That's body confident bmnot boy lol

I had boobs and eyes done. Boobs twice as I wanted super vixen boobies. I didn't do it to get more clients, that was never the aim. I don't think it made any difference to volume or earnings. I think that's all related to the market, season, location advertising and such. Going through that agony and deadly risk for punters....no way! I learnt clients were happy and excited the way I was whatever body shape. The surgery made me feel a million dollars, so worth every penny.

But everyones situation and motivations vary don't they?

I’ve had work done, and I like the sunbed, having my brows tattooed, lips etc. But only done it for myself and because I wanted to, not to increase bookings. Everyone has a type in this job

A friend of mine that works said that she had better clients when she had smaller boobs compared to afterwards when she got her boob job, there have been studies that show that overall intelligent men prefer smaller boobs and I think there is some truth in that, I’m not saying that all men that like small boobs are clever and that all men that like big boobs are thick but with a large number of men then this may be the case.

I was going to get a boob job as I am small and an older more experienced lady told me that my clients would change and to stay as I was.

This may only be relevant to the saunas etc but the ladies with blonde hair also got more crap from men than the ladies that didn’t have blonde hair! There is a certain mentality of men that use saunas and so I can see some of them thinking of blondes being ‘dirtier’ than brunettes, silly but true.

Also girls that are into the fake reality star look always got the arseholes compared to the more naturally pretty girls.

Regards sex work I have been all different shapes and sizes, I found most is about confidence also that some men like women whatever shape they are, others are attracted to the entire package including personality, others like a particular look. When I was one size/shape some were put off, others were attracted. In the end my learning is that it has to be for me.

Body image is something which comes from inside, surgery may not be the solution.

Thanks ladies for your posts, Actually really helpful and the main thing seems to be confidence that comes from liking yourself. I think know deep down it's more how I probably see myself.Really interesting to read how some men judge blondes to be dirtier than brunettes and funny. For the one negative comment I've had higher percentage of positive. And men do love a confident lady in and outside the bedroom.