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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #15 on: 11 May 2024, 09:51:00 am »
I did also make a very good friend of a client I didn't see him anymore for escort service after that as he got a girlfriend he didn't have an agenda that's why we're still friends years later
Unfortunately some have a agenda which includes wanting freebies and cross over your boundaries to make you feel. Confused deliberately  :FF.

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« Reply #16 on: 11 May 2024, 01:39:52 pm »
I did also make a very good friend of a client I didn't see him anymore for escort service after that as he got a girlfriend he didn't have an agenda that's why we're still friends years later
Unfortunately some have a agenda which includes wanting freebies and cross over your boundaries to make you feel. Confused deliberately  :FF.

I think that you might have a really good point here... I don't need to be feeling confused, I need to crack on with my routine and with work.

The loneliness gets to me sometimes though.
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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #17 on: 11 May 2024, 03:59:05 pm »
I've made friends with clients where we click but have clear boundaries so don't meet socially but do text regularly.

An escort friend of mine married a client and are still happily married so it can work.

I had one propose recently but politely declined.

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« Reply #18 on: 11 May 2024, 11:05:38 pm »
I do worry that I should avoid getting carried away.

I have heard of people getting together with clients, actually a couple that I know met this way (lovely people)... but sometimes it feels so far outside of what I do and who I see to think of this happening.

I'm not sure of where I'd begin.

In honesty, I began doing this as almost a shield between me and anyone else meeting in that way.

Has anyone else done this?
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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #19 on: 11 May 2024, 11:57:09 pm »
I've made friends with clients where we click but have clear boundaries so don't meet socially but do text regularly.

An escort friend of mine married a client and are still happily married so it can work.

I had one propose recently but politely declined.


Hope you kept the fucking ring!!!!
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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #20 on: 12 May 2024, 06:05:48 am »
Actually there was no ring. Never thought about that. It was so unexpected.

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« Reply #21 on: 12 May 2024, 12:19:56 pm »
LOL ;D
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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #22 on: 14 May 2024, 11:25:40 pm »
Ok, Mr. Handsome is coming to see me on Thursday!

I'm bang in trouble, I think that I could fall in love with this one.

We are speaking on the phone a lot.

I have NEVER let one through the net like this.

Everything inside me would usually say no but I really like this one.

He says the same...... this is going to wind up being a cautionary tale, I just hope not.
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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #23 on: 14 May 2024, 11:27:35 pm »
.....and I have told him that I can't charge him to see me (but I might need help with the odd bill).... is that bad? He is far better off than me.

I don't want to take advantage but I do need help..... you should see my Eon electric bill!!
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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #24 on: 15 May 2024, 08:09:07 am »
Depends how long have you been seeing him and felt like this. If not long I'd keep charging until definitely sure.

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« Reply #25 on: 15 May 2024, 08:50:07 am »
IMO and its only that my opinion,  I would be sitting him down and asking him straight how he felt about me, if he had feelings beyond that of SW and client and be honest and tell him you do.
That conversation also for me would need to include how he felt about you continuing to work while in a relationship with him as this is your job and you don't intend to give it up.

Only once the lines are drawn would I take the financial aspect away from the meetings, but that's me I've boon duped a couple of times and am now more cautious,  I find the good looking ines tend to know they are and know how to play you to move to free sex.

I really hope this is everything you want it to be x