Author Topic: What Makes You think 'Creep'? (Read 12263 times)

Gypsy · « **Reply #15 on:** 13 March 2016, 12:29:52 am »

Quote from: lulu7 on 12 March 2016, 09:30:55 pm

I had one guy who is about 30-40 years older than me say "I wish I had known you when you were 15"

yea that wasn't a good day.

I don't think that's a creep, I think that's a paedophile!

MandyVine · « **Reply #16 on:** 13 March 2016, 02:02:04 am »

Quote from: Roxy101 on 12 March 2016, 10:53:49 pm

Who spend most the booking hurting you because they have absolutely no idea what they're doing sexually...

What is it with that--the pounding away? Is it porn or is it power? I don't understand how the women in their lives--at least one honest woman along the way--have not told them that this isn't something to do for ten minutes solid and it's especially not the way to start off without giving the woman time to get wet. This is one of my hot buttons--pounding idiots.

Teddy Bear · « **Reply #17 on:** 13 March 2016, 02:24:19 am »

So when did you get into this line of work? Maybe it's because I know I started at 18 but it turns my stomach and I always say when I was at Uni and don't give a specific age.

So what do you like? Who cares, you certainly don't.

Do I get the whole hour? Obviously. Just sounds like they want to get their 'money's worth' and I don't appreciate that kind of pressure.

When they are talking about their mundane lives and they stroke my thighs it's such a pervy move and I would much prefer they just grope my tits or arse it's not like I'm not aware why I'm there why do they feel they have to 'groom' me or something.

Mirror · « **Reply #18 on:** 13 March 2016, 09:18:25 am »

Quote from: Gypsy on 12 March 2016, 05:33:47 pm

For me it's several things. The way they need their hand holding through the entire booking process like they're a child and need their mummy. Especially the older guys, ugh! The way they converse, whether it's through emails or texts and they think of you as an object. Classic example is - Hey, Gypsy I wanna see you as you're on my things to do list. Totally crass and disrespectful - yuk! And the way they come across if they got half the chance they'd sit outside your flat day and night .

I've had this many times, and you'll probably hear it many times to come. I just take this to mean 'I've chosen you', I don't look down on someone for it, although I may explain to him that it can make me feel a bit uncomfortable.

Mirror · « **Reply #19 on:** 13 March 2016, 09:30:11 am »

The only thing I find creepy/a problem is when someone phones me for 7-8 years using different names and numbers, but enough clues for me to realise it is the person who's messed me around, turned up for one appointment half way through that period (booked with one of his other numbers), who I won't see again because of how he was in the booking, continues to phone me telling various lies (such as he has seen me to circumvent my new clients requirements - then claiming not to because he realises I don't want to see him again).

Another man harassed me by text for 2 years, has been told by police to leave me alone, now texts and emails other ladies about me - they inevitably ask me what the messages are about, and it's harassment by proxy.

I've also had a few personal judgement things from clients - they think they are somehow being nice making comments on body parts, and how they'd like me to be (ie not acheiving in outside sex work life). Yes that is creepy because it's my life, they aren't in it, it's hurtful especially when I know I'm making what are very good choices.

Anyone else I am usually fine with!

trashbaby · « **Reply #20 on:** 13 March 2016, 11:54:56 am »

Another one I find creepy is when they quiz you on your working arrangements.

"why don't you work evenings?"
"why do you always finish at 2:30?"
"why don't you work from home?"

Seriously it is *none of your effing business* what makes them think they can question you like that!?

trashbaby · « **Reply #21 on:** 13 March 2016, 11:59:54 am »

Quote from: Miss Bentley on 12 March 2016, 09:25:25 pm

'um incredibly attractive, not like your other clients.. ' (usually f-ing ugly and massively high maintenance)

'sell yourself to me' and 'i want to make sure I'm getting value for money' as well as the comment once they've paid 'so what do I get for my money' Cringe.

When the sex is finished, they look at their watch and add up how much time their penis spent onside your body and tell you how easy a booking it was fir you because only 10mins of a 30min booking was spent physically penetrating you

I'm considering you as a girlfriend' (right.. Because I don't get a say in this and NO!)

Men calling me 'little girl' I'm a woman in my late twenties.

Anything with the phrase 'girls like you' or references to 'real women' because of course escorts are a different species.. We're really all aliens who don't have real lives!!

SERIOUSLY. I've had a few who say "we don't have to have sex if you don't want to" and I'm like jesus mate that's the easiest part of the booking!!!

It's always the really difficult ones who say that too. Normal, nice clients I find easy to accommodate and I like talking to them, I like going down on them for however long they want me to, etc etc but when they're creepy and boundary-pushing I'd rather they just pounded me for the whole time so I can lay back and make some noises and think about what colour I'm going to paint the living room when I eventually get around to stripping the wallpaper lol

Mirror · « **Reply #22 on:** 13 March 2016, 12:31:30 pm »

Quote from: Poppy_xx on 13 March 2016, 11:59:54 am

Quote from: Miss Bentley on 12 March 2016, 09:25:25 pm
'um incredibly attractive, not like your other clients.. ' (usually f-ing ugly and massively high maintenance)

'sell yourself to me' and 'i want to make sure I'm getting value for money' as well as the comment once they've paid 'so what do I get for my money' Cringe.

When the sex is finished, they look at their watch and add up how much time their penis spent onside your body and tell you how easy a booking it was fir you because only 10mins of a 30min booking was spent physically penetrating you

I'm considering you as a girlfriend' (right.. Because I don't get a say in this and NO!)

Men calling me 'little girl' I'm a woman in my late twenties.

Anything with the phrase 'girls like you' or references to 'real women' because of course escorts are a different species.. We're really all aliens who don't have real lives!!

SERIOUSLY. I've had a few who say "we don't have to have sex if you don't want to" and I'm like jesus mate that's the easiest part of the booking!!!

It's always the really difficult ones who say that too. Normal, nice clients I find easy to accommodate and I like talking to them, I like going down on them for however long they want me to, etc etc but when they're creepy and boundary-pushing I'd rather they just pounded me for the whole time so I can lay back and make some noises and think about what colour I'm going to paint the living room when I eventually get around to stripping the wallpaper lol

I'd still not want a pounding. I make the type of service I'm offering very clear, which more or less eliminates those who want to focus on their cock or who believe that a porn star performance is what I expect. I still have boundaries and most clients are totally fine. If not then I soon communicate my side.

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #23 on:** 13 March 2016, 03:01:52 pm »

Quote from: Miss Bentley on 12 March 2016, 09:25:25 pm

Men calling me 'little girl' I'm a woman in my late twenties.

I get called "baby girl" - I'm 44!

Shewolf · « **Reply #24 on:** 13 March 2016, 04:09:48 pm »

'Let's play me dad and you step daughter'

I think single parents with daughters should take heed...this guy seems very nice in person.

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #25 on:** 13 March 2016, 04:50:48 pm »

Quote from: Shewolf on 13 March 2016, 04:09:48 pm

'Let's play me dad and you step daughter'

I think single parents with daughters should take heed...this guy seems very nice in person.

He's acting out a fantasy with a fully grown adult. There's a great long thread on here about age play.

edit: http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=22015.0

Nia Hope · « **Reply #26 on:** 13 March 2016, 05:15:47 pm »

Quote from: Shewolf on 13 March 2016, 04:09:48 pm

'Let's play me dad and you step daughter'

I think single parents with daughters should take heed...this guy seems very nice in person.

I agree, I never let any boyfriend live with me and my daughter while she was growing up after countless requests at work for this, but I suppose that's a whole different debate as Cat pointed out x

lulu7 · « **Reply #27 on:** 13 March 2016, 06:22:39 pm »

Quote from: Gypsy on 13 March 2016, 12:29:52 am

Quote from: lulu7 on 12 March 2016, 09:30:55 pm
I had one guy who is about 30-40 years older than me say "I wish I had known you when you were 15"

yea that wasn't a good day.

I don't think that's a creep, I think that's a paedophile!

Yep! I can understand age play fantasies but this was a different kettle of fish.
I can't ever get normal age play requests like lets pretend your a schoolgirl nope. It's always what were you like at 15,14,13 I bet you were a real slut. Were your tits this big then? (I am well endowed) I would have love to have met you then. Would you have liked me? Would you have slept with me then, i could have been your first? Things that make me question myself and other human beings

Shewolf · « **Reply #28 on:** 13 March 2016, 09:08:45 pm »

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 13 March 2016, 04:50:48 pm

Quote from: Shewolf on 13 March 2016, 04:09:48 pm
'Let's play me dad and you step daughter'

I think single parents with daughters should take heed...this guy seems very nice in person.

He's acting out a fantasy with a fully grown adult. There's a great long thread on here about age play.

edit: http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=22015.0

Yeah, maybe.

mysteriousGirl · « **Reply #29 on:** 14 March 2016, 01:19:47 am »

When they find and add you on Facebook, even though you've never told them your name.

I've had this in the past and again most recently today. It creeps me right out and makes me wonder how they've found me.

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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