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JuicyLucy

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #15 on: 24 May 2013, 03:10:24 pm »
Haha! Funny thread guys.

I had a session session earlier with a man who thought dry hard fingering was fun for me.

Just as we were getting dressed he commented that the porn star on the movie we were watching that was being fingered looked and sounded in pain. Without thinking I snorted "Yeah, I have no doubt she is in pain! Some men don't know what they are doing" them it kinda went quiet!


GirlyGirlx

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #16 on: 24 May 2013, 06:16:01 pm »
I have serious issues with fingering, dry & hard fingering makes me so tense it makes me hyperventilate sometimes. They dig for gold sometimes. It feels like they are fisting me when they are only trying to get the second finger in but that's cause I am so tense and they think girls get wet instantly. I don't get wet at all when I am working I don't think so I use lube. Oh its a hard life but where else would we get this kinda money for the things we want/need in life? Every job has its draw back I guess its just that our draw backs are our health x

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #17 on: 24 May 2013, 07:28:15 pm »
There are lots of things I would like to say to some clients, but never would as long as I want to remain working lol.

Only once have I ever slipped us when a client asked me what he could do to make me very happy, I told him double my fee and don't touch me.  He laughed gave me a lovely tip and became a very good reg.

meetingdiversity

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #18 on: 25 May 2013, 12:40:56 am »
I have serious issues with fingering, dry & hard fingering makes me so tense it makes me hyperventilate sometimes. They dig for gold sometimes. It feels like they are fisting me when they are only trying to get the second finger in but that's cause I am so tense and they think girls get wet instantly. I don't get wet at all when I am working I don't think so I use lube. Oh its a hard life but where else would we get this kinda money for the things we want/need in life? Every job has its draw back I guess its just that our draw backs are our health x

Maybe play with some toys before the client fingers will help.

GirlyGirlx

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #19 on: 25 May 2013, 12:52:12 am »
Its more cause I have had accidents with clients slipping and scratching me and cutting me so I tense up, no matter weather I am turned on or not. I just don't like fingering (I love it in real life, makes me squirt and everything but not in work, those numpty's don't have a clue and its not even their fault really, how are they supposed to know what I like when we've only just met? Its a weird one)

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Orchid

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #20 on: 25 May 2013, 07:44:30 am »
I have serious issues with fingering, dry & hard fingering makes me so tense it makes me hyperventilate sometimes. They dig for gold sometimes. It feels like they are fisting me when they are only trying to get the second finger in but that's cause I am so tense and they think girls get wet instantly. I don't get wet at all when I am working I don't think so I use lube. Oh its a hard life but where else would we get this kinda money for the things we want/need in life? Every job has its draw back I guess its just that our draw backs are our health x
This has to be the most uncomfortable painful feeling, will not allow fingering ever  its like a medical examination, turn on for who? well only them, certainly not some of us .

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #21 on: 27 May 2013, 01:24:19 pm »
Well I admit that I've slipped into the habit of referring to all cocks as "little" which is fine for the men who loved to be humiliated but not so much for the rest of them.

As for men speaking during sex - perhaps they shouldn't. One man, who seemed happily into the sex with lots of moaning with pleasure, suddenly asked me completely out of the blue what make of telly I had. That put me off my stride. I asked him why he asked and he said it had just popped into his head. I did enquire but apparently he didn't make his living selling/mending tvs.


MaddieMoo

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #22 on: 27 May 2013, 03:03:12 pm »
"hold on, just trying to remember which condom colour is the small ones!"
I like my men clean, gentlemanly and with envelopes...

SuckMyArtHole

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #23 on: 27 May 2013, 04:58:16 pm »
Five and 6 o my god, o my god. O MY GOD!!! I've won the fucking lottery. YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nobody Interesting

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #24 on: 27 May 2013, 07:07:49 pm »
"hold on, just trying to remember which condom colour is the small ones!"

:D
Someone's been a bad girl

ClaireJayne

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #25 on: 27 May 2013, 08:31:39 pm »
I have this crazy mass of hair (on my head lol) and I have this regular who has the fullest head of hair I have ever seen, once I said to him 'our babies would have the maddest hair in the play group' he just went quiet lol

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #26 on: 30 May 2013, 09:25:33 am »
Well last night to my regular who books me at hotels near the airport, when we were undressing, I am very honest and said wow, you do have a big cock. He then spent the next ten minutes talking about the past and how many of his previous girlfriends have said it was far too big to go in, how they've needed lube, and then went on about the pros and cons of having a big penis! As I said in a previous post somewhere, this regular is quite happy to receive a handjob and come quickly, and spend the rest of the time talking about his problems! He even refuses any other sexual act after he's had his handjob lol!

meetingdiversity

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #27 on: 01 June 2013, 10:28:04 pm »
Well last night to my regular who books me at hotels near the airport, when we were undressing, I am very honest and said wow, you do have a big cock. He then spent the next ten minutes talking about the past and how many of his previous girlfriends have said it was far too big to go in, how they've needed lube, and then went on about the pros and cons of having a big penis! As I said in a previous post somewhere, this regular is quite happy to receive a handjob and come quickly, and spend the rest of the time talking about his problems! He even refuses any other sexual act after he's had his handjob lol!


Maybe I shouldn't tell the big cock ones that they're gifted but can't help myself.

TiffanySnow

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #28 on: 02 June 2013, 01:13:59 pm »
I was once camming with a client who asked me to fuck him on webcam with my with duo girl partner. She was sat on his face so he couldnt see the screen and the comments and one cheeky viewer said "He has got a dick like a chipolata" but I read it out loud before I realised what i was saying. My duo girl partner just burst out laughing, I don't think the client was best pleased lol..... ;D

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Re: what not to say during sex
« Reply #29 on: 07 June 2013, 03:01:51 pm »
I hate that when they ask if you enjoy sex with them, or if they're good in bed. No matter what you say it always comes out sounding fake and conceited

That's why if they ask I always reply, "euw no, it was horrible. I'm not doing that again" (but only with those who I think share my sense of humour and in a way they know I'm joking)  ;D