I did so much hunting it's insane. In the end i mostley just got all of the HIGHEST rated makeup from the interwebs.
Primer: Smashbox (needed for more edurance sex sessions to keep the foundation in tact)
Foundation: Nars sheer glow (If your really going for a powwow night i do airbrush foundation omg it is the most perfect thing in all the land & i use dinair machine with mac airbrush foundation)
Concealer: 2000 collection
Mascara: Max factor lash effects
Eyeliner: Any at all do the job
but i find the winged eyeliner look takes 5 minutes rather than 20 with l'oreal super liner.
Finishing spray: Urban decay (also needed for tougher bookings)
As regards to mascara though, in the summer it does run down your face after vigorous sex so try false lash extensions at the salon. I get mind done for ?35 mind you that is very cheap it's usually about ?80 & they last a month (no idea why my salon do them so cheap it's standard quality). Looks like your wearing mascara & longer thicker more curled lashes but you wont look gothic after a booking.
At the end of the day it is personal preference & after enough trying you will find your perfect combo of all makeup which i am lucky to be completely contempt with my choice i don't ever try anything else, some girls never stop trying.