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sadie x

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Re: What makes your blood boil?but shouldnt..
« Reply #30 on: 03 August 2012, 10:17:54 pm »


Why I feel sorry for the guy though is I dont think it was said in malice, he was hung up on then sent a stroppy text which in my opinion was a step to far and very unprofessional.
[/quote]He still booked though!ha ha

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« Reply #31 on: 03 August 2012, 10:19:04 pm »
so i text "why do people assume escorts are lazy low lifes""why would i be in bed at nearly half ten?"
wow poor guy! lol
Lol! I really don't see how he is a 'poor guy' you never know he could have well meant it in a condescending way. And even if not I don't see him as a poor guy, he shouldn't really say silly things in the first place.

Everyone says silly things. In these situations guy are probably more prone to it, nerves etc...

And yes some guys say something that make you mad and cutting it there in then is not always a bad thing, its unlikely to go well if they've pissed you off..

Why I feel sorry for the guy though is I dont think it was said in malice, he was hung up on then sent a stroppy text which in my opinion was a step to far and very unprofessional.
he still booked though!ha ha

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« Reply #32 on: 03 August 2012, 10:37:17 pm »

I wonder if he reads this forum Sadie... It would be interesting to see if he came to see you again after what you are writing about him.




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Re: What makes your blood boil?but shouldnt..
« Reply #33 on: 03 August 2012, 10:44:14 pm »

I wonder if he reads this forum Sadie... It would be interesting to see if he came to see you again after what you are writing about him.
Why what am i writing,thats bad? im free to write whatever i like!
go on a customer forum,if your so perfect..i dont even use same name..
plus thats how i feel!

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« Reply #34 on: 03 August 2012, 10:53:59 pm »

Well alias or not he could probably work out it was him.
But that would be your loss not mine, so I don't care about that. I do care that you seem to gain pleasure out of being mean to someone and then gloating that you still got his money.

What would make my blood boil (if I could be arsed) and only because it gives the business a bad name is OTT drama queens like yourself . :)

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« Reply #35 on: 03 August 2012, 11:07:32 pm »

Well alias or not he could probably work out it was him.
But that would be your loss not mine, so I don't care about that. I do care that you seem to gain pleasure out of being mean to someone and then gloating that you still got his money.

What would make my blood boil (if I could be arsed) and only because it gives the business a bad name is OTT drama queens like yourself . :)
Do you know what?will probably go back to just sitting and speaking to no one about work..like before.
ive never over stepped the mark in all the posts ive ansewred to or sent.
its just TALK.thats all.
i will never claim to be a perfect cut out  of what an escort should be(maybe you)
because theres times when i detest my job.and i like to moan,so frigging what!
i treat all my customers like bloody gods 99% of time,thats why he still came to see me!
if i had to come on here and make out i love my job and have utmost respect for all the men,i meet ,i would be a big fat liar.because they dont respect me,30%of the time.
so i may as well not even bother..
because i would seriously run out of things to say..if i was constantly coo ing customers.
Theres some lovely men out there but there also some disgusting a holes..
the head of the post said..things that make your blood boil.BUT SHOULDNT.
i will be myself something i can never be WITH CUSTOMERS,when im all over them.
oh and i earn my money,they never leave,feeling ripped off.never.

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« Reply #36 on: 04 August 2012, 06:46:32 am »
I must say I agree with sadie x.
We can get annoyed over trivial things.
Even though l think myself as a sort of
detached person, sometimes I can't help
feeling envy by seeing couples.
Yes, I do know it is unreasonable but hey
being a human, I can't help it at all.
Who are we to judge?
Let's live and bliss.   :D

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« Reply #37 on: 04 August 2012, 07:50:50 am »
Leah, the purpose of this thread (and to a lesser extent, the forum) is to provide a safe place for people to have a moan and harmlessly let off a bit of steam - for God's sake lighten up and get off your high horse. Everybody has bad days and if they can't kick off about them on here, where do you suggest - it's better than taking it out on the punters? As we've said more times then I care to remember, if a thread annoys you or you have nothing helpful to contribute don't post in it.

Sadie, nobody expects anybody to be Perfect Prossie #27, but when virtually every thread you start is about something that's annoyed or upset you it does suggest that something is badly wrong somewhere. The constant ranting is all very well if it's doing some good but it doesn't seem to be making any difference to you at all and as others have said, it's starting to affect business if you're reacting to people on the phone by flying off the handle just because they say something silly then I think you need a break. Could you change your way of working maybe? It's obvious that however you're doing things now is just wearing you down and I don't know how much longer you're going to be able to keep it up.

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« Reply #38 on: 04 August 2012, 11:22:46 am »

Amy, whilst I fully understand the purpose of this forum are you saying that it's ok for a WG to post / boast on here that despite the fact she was rude to him he still came to see her..
Is that how you are willing for this industry to be promoted on here?
I don't need the support on here that others obviously do and I think it wonderful that it is available for them but surely the moderaters should be ensuring that the rules and regulations that say no negative comments about men should be followed.
So Amy I suggest you get off your high horse and do your job dear.
 

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« Reply #39 on: 04 August 2012, 11:48:23 am »

Amy, whilst I fully understand the purpose of this forum are you saying that it's ok for a WG to post / boast on here that despite the fact she was rude to him he still came to see her..
Is that how you are willing for this industry to be promoted on here?

Leah, Amy's post above addresses Sadie's side in this disagreement just as much as it addressed yours. She is doing, to its fullest definition, fair forum moderation and so trying to claim that we're bending rules to favour someone else over you here is just not going to work.

We do NOT encourage the slandering of clients here, but our rule of "don't reply to a post if you don't like that post, and especially don't reply if it's just to inform someone else about the negative opinion you have of them (i.e. no constructive information that a newbie could read)" applies above all else.
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amy

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Re: What makes your blood boil?but shouldnt..
« Reply #40 on: 04 August 2012, 12:26:17 pm »

Amy, whilst I fully understand the purpose of this forum are you saying that it's ok for a WG to post / boast on here that despite the fact she was rude to him he still came to see her..
Is that how you are willing for this industry to be promoted on here?
I don't need the support on here that others obviously do and I think it wonderful that it is available for them but surely the moderaters should be ensuring that the rules and regulations that say no negative comments about men should be followed.
So Amy I suggest you get off your high horse and do your job dear.

Bless. My 'job', poppet, includes keeping this forum running smoothly and fairly so that people for whom life is not a constant bed of roses feel they have somewhere they can express their views freely - just because we (myself included) might not always agree with them, and just because the opinions expressed may not always cover the poster in glory (and that certainly does not apply to the OP alone) does not mean they have no right to post them here provided they are within the rules.

As for 'promoting' the industry, that's the most bizarre thing I've seen today - who do you think we are 'promoting' it to? Do you think we ought to pretend that we're all fabulously empowered happy hookers industriously answering every phone call and email with absolute panache and doing every booking so perfectly neither we nor our 100% faultless punters never put a foot wrong? Well, if that's the case for you wonderful. The rest of us are human and if we weren't, there would be no need for the forum; whilst it never hurts to be mindful of who is reading, the day we encourage people to censor themselves in order to appease random browsers is the day we might as well stop bothering at all.

Oh, and any more laughably feeble attempts at patronising me and you're going on premod - dear.
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sadie x

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Re: What makes your blood boil?but shouldnt..
« Reply #41 on: 04 August 2012, 01:51:57 pm »

Amy, whilst I fully understand the purpose of this forum are you saying that it's ok for a WG to post / boast on here that despite the fact she was rude to him he still came to see her..
Is that how you are willing for this industry to be promoted on here?
I don't need the support on here that others obviously do and I think it wonderful that it is available for them but surely the moderaters should be ensuring that the rules and regulations that say no negative comments about men should be followed.
So Amy I suggest you get off your high horse and do your job dear.
Who the hell do you think you are?Have you ever read punter forums?(i havent)
well plenty have.do you think,all the posts are saying lovely nice things about escorts,100% of the time.well i suggest you read,miss high and mighty!
if i cant come on an ESCORT RELATED FORUM,where the hell can i go?
if customers choose to read,they may get an idea,of how we would like to be treated also.
And if there slimy enough to be stalking me and what my true feelings and opinions are,then so be it..
I know whats right and wrong and wouldnt mean to mock a guy, that he still booked,just been light hearted..god you think my post said "I hate customers"the way your acting..
Like you said,you dont need the support..so why even look or show any intrest?
The only person you should be worrying about promoting is your self..
Theres men who attack,rob,abuse girls(read warning and wasters)
but i dont paint all men with the same brush i know everyone is different.good bad and ugly.
but your expecting the moderater to moderate every bad little thing said..
You might live in a beutiful world with daisys where all clients and escorts never put a foot wrong.
but real people dont..
Id love to know how  you work and see that nothing ever affects you,every guy you meet is perfection, enjoy everyone of them touching you..whats you secret?
are you a robot?

Amy,i understand that its not a good thing, to only be writing,depressing posts..
And i am going through a hard time, mentally..
I think i do need to quit and im trying to quit..been doing it to long.. :-[ x x

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Re: What makes your blood boil?but shouldnt..
« Reply #42 on: 04 August 2012, 02:02:56 pm »
Ah gosh lets not bring the punter forums into this.  :FF

Sadie + Leah can't you guys go squabble by PM?!

Or even better just go have a bath and chill out!  ::)

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Re: What makes your blood boil?but shouldnt..
« Reply #43 on: 04 August 2012, 02:06:05 pm »
Casey makes an excellent suggestion!

Any further antagonistic/argumentative posts will be removed from the forum, with the poster(s) put on pre-mod/warning.
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Re: What makes your blood boil?but shouldnt..
« Reply #44 on: 04 August 2012, 07:39:28 pm »


Amy,i understand that its not a good thing, to only be writing,depressing posts..
And i am going through a hard time, mentally..
I think i do need to quit and im trying to quit..been doing it to long.. :-[ x x

Are you based in London Sadie, or could you go up to visit the Praed Street Clinic at all http://www.imperial.nhs.uk/thejefferisswing/sexualhealth/ourclinics/praedstreetproject/index.htm. They have a drop in service where you can discuss anything in total confidentiality, and they can probably help you with the burn out you're feeling. And then when you're feeling a bit more on top of things you can sort out a way to finish working so that when you leave you have a bit of money saved (or maybe decide that you don't want to leave after all?).
Hope you feel better, look after yourself - maybe take tomorrow off and have a Duvet Day?

Actually on topic...what really annoys me (and shouldn't) is when punters are a bit leery. I had one guy from Leeds who kept saying things like 'Ohh, aren't they nice tits?' and 'Isn't that a lovely pussy?' and 'Doesn't that feel nice, very, very nice?'. I couldn't figure out if they were rhetorical questions so I just kept doing fake 'Mmmms'... WTF?! ???