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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Gypsy on 10 July 2017, 05:00:11 pm
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I have just had a youngish guy, say late 20's and he was perfectly nice and polite, but OMG he was a bit freaky/creepy. He did nothing wrong, but it was just the way he looked at me - proper staring and tilting his head from side to side to look at me and his eyes had a nobody is home look. He spoke softly too, which freaked me out even more. He wanted a roleplay booking and the outfit he brought was professional looking and he said it was his ex's.
I feel so mean because he was no trouble at all, but his whole personna was just so creepy/freaky that I will struggle to get him out of my head. ARGH!
And, I have a background in mental health too so I am used to oddness in people, but he just made me think of the film Psycho. Oh dear :(
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He wanted a roleplay booking and the outfit he brought was professional looking and he said it was his ex's.
Grim.
He did nothing wrong, but it was just the way he looked at me - proper staring and tilting his head from side to side to look at me
I hate being stared at, and being stared straight in the eyes is the worst. I don't mind fleeting eye contact in a normal, natural way (and I can barely see without my glasses on anyway), but the ones who take it on like a stare-out contest are horrendously weird.
It doesn't really freak me out though, I just don't like it. I thankfully can't think of anything work-related that does :).
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Yes, he did loads of staring directly into my eyes. Just horrible, horrible! These are the type of men who linger in your mind. Shiver. He was just so weird. Quiet too. I can't imagine anything in his life being remotely normal.
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A very well endowed gent would freak me out. I once had one around 8pm at a previous working flat where I was all alone and he didn't want to go. I was very scared. I guess any client that I refused a booking to that didn't want to leave would frighten me.
Sorry to hear of your plight
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Yes, he did loads of staring directly into my eyes. Just horrible, horrible! These are the type of men who linger in your mind. Shiver. He was just so weird. Quiet too. I can't imagine anything in his life being remotely normal.
Yes I did a thread about a guy who amongst other things (totally OTT complimenting and almost love bombing me) was constantly staring into my eyes and hardly looked away at all during the bookings which I did find really creepy and way too intense.
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I think I would prefer to be stared at than not looked at, the (few) men who find they can not give eye contact may be shy or feeling guilt or whatever but I don't like that as I am an eye contact person.
What freaks me out with clients? Those who lunge at me and speak far too loudly with sexy comments before I have even closed the door when they come in. It pees me off big time as any neighbour could be walking by, or when they use my work name through the intercom. They have no need to use any name, if I answer the buzzer and say hi is that John all they need say is yes!
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Yes I did a thread about a guy who amongst other things (totally OTT complimenting and almost love bombing me) was constantly staring into my eyes and hardly looked away at all during the bookings which I did find really creepy and way too intense.
Yes. Intense. That's a good word.
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Yes, he did loads of staring directly into my eyes. Just horrible, horrible! These are the type of men who linger in your mind. Shiver. He was just so weird. Quiet too. I can't imagine anything in his life being remotely normal.
Makes you feel completely objectified. These types are like a human scanning machine. Norman bates, absolutely :-\
I had one the other day wanting me to make eye contact whilst I did oral, a bit difficult; it was like he thought my neck is made from a slinky. He was a bit of a douche.
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Makes you feel completely objectified. These types are like a human scanning machine. Norman bates, absolutely :-\
I had one the other day wanting me to make eye contact whilst I did oral, a bit difficult; it was like he thought my neck is made from a slinky. He was a bit of a douche.
Eye contact while giving oral is quite easy.
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Eye contact while giving oral is quite easy.
Not if they've got a kite on 'em :D
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When they literally rape my face with there tongues. Like washing machine ultrafast whirlwind motion. Freaks me the fuck out.
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It always gives me the willies when they indulge in dirty talk based around bareback/creampie stuff. "I'm gonna come inside you, my spunk is gonna be dripping out of your pussy" etc etc. It has always been just fantasy IME, but literally only one of those guys has ever thought to run it past me before the booking and reassure me that they just like the words and have no intention of trying to actually do it.
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I saw this man again - maybe foolish I know, but it had been several months since I first saw him and I wanted to see if he would be any different.
He phoned me and there was warmth in his voice - always a good sign - he always presents as well brought up and seeing as though he didn't do anything wrong last time I thought I would give him another chance.
We did the same stuff and yes he was still a bit weird but because I was prepared for it it wasn't half as bad.
In fact I rather enjoyed the booking. He seemed more normal this time.
Anyway, now I have facebooked his number and while there's no evidence to suggest he is a serial killer, he has given me a false name. I know loads of men must do this and that's fine, but I really don't know what to make of this guy.
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From Norman Bates to normal Bates who master bate's :)
Seriously though, take care, love and kindness.
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From Norman Bates to normal Bates who master bate's :)
Seriously though, take care, love and kindness.
Lol ;D Thank you xx
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I always assume they are giving me a fake name. After all I am giving them a fake name!
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I always assume they are giving me a fake name. After all I am giving them a fake name!
Yes, that's true. I suppose I always think the same. I've never facebooked anyone's number before though to have my thoughts confirmed. To be fair to him he didn't know who he was going to meet either first time. But if they're going to do this sort of thing and don't want us snooping get another number so they can't be traced. Or don't have the number they are using on social media :)
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Yes, that's true. I suppose I always think the same. I've never facebooked anyone's number before though to have my thoughts confirmed. To be fair to him he didn't know who he was going to meet either first time. But if they're going to do this sort of thing and don't want us snooping get another number so they can't be traced. Or don't have the number they are using on social media :)
I am constantly amazed by how careless guys are, i.e. giving me their real full names without my asking and I would say the majority use their personal phone too!
Ah and to get back on track I find guys who are almost silent during a,booking unnerving and those who stare at you constantly or compliment you non stop.
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When they say they want me to be their mother role play I think there is something very disturbing about a guy wanting an escort to be his mother who knows what a going on in their weird minds I refused .
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Grim.
I hate being stared at, and being stared straight in the eyes is the worst. I don't mind fleeting eye contact in a normal, natural way (and I can barely see without my glasses on anyway), but the ones who take it on like a stare-out contest are horrendously weird.
It doesn't really freak me out though, I just don't like it. I thankfully can't think of anything work-related that does :).
Can't be as bad as they guy who gave me his dead mother - laws clothes for me to wear
( I didn't know till afterwards )
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When they gaze into my eyes and tell me they know what I like (regulars get creepy after a while) when they stick their tongues in my ear or try and whisper in my ear kiss my neck etc. Makes me feel physically sick.