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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: northernstar on 11 October 2020, 03:14:23 pm
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As a hard done by crack head whore that needs to be rescued...
Own business
Financed university degrees
Two properties
Flexibility
Mental health improvement
Name yours :D
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Own business
Funded a degree
Got me through a few years of bad mental health when I wouldn’t have been able to hold down a regular 9-5 job
Paid off all debts
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Own business
Funded a degree
Got me through a few years of bad mental health when I wouldn’t have been able to hold down a regular 9-5 job
Paid off all debts
Excellent x
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Sweet fuck all.
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Sweet fuck all.
Not nearly as much as I’d hoped *scowl*.
Thought I’d have a lot more in the damn bank🏦than I do, that’s for sure.😡
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The ability to give oral better than the majority of civvy women, and men!! ;D
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A shit tonne of time to myself.
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At the end of this month it will be my anniversary, I have been able to pay off a massive debt (for me) buy several much needed items and not get into further debt just trying to keep my head above water. I feel really fortunate to be able to have got through this (rather tricky) year and ending it debt free. If someone told me that last year I would have pitied the fool.
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Confidence
Self reliance
Independence
Satisfaction
Time
Financial freedom
Respect
Humor
Experience
Skills, out of bedroom and inside
Satisfaction
Control
Quality of life
Flexibility
Potential
Education
Follow my passions
Opportunity
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The ability to understand men’s sexual needs and desires that little more than their own wives/girlfriends.
The ability to suck cock better than civvy women.
The ability to not be so jealous if a future partner of mine has sex behind my back, after all sex is just that, sex!
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I have a regular day job that pays my bills. Escorting part time has given me money for fun extras to treat myself and to build up a nest egg. It has also given me a pretty varied sex life at a time in my life when I know I'm not yet ready fot another relationship.
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look at all these positives, if only people could see you past the stereo type prossie
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look at all these positives, if only people could see you past the stereo type prossie
+1000
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The things I have achieved through escorting are..
Improved mental health
Time to focus on situations I would be too drained from a 9-5 e.g house work, family, studying
Driving lessons and a car
A deposit for a house
A gorgeous home and interior
Not having to worry about Christmas time
Self belief
Business savvy mind
Paid for 2 non cosmetic operation
Endless amounts of gifts for myself and who I chose to share things with..
The list could go on to be honest!!
I wish the stigmas weren’t there so I could share my life with more people to be able to enjoy it with but for now I’m happy to live my life with the people that can accept me for me :)
If people knew the real side of our lives and what escorts can achieve I’m sure we wouldn’t get such negative press from society as scrounging, STD riddled, men grabbing, money under the mattress low life’s!
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A shit tonne of time to myself.
Yes! Loads of time to spend with my pets and spoil them rotten!
Knowing that men can be "the good, the bad, and the ugly" mostly ugly! A few good, a few bad.
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Travelling the world first class
Education
Two properties
Securing a retirement for later on
Not being dependent on a partner for anything
Taking my family and friends out surprising them.
Better food shopping.
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Had freedom to also raise kids.
Got my reading age up, was poor when I left school at 15/16.
Retake exams I missed/skivved from when I was 15 and 16
Started writing poetry and a book which I hope to get published soon
Been a landlord.
Started reading more. Manoeuvring myself to maybe go to uni and study.
Learnt financial security.
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Travelling the world first class
Education
Two properties
Securing a retirement for later on
Not being dependent on a partner for anything
Taking my family and friends out surprising them.
Better food shopping.
Haha, I love the ‘better food shopping’ bullet point, I’m the same. Before I escorted everything in a food shop would get budgeted with a list and now everything goes in the trolley that I want. Happy days :)
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Haha, I love the ‘better food shopping’ bullet point, I’m the same. Before I escorted everything in a food shop would get budgeted with a list and now everything goes in the trolley that I want. Happy days :)
Honestly I love swanning round Waitrose throwing anything I like in my trolley and not caring about the price ha ha. Could of never done that when I was working in an office.
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I love spending in Sainsbury's. I go there four times a week and never spend less than £50 each time 😀. I buy lots of organic for my juicing, the best cacoa powder, topside of beef for the cats etc. I want my ashes scattered on their land haha.
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Travelling the world first class
Education
Two properties
Securing a retirement for later on
Not being dependent on a partner for anything
Taking my family and friends out surprising them.
Better food shopping.
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Gratefully I've achieved/would have achieved most of my goals without escorting, although it has helped me buy a house quicker and now I'm determined to pay it off in the next year and buy a second property.
Daft as it sounds, before I did escorting I wouldn't have dared in my life to drive on the motorway but my outcalls have forced me to drive further afield. Now I'm fairly comfortable driving on them. Oh and better skills in the bedroom ;)
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How long did it take you to buy two properties? I am wondering if my goals are realistic :(
I did it over 8 years working 4 solid days escorting a week. I live in an area of the country were houses are only £130k so it’s not that hard. London no way I could of done it.
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I did it over 8 years working 4 solid days escorting a week. I live in an area of the country were houses are only £130k so it’s not that hard. London no way I could of done it.
What days did you take off? I never know what ones to work but need more off
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Honestly I love swanning round Waitrose throwing anything I like in my trolley and not caring about the price ha ha...
Haha!
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Nothing as lofty as buying properties but I wasn't able to work full time for the majority of time I've been doing this.
But a pretty comfortable lifestyle, more so than I'd have had working a normal 9 to 5 on the national living wage and a good amount of savings.
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I've never really worked enough to live a comfortable lifestyle as my living situation makes same day bookings difficult and can only do outcalls and the occasional hotel incall. However, it did give me the confidence to go to College at 32 and I am now at Uni
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I’ve only been escorting for a year and a half, before that I was a stripper for just less than a year.
With stripping and escorting I have:
Funded my degree (I’ll be graduating this year!)
Spent a year of my degree on exchange in Sydney (very fucking expensive international student fees 😬)
Travelled A LOT
Invested a nice amount in cryptocurrency
Bought and converted a campervan
And of course - new boobs! ;D
Those are just financial achievements. I have also achieved so much more from escorting. Before escorting I worked a 9-5 office job and I was truly depressed. Every day I would wake up and think that there must be more to life than working 40 hours a week for £11 an hour just to pay rent and bills...I also had a really bad relationship with myself/my body, thought I was totally undesirable and worthless and therefore I viewed basically all other women as my competition, so I was very jealous a lot of the time.
Since escorting I have gained financially, time-wise but also mentally and emotionally. I have a far more positive relationship with myself and my self worth has shot up huge amounts. I feel now that I am more in control of my life and my own destiny! And I no longer view other women as my competitors or things to be jealous of.
Escorting really has changed my life. I initially got in to sex work to make money through my degree but now I’m so close to graduating but can’t imagine ever going back!
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I’ve only been escorting for a year and a half, before that I was a stripper for just less than a year.
With stripping and escorting I have:
Funded my degree (I’ll be graduating this year!)
Spent a year of my degree on exchange in Sydney (very fucking expensive international student fees 😬)
Travelled A LOT
Invested a nice amount in cryptocurrency
Bought and converted a campervan
And of course - new boobs! ;D
Those are just financial achievements. I have also achieved so much more from escorting. Before escorting I worked a 9-5 office job and I was truly depressed. Every day I would wake up and think that there must be more to life than working 40 hours a week for £11 an hour just to pay rent and bills...I also had a really bad relationship with myself/my body, thought I was totally undesirable and worthless and therefore I viewed basically all other women as my competition, so I was very jealous a lot of the time.
Since escorting I have gained financially, time-wise but also mentally and emotionally. I have a far more positive relationship with myself and my self worth has shot up huge amounts. I feel now that I am more in control of my life and my own destiny! And I no longer view other women as my competitors or things to be jealous of.
Escorting really has changed my life. I initially got in to sex work to make money through my degree but now I’m so close to graduating but can’t imagine ever going back!
Nice to hear, well done :)
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The ability to give oral better than the majority of civvy women, and men!! ;D
;D
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I've liked what I read so far 🙂
I was able to disconnect mentally and no longer waste my time on relationships.
I managed to save for stuff and treat myself now and again.
I'm crap with money .
I'm returning to sex work to get things improved again .
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To no longer need the hassle of relationships. To enjoy plenty of sex and attention. To feel constantly desired. To keep up my self-presentation at a high level. Independence.
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Although I enjoy sex more with a lover/partner (and would love to show off my skills from being an escort), I also cannot be bothered with the hassle anymore. It just isn't worth it.
For me now I just take their money and run like the wind.
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Wow 🙌🏻 Congrats to all :)
Financially I did get 2 small apartments, 1 I work and live the other is rented :)
I am free from a boss, do what I want when I want. I am my own boss and all the experience and some great people I met, like clients and some working girls too 🙏🏻
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boobs
nice car
building a new business 1st out of many to come
freedom
best orgasms - the biggest ive ever experienced
you know the usual
great long term clients going on 12 years now for a few
i make sure to have the whole cake and eat it
however i have been still bored and unsatisfied outside of work so finding new things to do
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Funded another business which I run from home alongside this
More time with my children
No longer having to rely on food banks
No longer having to work 40-70 hrs a week to make ends meet
Furnished my entire house virtually
Treats for my children that time would have never afforded before
Freedom
Flexibility
Orgasms! Never had a man give me one before
Botox!!!
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building a new business 1st out of many to come
Funded another business which I run from home
What businesses can I ask? I'd really like to do something like this and branch out from escorting but no idea where to start
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What businesses can I ask? I'd really like to do something like this and branch out from escorting but no idea where to start
I will message you Maz x
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Wow girls! You are great! :D
When I started my adventure with escorting, I had no goals and it was a mistake!
This topic is amazing! Thank you 🙏
It gives me faith that this time will be better. If I just put everything in my head and plan it. Keep fingers crossed.
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Planning cosmetic surgery next year but need more savings to help me through the recovery time.
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Purchased a Home
Car
have a 6 figure Crypto Investment
Managed to have intensive therapy
Travelled all over the world
Have loads of new self worth
Happy family and kids
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became a cypto millionaire
have loads of PTSD and hate men
I need to be like pennypicker above and get therapy ASAP, been abusing drugs and self-medicating as of late
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I don't know if it's escorting necessarily or even the general advice on here, or maybe my habit of making principles stands (which I never seem to come out the right side of) but I've been asserting myself. Nothing major but in more official workplace type of situations I've stood my ground and been more careful with who I chose to manage things with. So far it's been getting better results. I've also become more aware of how I might influence responses or perhaps even not miss opportunities which I may have done before. It's basically improving a lifeskills and self awareness in areas I may have neglected or not know about. It may not make me rich but will make life easier (which may make me rich lol).