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Orchid

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What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« on: 28 April 2013, 07:38:33 pm »
I have been thinking about holidays every time I have sex with clients  or what needs to be done after they have left. during reverse oral I shut my eyes and imagine im on a flight   :)
 do you all think of distracting things? 
 
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Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #1 on: 28 April 2013, 07:40:52 pm »
Something similar .................... mmmmmmmmmm don't forget to go ooh and ahhh! and wriggle a bit.  ::)
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #2 on: 28 April 2013, 07:42:24 pm »
Quote from: Lady_Lust_XXX on 28 April 2013, 07:40:52 pm
Something similar .................... mmmmmmmmmm don't forget to go ooh and ahhh! and wriggle a bit.  ::)
coming into land fasten youre seat belts ha ha!!!
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #3 on: 28 April 2013, 07:46:25 pm »
Had a job on Friday and all I was thinking was....Stay awake, stay awake!  lol   Usually it's boring stuff about what I'm going to have for dinner, or what bills I'll pay with the money!
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #4 on: 28 April 2013, 08:57:46 pm »
If I have another booking how much the total it will be then what I'm going to spend it on
Or if its the only booking that day what to have for dinner/what I'm doing the next day/wondering what dress will go with a pair of shoes I'm going to buy with the money/How I can't wait to get home to my bf/price of travel to get to and from the booking/feeling happy that I can keep on top of bills.
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #5 on: 28 April 2013, 09:07:52 pm »
With clients, I usually get this little voice in my head saying "what the bloody hell are you doing? how the fck did you HERE? do you realise how ridiculous this is?"  ;D

With lovers, I don't get anything much going through my head, apart from the occasional little voice saying "you're such a lucky girl! tell him to do THAT thing again!" 8)
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #6 on: 28 April 2013, 10:44:34 pm »
nothing  - my mind as always is totally blank. I can't suck cock and think at the same time so tend to just go with the flow
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #7 on: 29 April 2013, 03:39:16 am »
Am I the only one thay genuinely enjoys it? Don't get me wrong a bit of ooohhh and aaahhh gets it going but i love having sex with these guys and exploring. If you just have fun, you can genuinely open doors you never knew you had.
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #8 on: 29 April 2013, 04:14:17 am »
Quote from: MillieElizabeth on 29 April 2013, 03:39:16 am
Am I the only one thay genuinely enjoys it? Don't get me wrong a bit of ooohhh and aaahhh gets it going but i love having sex with these guys and exploring. If you just have fun, you can genuinely open doors you never knew you had.

I find most men are horrific at giving oral. Naturally you can not help the mind wandering :)
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #9 on: 29 April 2013, 05:10:36 am »
True. Don't get me wrong, the really bad ones, my mind goes elsewhwre but other times I like the guide them and have fun exploring. They appreciate the help, and has actually helped their personal relationships.
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #10 on: 29 April 2013, 09:54:29 am »
Quote from: Lady_Lust_XXX on 28 April 2013, 07:40:52 pm
Something similar .................... mmmmmmmmmm don't forget to go ooh and ahhh! and wriggle a bit.  ::)

Haha, me too, get so absorbed in thinking about something I've read lately or whatever have to keep bringing my consciousness back to the here and now
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #11 on: 29 April 2013, 10:02:34 am »
Quote from: MillieElizabeth on 29 April 2013, 05:10:36 am
True. Don't get me wrong, the really bad ones, my mind goes elsewhwre but other times I like the guide them and have fun exploring. They appreciate the help, and has actually helped their personal relationships.
Perhaps just the clients I seem to attract but I've never met many men interested in pleasuring me, in fact same goes for my normal life.
Had a few long term relationships, had slept with about 40 guys before starting this work (full time) a year ago, and in the 12 yrs since I've lost my virginity only one man (a client) ever made the effort to get me so turned on my cheeks went red etc
 No matter what walk of life they come from, they never seem interested in giving me pleasure, as though if I can't come from what gets them off its too much effort...
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strawberry

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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #12 on: 29 April 2013, 12:37:21 pm »
It varies I'm usually thinking about what they or I am doing, is it time for condom, am I comfy, is there a better position, am I going to climax(to do so I have to be quite focused)?

Like anything you do regularly the mind does wander elsewhere, but I find keeping in the here and now generally makes it go faster and feel a lot better. I don't like it if I've zoned out because to me it means I'm not fully aware of what's happening, and that he might pick up on it.
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #13 on: 29 April 2013, 01:39:34 pm »
Most of the time I'm enjoying myself but the thoughts that are always on my mind are:

'What time is it, how much more time have I got to make him happy?'
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'Is he enjoying it, is he going to cum, is there anything else I can do or say to make him cum harder?'

They kind of alternate in my head because its ALL about Client Retention :)
R xx
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Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« Reply #14 on: 29 April 2013, 03:06:26 pm »
I sometimes think about the price of breath mints in comparison to my fee. If you can pay for this would a box of tick tacks break the bank? 

I sometimes think did you turn the shower on just to disguise the sound of you having a crafty wank.

I sometimes think, does a tuna sandwich and 20 cigs at lunch time mean you can ignore the big bottle of mouth wash next to the shower.  The one with the post it note saying "use me"

I sometimes think , just shut up and fuk me you boring wanker.

I sometimes think, how many years have you been doing this for?

I sometimes think, hang on, hang on , hang on, oh is that it
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