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RKitten

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #60 on: 01 December 2017, 04:16:52 pm »
Well I just turned away my latest booking and feel like shit. He was a nice enough guy, but my incall is being monitored like crazy (even my friends are getting interrogated and opting to use the less monitored route in) and he looked notably different from his description. Will probably, likely get, some negative feedback for it (which won't be undeserved). If I were higher volume I'd look at getting a rental room, but 3 or 4 clients a week just doesn't make it worth it.  :FF if only my neighbours weren't so fucking nosey.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #61 on: 27 June 2018, 08:17:48 pm »


Just wondering do any of you have like a booking criteria?

Do you see them if they don't want to book through AW?

Ive been asking for face pics for security but feel like I'm loosing clients. Any thoughts?

Thanks x

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #62 on: 27 June 2018, 08:54:07 pm »
I just cancelled a booking because the guy started requesting outfits after confirming the booking. I actually said "OK, but before we confirm the booking, do you have any further questions or requests for me?"

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #63 on: 27 June 2018, 09:15:43 pm »

Just wondering do any of you have like a booking criteria?

Do you see them if they don't want to book through AW?

Ive been asking for face pics for security but feel like I'm loosing clients. Any thoughts?

Thanks x

How does a photo create security?

Most of my bookings do not use the AW system.

I insist on a phone call, these days I require a deposit from new clients, plus confirmation by phone (can be text if we've
spoken) by a set time on the day.

Ability to provide time, date, duration and location without difficulty.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #64 on: 27 June 2018, 10:41:34 pm »

Just wondering do any of you have like a booking criteria?

Do you see them if they don't want to book through AW?

Ive been asking for face pics for security but feel like I'm loosing clients. Any thoughts?

Thanks x

If I only accepted bookings through A.W. I would not do well at all! As for asking them to send me a pic of their face, er I don't think many men would agree to that, almost zero in fact.

I cancelled a booking on Monday because a (new) man started off the phone booking quite well, but he then asked was my apartment clean? I was shocked to be asked and said so. He said he usually expects below his own cleanliness standards so he can not be too disappointed.

Instantly changing my mind to see him I told him sorry but I could not meet him. He asked why and I just said "oh I just changed my mind that's all" and cut him off with a polite goodbye.  I think he knew he had overstepped the mark and didn't try again. Had he read my profile properly and some of my reviews he would see my in call place is never less than clean and presentable. 

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #65 on: 27 June 2018, 10:50:48 pm »
If I only accepted bookings through A.W. I would not do well at all! As for asking them to send me a pic of their face, er I don't think many men would agree to that, almost zero in fact.

I cancelled a booking on Monday because a (new) man started off the phone booking quite well, but he then asked was my apartment clean? I was shocked to be asked and said so. He said he usually expects below his own cleanliness standards so he can not be too disappointed.

Instantly changing my mind to see him I told him sorry but I could not meet him. He asked why and I just said "oh I just changed my mind that's all" and cut him off with a polite goodbye.  I think he knew he had overstepped the mark and didn't try again. Had he read my profile properly and some of my reviews he would see my in call place is never less than clean and presentable.

There's no way of knowing if the photo is actually of them, also a photo doesn't stop someone from hurting you or messing about.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #66 on: 27 June 2018, 11:03:11 pm »
There's no way of knowing if the photo is actually of them, also a photo doesn't stop someone from hurting you or messing about.

I do not even accept a booking if they have a face pic on A.W.  A few have booked before I had a chance to take a look into their profile and if I see either a face or cock photo then I won't meet them.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #67 on: 28 June 2018, 12:40:39 am »

Just wondering do any of you have like a booking criteria?

Do you see them if they don't want to book through AW?

Ive been asking for face pics for security but feel like I'm loosing clients. Any thoughts?

Thanks x

If I were a punter, no way would I send a face pic.

Personally, I don't see that AW offers any 'security' either. I go by how they are in a conversation on the phone, and never pick up blocked numbers.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #68 on: 28 June 2018, 06:59:27 am »


Thanks All.

I'm very new to this and still learning and wondering if I was being over cautious.

I guess the answer is to go with my gut.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #69 on: 05 July 2018, 01:01:44 pm »
I won't accept/reply if:

1. I'm asked how many times he can come
2. His first text is just "hi"
3. He texts several times with different questions
4. He is a "no show" from a previous booking
5. He sounds too much like my dad
6. He is George Clooney (too obsessive)
7. He is Donald Trump or Jeremy Clarkson

This list is by no means exhaustive.
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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #70 on: 05 July 2018, 09:19:35 pm »
If he sounds drunk or off his head.
If he is pushy and has a bad attitude and is coming across as rude.
If he asks for thing I specifically don't do.
If he just gives me the creeps from his voice.
If he texts "hey" "hi" etc then I block and delete
If he wants a booking that's too late or too early.
And if I ask for a deposit and he refuses and won't do an Amazon voucher or PayPal and I have a vibe he's going to be a timewaster and not show up.

Or if the bookings been sorted and then he starts to ask for this that and the other and want phone sex texting and all that then I may cancel depending on my mood and if I do him actually genuine or a piss taker as I have had this time turn up despite me feeling they wouldn't.

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #71 on: 06 July 2018, 12:05:36 am »
When they write in all caps, demand face photos, want to meet at 02:00 and let me know an hour before... Also asking for bareback  ???

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #72 on: 06 July 2018, 08:42:30 am »
when they forget...Dear, good morning...
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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #73 on: 06 July 2018, 10:08:15 am »
1. Will you make it worth my while.

2. Hope your worth every penny.

3. Do you have this outfit can you dress like this.

4. Hope your good as your feedback says you are.

5. Are you really a black girl ( no shit shirlock I am a Caucasian lady passing off as a ebony lady). :FF

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Re: What makes you not accept/cancel a booking?
« Reply #74 on: 15 July 2018, 09:11:36 pm »
I just cancelled a booking because the guy started requesting outfits after confirming the booking. I actually said "OK, but before we confirm the booking, do you have any further questions or requests for me?"

^^^^ This!!!! It really winds me up when you’ve asked if they have any requests and they say no all is fine, then the day of the booking or just before start realling off outfit requests and specific activities!!!! That’s an automatic cancel for me!!