Quote from: figa98 on 01 May 2013, 05:24:18 am

......hurry up and get on with it,do not try pleasuring me, I am not interested, if you do I will have to renact the when Harry met Sally scene, when really you are just bugging me. What shopping I need, what bills need to be paid, while trying to remember I am with a client and I must stay in that role until he's left.

I much prefer the conversational side of a booking, the sex just bores me.

And this kind of comment is totally inappropriate in my opinion and it just gives working girls who actually enjoy sex and who really want to please a bad name.

Kylie, that's just silly. Everybody is different and all comments are valid here - I suspect this scenario is far more common than the opposite one, anyway, and more common still is likely to be a mixture of both. No matter how much anybody enjoys sex, when it's work sex they're not going to enjoy it with every punter every time and to pretend that we're all gagging for it 24 hours a day and spending every booking swinging from the chandeliers is just plain daft and stuff of the feeblest punting forum touts. And the post did not say anything about not wanting to please the client, either.

I couldn't care less about enjoying work sex and like some of the other posters I'm focused on what I'm doing and whether the punter is enjoying it, what I'm going to do next and so on, as well as things like safety, hygiene (avoiding transfer of germs and so on) and how much time I've used/got left, especially if I'm touring and it's busy. If it's fun on top of that then all well and good, but it's not something I consider part of my job.

......hurry up and get on with it,do not try pleasuring me, I am not interested,

Yep that's me too though I wouldn't go so far as the Harry met Sally scene, that to me is very boring.  I cant stand guys who make it their goal to try and make me cum first, it just aint going to happen !  I am too in control of things.

...... What shopping I need, what bills need to be paid, while trying to remember I am with a client and I must stay in that role until he's left.

Yep that's me too.  Unless he is drop dead gorgeous (and lets face it why would they be visiting a prossie if they are - I know exceptions !) and has me engrossed in him.

Now on saying that it doesn't mean I don't give them full attention for a prossie should be a good actress too and the client should never know that her mind is straying.

And this kind of comment is totally inappropriate in my opinion and it just gives working girls who actually enjoy sex and who really want to please a bad name.

Yep we all have our own opinions too and I don't see anywhere in figa's post that she says she doesn't want to please her clients.

When you have been shagging for 44+ years (me not anyone else) then you will find that there are not many (if any) new things a guy can come up with to make the booking more interesting, so in my case its just a case of "same old, same old" ..... I would love it if one of my clients could actually introduce me to something Ive never tried before.  Sadly, I don't think that will ever happen.

Amy that is just my personal opinion. Why would someone want to do this job if those are the kind of thoughts going through their heads? They clearly don't enjoy it so why put themselves through it. Men will pick up on this in a booking. I'm not saying every WG should be a nympho maniac however, this is exactly the kind of 'jaded' comment that comes from someone who does not really enjoy what they do.

Your opinion on whether or not a post is inappropriate is not the same as disagreeing with it - it is not up to you to decide what is appropriate here, and the post is entirely so because it answers the question in the thread starter.

The reason some people 'put themselves through it' is because it's the job they have chosen and they want to earn a living, in much the same way as I used to 'put myself through' cleaning and bar work, only it didn't pay as well. Or do you think that nobody should be allowed to do a job unless they enjoy it, as that would be bad news for most civvy people I know?

fair enough, I'm not trying t have a go I just think it's just quite negative that's all.

And even if it is, if it's the way someone feels then they have every right to express their view. This is prostitution, not la-la land.

I can't understand why you would think it's better for everybody to only post positive experiences - this forum is aimed at newbies, and you can't honestly want them to read it and think that it's all wonderful all the time, or worse, if they don't have fantastic sex with fantastic punters every time they get a booking that they're not normal? We're not trying to gloss over anything here, and it would not only be disingenuous but downright irresponsible to try.

Quote from: amy on 01 May 2013, 01:30:24 pm

Quote from: MissKylie on 01 May 2013, 01:07:41 pm

Quote from: figa98 on 01 May 2013, 05:24:18 am

......hurry up and get on with it,do not try pleasuring me, I am not interested, if you do I will have to renact the when Harry met Sally scene, when really you are just bugging me. What shopping I need, what bills need to be paid, while trying to remember I am with a client and I must stay in that role until he's left.

I much prefer the conversational side of a booking, the sex just bores me.

And this kind of comment is totally inappropriate in my opinion and it just gives working girls who actually enjoy sex and who really want to please a bad name.

Kylie, that's just silly. Everybody is different and all comments are valid here - I suspect this scenario is far more common than the opposite one, anyway, and more common still is likely to be a mixture of both. No matter how much anybody enjoys sex, when it's work sex they're not going to enjoy it with every punter every time and to pretend that we're all gagging for it 24 hours a day and spending every booking swinging from the chandeliers is just plain daft and stuff of the feeblest punting forum touts. And the post did not say anything about not wanting to please the client, either.

I couldn't care less about enjoying work sex and like some of the other posters I'm focused on what I'm doing and whether the punter is enjoying it, what I'm going to do next and so on, as well as things like safety, hygiene (avoiding transfer of germs and so on) and how much time I've used/got left, especially if I'm touring and it's busy. If it's fun on top of that then all well and good, but it's not something I consider part of my job.

Amy that is just my personal opinion. Why would someone want to do this job if those are the kind of thoughts going through their heads? They clearly don't enjoy it so why put themselves through it. Men will pick up on this in a booking. I'm not saying every WG should be a nympho maniac however, this is exactly the kind of 'jaded' comment that comes from someone who does not really enjoy what they do.

The fact is many I dare say most wgs do the job for money, not because they want to or enjoy fucking every man on earth. I actually think it's naive to believe otherwise, what Amy said first is spot on. No one is going to like every punter and when I see punters happy the recession has brought loads more desperate women to the job I think how it will only lead to crap services from women who are only escorting cos they're desperate for cash.

What I'm thinking during the booking totally depends on the client, most of the time my mind is blank unless I genuinely like and get on with the guy. I gave up trying to honestly enjoy every booking sexually as most clients were just not skilled enough so I was left frustrated. I put my mind to getting the client off, as that is my job.

Quote from: MillieElizabeth on 29 April 2013, 05:10:36 am

True. Don't get me wrong, the really bad ones, my mind goes elsewhwre but other times I like the guide them and have fun exploring. They appreciate the help, and has actually helped their personal relationships.

Perhaps just the clients I seem to attract but I've never met many men interested in pleasuring me, in fact same goes for my normal life.
Had a few long term relationships, had slept with about 40 guys before starting this work (full time) a year ago, and in the 12 yrs since I've lost my virginity only one man (a client) ever made the effort to get me so turned on my cheeks went red etc
 No matter what walk of life they come from, they never seem interested in giving me pleasure, as though if I can't come from what gets them off its too much effort...

I find many clients want to give pleasure.....The problem is they are never any good at it, maybe 2 clients a year have a bit of talent but that's it. Hence why I used to try and enjoy every client but gave up as it was impossible and making the job hard and unsatisfying.

Right, that's most of the off topic stuff tidied.

Anybody who is unclear about posting in this section or any other, a good place to start would be the rules thread at the top of the board (most individual boards have them). Anybody who still doesn't understand, please PM me or a mod and ask rather than derail other people's threads.

Basically, whilst we're not trying to get anybody to censor themselves for no reason, this is still not somewhere to make baseless, negative remarks about any groups of people which serve no purpose and which we can't substantiate, even if it is supposed to be funny. It very rarely is, either.

I'll leave this post up until midnight or so, then hopefully I can take it down and the discussion can get back on course - it was an interesting one, apart from anything else.