Thanks for your kind words, Betty, and you are absolutely right. I actually went to see a psychiatrist a few years ago, who said that I'd chosen sex work because I wanted to be a victim. She couldn't get her head around the fact that I'd actually taken control and felt empowered through sex, rather than being afraid of it anymore. When I was younger, sex was a horrible thing for me, but now I enjoy it again. Sex work made me fall back in love with the intimate parts of my body. God, that's deep - sorry!

Escorting has boosted my confidence. I am far less shy know than I was before I started.

Lushblossom I have very similar reasons as you.

Plus the extra cash is a bonus after a career change into a much lower income day job! Just hope we can spend the cash as someone mentioned earlier on another thread, cash is looked at as dirty at the moment. I don’t think we’ll be cashless any time soon but it may be a bit more difficult for a little while.

Been escorting for a while now, sex I hated, felt it was something done to me for years, through uni and then in employ guys seemed to think they were superior, Was away on work, went to the bar in the hotel, and I got chatted up. Now it was back around the time of bell de jour and I just thought fuck it. looked him square and im not all chatting so don't waste my time. £300 an hour and ill go to your room and do more than chat.....

never done it before, but it was the easiest £300 I made. and that was it, part time 4 or 5 meets per month, and then ramped up. I don't do debt, invested and bought a flat and a car. its given me freedom and reduced worry about money. And ive matured sexually. I know what I like in private life and don't put up with shit.

I started at 18, I’m 26 now. Ive taken a long break in between.

When I started I was in my final year of college getting EMA (who remembers that lol) and I really wanted to get a job so I was set for when I leave college. As cliche as it sounds I watched Secret Diary of a Call Girl for the first time, I think it was the last season and it really intrigued and excited me, I ended up googling something like escort websites U.K., and discovered Adultwork, I didn’t join straight away but kept looking at the site.

Joined as an inexperienced 18 year old who had only slept with two people and only sucked a cock once, I ended being thrown in at the deep end as my first client was 75! The rest is history. 

It’s always been something I’ve done part time alongside a full time or equally part time job. I absolutely love it. There was a time about 4 years ago when I hated everything about the job, completely despised it, had a few bad experiences and I think that’s why, I took a 2 year break and came back loving the job more than ever.

Thanks for your kind words, Betty, and you are absolutely right. I actually went to see a psychiatrist a few years ago, who said that I'd chosen sex work because I wanted to be a victim. She couldn't get her head around the fact that I'd actually taken control and felt empowered through sex, rather than being afraid of it anymore. When I was younger, sex was a horrible thing for me, but now I enjoy it again. Sex work made me fall back in love with the intimate parts of my body. God, that's deep - sorry!

Hi Darcy and sorry for the late reply. I think be cause you are a deep person and I feel kind hearted you may have a healing side and a want to heal yourself. I don't believe any woman wants to be a victim, Or anybody. Deep is good Darcy, Never be shallow

And it's been great to read the post x

I got into it as soon as I turned 18 because sex and the sex industry has always peaked my interest when I was little. I got pretty good at having sex by and and getting paid for it was and still is kind of fun.

The positive outcome is that I'm much more confident. I learned how to make myself look good, become sensual and capitalize off of it. I take zero bullshit from men now. Plus I understand men a little more better now. Just a little bit.

I was drowning in debt after my divorce and had a shit job with crappie salary. So a friend introduced me to escorting when I went to borrow money from her. She made it clear to me that no matter how much she can lend it will never be enough and would spoil our friendship. The best advice and thing I ever did and no regrets. It has changed my life big time and have met some nice sugar daddies on the job. Most and the best of all its given me my Independence.