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GucciGang

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #15 on: 17 March 2021, 12:41:53 pm »
Travelling the world first class
Education
Two properties
Securing a retirement for later on
Not being dependent on a partner for anything
Taking my family and friends out surprising them.
Better food shopping.

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #16 on: 17 March 2021, 12:47:51 pm »
Had freedom to also raise kids.
Got my reading age up, was poor when I left school at 15/16.
Retake exams I missed/skivved from when I was 15 and 16
Started writing poetry and a book which I hope to get published soon
Been a landlord.
Started reading more. Manoeuvring myself to maybe go to uni and study.
Learnt financial security.

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #17 on: 17 March 2021, 07:37:18 pm »
Travelling the world first class
Education
Two properties
Securing a retirement for later on
Not being dependent on a partner for anything
Taking my family and friends out surprising them.
Better food shopping.

Haha, I love the ‘better food shopping’ bullet point, I’m the same. Before I escorted everything in a food shop would get budgeted with a list and now everything goes in the trolley that I want. Happy days  :)

GucciGang

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #18 on: 18 March 2021, 08:22:03 pm »
Haha, I love the ‘better food shopping’ bullet point, I’m the same. Before I escorted everything in a food shop would get budgeted with a list and now everything goes in the trolley that I want. Happy days  :)

Honestly I love swanning round Waitrose throwing anything I like in my trolley and not caring about the price ha ha. Could of never done that when I was working in an office.

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #19 on: 18 March 2021, 08:37:49 pm »
I love spending in Sainsbury's. I go there four times a week and never spend less than £50 each time 😀. I buy lots of organic for my juicing, the best cacoa powder, topside of beef for the cats etc. I want my ashes scattered on their land haha.

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #20 on: 18 March 2021, 08:59:57 pm »
Travelling the world first class
Education
Two properties
Securing a retirement for later on
Not being dependent on a partner for anything
Taking my family and friends out surprising them.
Better food shopping.

How long did it take you to buy two properties? I am wondering if my goals are realistic :(

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #21 on: 18 March 2021, 09:21:48 pm »
Gratefully I've achieved/would have achieved most of my goals without escorting, although it has helped me buy a house quicker and now I'm determined to pay it off in the next year and buy a second property.

Daft as it sounds, before I did escorting I wouldn't have dared in my life to drive on the motorway but my outcalls have forced me to drive further afield. Now I'm fairly comfortable driving on them. Oh and better skills in the bedroom ;)
« Last Edit: 18 March 2021, 09:25:13 pm by Maz »
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GucciGang

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #22 on: 19 March 2021, 12:57:21 am »
How long did it take you to buy two properties? I am wondering if my goals are realistic :(

I did it over 8 years working 4 solid days escorting a week. I live in an area of the country were houses are only £130k so it’s not that hard. London no way I could of done it.

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #23 on: 19 March 2021, 09:35:46 am »
I did it over 8 years working 4 solid days escorting a week. I live in an area of the country were houses are only £130k so it’s not that hard. London no way I could of done it.
What days did you take off? I never know what ones to work but need more off

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #24 on: 19 March 2021, 01:58:03 pm »
Honestly I love swanning round Waitrose throwing anything I like in my trolley and not caring about the price ha ha...
Haha!

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #25 on: 01 April 2021, 10:48:40 pm »
Nothing as lofty as buying properties but I wasn't able to work full time for the majority of time I've been doing this.
But a pretty comfortable lifestyle, more so than I'd have had working a normal 9 to 5 on the national living wage and a good amount of savings.

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #26 on: 05 May 2021, 11:33:31 pm »
I've never really worked enough to live a comfortable lifestyle as my living situation makes same day bookings difficult and can only do outcalls and the occasional hotel incall. However, it did give me the confidence to go to College at 32 and I am now at Uni

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #27 on: 06 May 2021, 07:51:31 am »
I’ve only been escorting for a year and a half, before that I was a stripper for just less than a year.
With stripping and escorting I have:

Funded my degree (I’ll be graduating this year!)
Spent a year of my degree on exchange in Sydney (very fucking expensive international student fees 😬)
Travelled A LOT
Invested a nice amount in cryptocurrency
Bought and converted a campervan
And of course - new boobs!  ;D

Those are just financial achievements. I have also achieved so much more from escorting. Before escorting I worked a 9-5 office job and I was truly depressed. Every day I would wake up and think that there must be more to life than working 40 hours a week for £11 an hour just to pay rent and bills...I also had a really bad relationship with myself/my body, thought I was totally undesirable and worthless and therefore I viewed basically all other women as my competition, so I was very jealous a lot of the time.
Since escorting I have gained financially, time-wise but also mentally and emotionally. I have a far more positive relationship with myself and my self worth has shot up huge amounts. I feel now that I am more in control of my life and my own destiny! And I no longer view other women as my competitors or things to be jealous of.

Escorting really has changed my life. I initially got in to sex work to make money through my degree but now I’m so close to graduating but can’t imagine ever going back!

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #28 on: 06 May 2021, 08:36:21 am »
I’ve only been escorting for a year and a half, before that I was a stripper for just less than a year.
With stripping and escorting I have:

Funded my degree (I’ll be graduating this year!)
Spent a year of my degree on exchange in Sydney (very fucking expensive international student fees 😬)
Travelled A LOT
Invested a nice amount in cryptocurrency
Bought and converted a campervan
And of course - new boobs!  ;D


Those are just financial achievements. I have also achieved so much more from escorting. Before escorting I worked a 9-5 office job and I was truly depressed. Every day I would wake up and think that there must be more to life than working 40 hours a week for £11 an hour just to pay rent and bills...I also had a really bad relationship with myself/my body, thought I was totally undesirable and worthless and therefore I viewed basically all other women as my competition, so I was very jealous a lot of the time.
Since escorting I have gained financially, time-wise but also mentally and emotionally. I have a far more positive relationship with myself and my self worth has shot up huge amounts. I feel now that I am more in control of my life and my own destiny! And I no longer view other women as my competitors or things to be jealous of.

Escorting really has changed my life. I initially got in to sex work to make money through my degree but now I’m so close to graduating but can’t imagine ever going back!
Nice to hear, well done  :)
« Last Edit: 06 May 2021, 08:38:58 am by washingline »

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Re: What have you achieved through escorting?
« Reply #29 on: 08 May 2021, 04:39:17 pm »
The ability to give oral better than the majority of civvy women, and men!! ;D
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