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roseanna

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Re: What makes a successful escort?
« Reply #30 on: 05 May 2015, 07:59:52 pm »
I knew a kid back home who actually got away with counterfeiting notes by photocopying them. He'd make double-sided copies (took him a while to perfect that) and trim them carefully and then insert them into the machines at the train station that made change. He actually survived on this for a while (in a grubby, squatter/punk rock sort of way). Unfortunately for him, he had the best luck with one particular batch that he made a great many of and so the inspectors were able to pin ALL of them to him when they caught him because they all had the same serial number. He went to jail.

That's interesting. I thought the machines all checked the metal insert we have in banknotes these days.

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Re: What makes a successful escort?
« Reply #31 on: 06 May 2015, 08:11:49 am »
I wouldnt set weekly targets, thats just lumping added pressure on  yourself that you can do without and also setting yourself up to fail if its too high. You cannot control the number of bookings that come in, if someone wants to see  you they will if not they wont, its that simple.

Advertise everywhere, set up a website as this gains you access to free advertising etc. I know some only advertise in certain places but even if a place is a busy one to advertise in that doesnt mean it always will be. People sell directories, close them, move on, become disinterested so stop updating, all sorts of things can go wrong by having limited advertising mediums.

Do what you say on your own tin.

Dont advertise something you are not or dont offer

Be clean

Have a clean apartment

Find little ways to make the guy feel special, even ice in their drinks in the summer is a nice surprise for a guy especially if he usually uses agencies as they dont do those little things.

Dont be a blatant clockwatcher

If they ask for something you can provide make sure  you do

Always be friendly towards them until they give you a reason not too and even then try to smile as you are showing them out the door

Answer calls, texts and emails as fast as you can, this for some reason is important to them.

Just be you and treat the like people with needs, its all most of them want, to be treated nicely and honestly.

Fabulassie

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Re: What makes a successful escort?
« Reply #32 on: 06 May 2015, 11:02:57 am »
I knew a kid back home who actually got away with counterfeiting notes by photocopying them. He'd make double-sided copies (took him a while to perfect that) and trim them carefully and then insert them into the machines at the train station that made change. He actually survived on this for a while (in a grubby, squatter/punk rock sort of way). Unfortunately for him, he had the best luck with one particular batch that he made a great many of and so the inspectors were able to pin ALL of them to him when they caught him because they all had the same serial number. He went to jail.

That's interesting. I thought the machines all checked the metal insert we have in banknotes these days.

This was another country and a couple of decades ago. :)

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Re: What makes a successful escort?
« Reply #33 on: 07 May 2015, 10:47:50 pm »
Targets
My target is set annually it keeps me focused throughout the whole year to work towards something challenging but achievable I then break it down into monthly weeks daily etc. 

Focus
Keep focused on the goal and set out how you are going to make it achieveable

Sustainability
Make sure you do everything possible to ensure that you are sustainable as an Escort working well in advance with marketing I like to be at least 3 months ahead in terms of what I am planning for my marketing. For my current website I was planning 8 months ahead and my marketing plan runs into the next 2 years.

Regular Clients
The most important factor for me is my regulars treat everyone well that visits you and build up a good solid base of long term regulars.

Technology
Understand how The internet works and how to promote visibility, the most imporatant thing I have learnt is SEO.

Treat the business as a business but dont lose sight of the  personal level that it operates on

Attitude
A positive good attitude towards your clients and their needs





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Kay

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Re: What makes a successful escort?
« Reply #34 on: 08 May 2015, 01:11:19 am »
I'm not sure I see the point of targets - I mean, I know you need to have an idea of how much you need to earn each month or year sustainably to live, and to think about increasing your marketing or somehow altering your working practices if you're regularly falling short, but to me targets would only be of value if I was over-run with men wanting to see me. For example, if I only needed 5 x 1h bookings a week to live comfortably, then I wouldn't kill myself seeing 15 on a regular basis.

But judging by the comments on the 'Slow' thread, not many of us have that luxury. Not quite sure I've phrased my thoughts accurately, but target just doesn't seem to be quite the right word for me, because up to a point at least, we're at the whim of potential clients.

Otherwise, I do think a professional attitude with regard to all aspects of the work is important.
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Fabulassie

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Re: What makes a successful escort?
« Reply #35 on: 08 May 2015, 09:43:43 am »
I think a target can be a way of maintaining motivation and not just wandering off to the shops when the phone goes quiet. When I tour my first target is to cover my costs as quickly as possible. Then I think of how to make as much money as I think made it worthwhile to go away from my home for a few days and I aim for it. It keeps me focused.

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Re: What makes a successful escort?
« Reply #36 on: 08 May 2015, 10:26:34 am »
I must admit I do try and aim for a weekly target as otherwise it is all too easy to drift for me and lose focus.

I need to keep motivating myself which can be a challenge self-employed as we don't have colleagues nearby as such to spur us on - which is why this website is truly valuable!

Setting a weekly target keeps me feeling more on top of my job if you see what I mean.

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Re: What makes a successful escort?
« Reply #37 on: 08 May 2015, 11:03:48 am »
I must admit I do try and aim for a weekly target as otherwise it is all too easy to drift for me and lose focus.

I need to keep motivating myself which can be a challenge self-employed as we don't have colleagues nearby as such to spur us on - which is why this website is truly valuable!

Setting a weekly target keeps me feeling more on top of my job if you see what I mean.

I've got to admit a weekly or even monthly target IMO is doable.  I know we are all different but when I was whoring if I had to set an annual target and perhaps not meet it then I would find it soul destroying.

With the current economic climate and on reading the "slow at the minute ...." Thread I think it would do the same to many.
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Re: What makes a successful escort?
« Reply #38 on: 08 May 2015, 02:21:23 pm »
Centering the client so they smile treating with respect. Treating them like a human being with feelings.

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Re: What makes a successful escort?
« Reply #39 on: 10 May 2015, 08:38:13 am »
Centering the client so they smile treating with respect. Treating them like a human being with feelings.
yes defiantly 

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Re: What makes a successful escort?
« Reply #40 on: 11 May 2015, 12:26:55 pm »
I think the ladies have covered most points but if you are curious, there is a post on UK Punting that I came across which details what guys believe to be a successful escort meeting. Take it with a pinch of salt though, you know what those guys can be like!

For me -

Communication - Answer calls / emails / texts as soon as possible. Even if you miss a call, message them and say thank you for the call and detail a time they can call back. You might have missed a spur of the moment booking, but they will remember your consideration and try again in the future. Always send confirmation message the morning of the booking. You may have 5 bookings that day, but they are likely only seeing one escort, make them feel special. Plus if they don't get back to you, then you can fill the booking time asap.

Be grateful - Always thank new clients for getting in touch in the first place "thank you for contacting me, thank you for your interest in me, thank you for your message  / call". Always thank clients for visiting you when they depart too. Leave AW feedback.

Ensure you know exactly what they are looking for - and if you offer it, then provide it to the highest standard!

Remember details! - If they have told you something about themselves, their likes, etc, them remember it! I always try and remember one detail about a client so that when they visit next time, I can slip it into conversation so they know that I have previously been paying attention and don't just churn them out. I remember client music and clothing tastes and put something appropriate on for their booking.

Offer to hang jackets / coats and put back on for client when they are leaving.
Offer drinks.
Provide toiletries and fresh towels.

But most importantly - BE YOURSELF - as fakeness is spotted a mile away and is not appreciated.

The key to my service is making the client feel that he is the only client I am seeing that day and that my time and attention is absolutely devoted to him during our time - it works for me. I am almost always booked for every hour that I am working and have bookings placed as far as a month in advance!

Hope this helps.