #17 on: 18 December 2023, 01:09:36 pm »
When I started, I did some research to see average prices, and decided mine from there, but I started to have some clients saying that I was too expensive and they couldn't come as much as they wanted, so I made the mistake of lowering the price was thinking that the problem was me! One day a client came to see me and we talked about it and he said don't do it... with that you will call a lot of idiots... you do a good job and your price is fair !From then on I kept my prices and I won't commit such stupidity again! :)

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #18 on: 18 December 2023, 05:53:11 pm »
When I started, I did some research to see average prices, and decided mine from there, but I started to have some clients saying that I was too expensive and they couldn't come as much as they wanted, so I made the mistake of lowering the price was thinking that the problem was me! One day a client came to see me and we talked about it and he said don't do it... with that you will call a lot of idiots... you do a good job and your price is fair !From then on I kept my prices and I won't commit such stupidity again! :)
That sounds like an honest and great client to make a regular!   
I won't block a client for trying to negotiate once. It is a cultural thing for some, especially from middle east. One of my favourite clients tried that on the first visit. My response was I offer a 10% discount if you would like to prepay 10 visits. The next time he did just that. 

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #19 on: 19 December 2023, 12:50:53 pm »
I’ve replied to those kind of haggling messages with “ well the place I provide for the convenience for you to visit for an in call doesn’t come for free hun ! “

Then I add a suggestion that they look  someone within their budget .
« Last Edit: 01 January 2024, 08:34:13 am by Michellebelle »

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #20 on: 19 December 2023, 03:43:29 pm »
That sounds like an honest and great client to make a regular!   
I won't block a client for trying to negotiate once. It is a cultural thing for some, especially from middle east. One of my favourite clients tried that on the first visit. My response was I offer a 10% discount if you would like to prepay 10 visits. The next time he did just that.

I remember one of the first few to suggest I give him a discount for being a regular, he had had just 1 booking. This man went on to mess me around over many years, and he did the same to other ladies. He would often cancel at the last minute even in the booking citing wanting to quit punting. Gaining lots of positive feedback well spoken British with British heritage from a respected profession he came across as very genuine but eventually he gained warnings in a variety of places. One woman I contacted who had left him good feedback (he likely was well behaved on one booking with every Escort he booked), said he will never darken her doorstep again.


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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #21 on: 19 December 2023, 11:56:35 pm »
Honest answer and reaction?

I don't reply. I simply block and keep it moving.

I can't remember being asked this exactly, but I get messages that imply they can't pay my rates. For example, I get the odd request for 30mins or 15mins after they had seen my minimum rate. It means they can't afford it, so asking me "how much is 15 mins?" is annoying lol.

Also, instead of getting messages about how expensive my rate is, I got them questioning my deposit requirements instead...

If they had contacted me on WhatsApp, I block them there and do the same on phone. That way I save them the trouble of ever contacting me again and myself the headache of dealing with such unwanted enquiries.

When I was starting out, I would have replied, but experience thought me I was doing too much unnecessary gymnastics and wasting energy on time wasters.
« Last Edit: 20 December 2023, 12:19:38 am by LondonEscort2018 »

ladyofthemansion

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #22 on: 20 December 2023, 07:59:45 am »
If it’s on a phone call l hang up and block.

If it’s in a text l ignore and block.

Followed by a CE report.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

amy

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #23 on: 20 December 2023, 02:11:40 pm »
To be fair, somebody moaning about rates doesn't mean they can't afford them, just that they're not prepared to pay them - the narrative that if a punter refuses to pay X amount the only possible reason must be because he doesn't have the money is just dumb.

I can afford to spend pretty much whatever I want on a dress or a pair of shoes or a restaurant dinner (within reason), but that doesn't mean I will if they're not worth the price to me. I would consider somebody who immediately jumped to the conclusion that I won't pay because I can't pay to be seriously lacking in critical thinking skills.

Having said that, what I don't do is walk into the dress shop and berate the assistants for charging higher prices than I've decided are acceptable, because that would make me a massive twat. I just shop elsewhere and don't waste everybody's time :)

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #24 on: 20 December 2023, 04:17:41 pm »
Tell them to book someone cheaper.

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #25 on: 20 December 2023, 07:29:08 pm »
It's certainly true that some men can easily afford us but would rather still see us at a lower fee.  Earlier this year a man I'd seen several times and always told me how busy his small business was, was getting dressed and said he  was looking forward to next time but would have to "start saving for it" and he gave me a look I can't describe. I knew it was a hint. He had never previously hinted at paying less.

He didn't ask outright for a discount but he hasn't tried to book again.

Am not bothered 😁

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #26 on: 21 December 2023, 11:46:43 am »
said he was looking forward to next time but would have to "start saving for it" and he gave me a look I can't describe. I knew it was a hint.

Yeah, I know that look well. 'I can't wait to come and see you again just as soon as I can afford it!'.

I was also not bothered ;D

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #27 on: 15 January 2024, 12:10:28 am »
I normally just block  but occasionally I'll reply. Please look for an escort within your budget range I have plenty of clients who pay my full rates. Have a lovely day.

Then save as haggler / cheap state and block!

Sarcasm it pisses them off!

ladyofthemansion

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #28 on: 15 January 2024, 08:39:40 am »
It’s like me going calling Waitrose and telling them their prices too high. I just wouldn’t go.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

Sue69

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Re: What to say when someone says your prices are high
« Reply #29 on: 16 January 2024, 08:14:10 am »
There is hardly anything in the world that some man cannot make a little worse and sell a little cheaper, and the people who consider price only are this man's lawful prey.

John Ruskin