Oh well done thank you
Any mascara will go off easily and no redness if you use one of those mentioned above (those you shake and Garnier and Nivea have great ones)
Put it on a cotton pad.
Close your eye and press lightly on your lashes. Hold for 5-10 seconds (don't rub!) so it soaks into your lashes and gets them properly wet.
Then tap gently, movement from outside towards inside the eye (avoids stretching the eye and thus avoids wrinkles)
Open the eye, the excess of mascara all under.
Tap gently to wipe it off (inward movement).
I then look up and end up wiping my eyelashes on my open eye (that's itchy and feels funny so not everyone likes it but really gets rid of all the mascara)
The whole thing takes a bit of time so I do it in front of TV.
Another way of getting rid of all the mascara very gently is doing it with a make up remover you use with your fingers and then wipe off with a cotton pad. Just a bit tricky not to get any into your eye.
Those make up wipes are to be avoided because as much as they are convenient and easy to use they tend to stretch the skin in the eye area a lot! Not good.