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What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« on: 29 August 2018, 09:57:39 am »
So ladies what do you prefer doing at work, oral with CIM or sex?


I personally prefer giving oral as I do CIM too and a lot of clients have told me that coming in a nice, warm mouth is preferable to coming in a condom, and doing CIM gets me out of having sex with them, I can’t stand having sex with clients, I just tolerate it because they’re usually quick, except if they’re young, and easy and they don’t want to throw me about the bed!


Even in civvy life then I’m not too keen on penetrative sex as I come from my clitoris and I’ve only ever once had my G spot hit during sex, it was amazing and it was with someone I was in a long term relationship with, I don’t know if my G spot will ever be ‘hit’ again and it’s quite sad really!


Imo penetrative sex is more for the mans benefit than ours, I know a lot of you will disagree but there’s also a lot who will agree with me, we are all different & it’s interesting to hear everybody else’s differing of opinions.


I know lots of girls who just boak as soon as cum hits their mouth but I’m used to it now and I definitely hardly ever have to have sex and I know that at work if you don’t offer CIM then you always have to have sex and I just can’t be arssed with it and I’m always so dry having sex, even with shitloads of lube, it’s just psychological because my brain is constantly sending ‘I don’t like this’ signals down to my lady garden therefore causing it to go like a desert, it just won’t rain in there!


In civvy life then I only like sex because I have strong feelings for the guy I’m having sex with, this is why I’ve never enjoyed casual encounters like FWB or one night stands.


Ladies, what are your sexual preferences at work?

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #1 on: 29 August 2018, 10:51:26 am »
From a work point of view if it was OWO or penetration sex i would choose sex because it is with a condom and OWO comes with STI risks and i hate any pre cum but if it was OW or sex then OW even less risk and from an enjoyment point i do not orgasm from sex anyway only clitoral so none make a difference even though i pretend i orgasm.

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #2 on: 29 August 2018, 11:08:01 am »
 ;D no one! i prefer to receive oral!  :D

then for work...depend about many things! sex if it is slowly and/or oral if it is in a short time i give my best! an excess of one or other is nope for me! getting bored quickly!

i do both and i am happy to perform them! but anyway my favourite is to receive oral! (still a service LOL)

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #3 on: 29 August 2018, 11:13:25 am »
Depends on the individual.

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #4 on: 29 August 2018, 11:18:45 am »
When I worked from home and was low volume, I was happy to have penetrative sex on every booking, but now I tour and I'm higher volume, I'd rather most bookings be oral only so I'm not tiring my vagina. I last worked Monday bank holiday and had 5 clients and only 1 wanted penetration.

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #5 on: 29 August 2018, 01:15:50 pm »
Probably prefer the sex although I'd say it's about a half and half mix. I like giving oral if they are quick and they don't cum much  :D But generally I would prefer the sex. But only as long as they didn't have a crazy wide or long dick, then forget it!

I think I may be lazy, oral is effort on my part but the sex can be shared effort!

Given the choice though if I could only offer one service, it would be sex. I could manage that a few times a day as long as not too prolonged. I couldn't give oral to everyone, no. Too much jaw ache!  :D



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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #6 on: 29 August 2018, 02:44:52 pm »
Personally I find oral more intimate, which is why I prefer penetrative sex in bookings and oral in my private life. I also find penetrative sex less of an effort for me.

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #7 on: 29 August 2018, 04:45:04 pm »
Can I pick hand relief?  :P

No seriously, hand relief, with a dude who comes in seconds.

Don't get me wrong, I like my job but I prefer the role play, tie & tease, build up side of it. With oral I hate the taste of condoms and I don't mind a clean cock but the taste of pre-cum and the fear they'll just blow without notice in my mouth puts me off. With sex I don't mind it but lots of positions I find awkward, such as on top (I've got no rhythm) and lying down, I'm chubby, and I don't look my best in that position, lol So for all intents and purposes I'm left with doggy for the most part. Most guys don't seem to complain though.

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #8 on: 29 August 2018, 04:52:29 pm »
I prefer sex, I have a ridiculously small mouth and the worlds worst gag reflex and get bad boughts of reflux and my wrists are weak as anything so hand jobs they get sore way too easy

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #9 on: 29 August 2018, 08:26:33 pm »
God, PIV sex by a country mile - with knobs on!  :D

I could happily fuck for hours in a day, but I've got a small mouth and a high gag reflex, and find oral really tiring after a few minutes. Plus you're more exposed to unpleasant smells, wirey pubes etc. Moreover, I hate precum and don't do CIM even in my private life, so I'm on edge a little in some bookings (though luckily only one client has ever tried to get CIM on the sly).

So, sex all day, every day for me... no contest. I have lots of orgasms through penetration, too.
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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #10 on: 29 August 2018, 08:32:13 pm »
God, PIV sex by a country mile - with knobs on!  :D

I could happily fuck for hours in a day, but I've got a small mouth and a high gag reflex, and find oral really tiring after a few minutes. Plus you're more exposed to unpleasant smells, wirey pubes etc. Moreover, I hate precum and don't do CIM even in my private life, so I'm on edge a little in some bookings (though luckily only one client has ever tried to get CIM on the sly).

So, sex all day, every day for me... no contest. I have lots of orgasms through penetration, too.

God yes, at least with PIV sex there is full protection and an element of distance, and it's much less personal. And yes, I thought it was just me but my mouth and tongue tire after a little while, especially if they are taking their time. Perhaps I'm just not very good! Any super bj tips appreciated by PM not to derail the thread!!  :)

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #11 on: 29 August 2018, 09:42:22 pm »
Usually a bit of both but not too much of anything but depends on who it is I am doing it with. I do love a good long slippery hand job with some oral thrown in. These days I do not allow cim and have never done deepthroat as it terrifies me (gag reflex if taking a large pill yes am a wimp in that department) but love doing long slow oral with an aesthetically appealing cock.

I was once asked to suck a man's hairy toes and almost retired on the spot. Just thought I would throw that one in.

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #12 on: 30 August 2018, 07:09:52 am »
Usually a bit of both but not too much of anything but depends on who it is I am doing it with. I do love a good long slippery hand job with some oral thrown in

 ;D

About 50/50 for me when I was working full time. Was ok when I had a varied day, penetrative sex with a few bj’s flown into the mix. But it would get tiring if I got follow on oral requests back to back. Even using protection I agree with the comments here I worked with some quite ghastly cocks! But must admit some of my clients whilst being sucked did get excited quick and cum quick so bj’s often worked for me as profitable filler jobs. But if course you’d always get one who’d take an age to climax and you’d leave with an aching jaw!

I did and still love hand relief jobs. Have a client now who gets off on that rather than sex. Straight forward, simple. Tie, tease, maybe use a scarf or stockings, some dirty talk. Easy, profitable earnings:) wish everything was as straightforward! Would be interested to know what the percentage of customers wanting handjobs is now.

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #13 on: 30 August 2018, 11:21:20 am »
About 50/50 for me when I was working full time. Was ok when I had a varied day, penetrative sex with a few bj’s flown into the mix. But it would get tiring if I got follow on oral requests back to back. Even using protection I agree with the comments here I worked with some quite ghastly cocks! But must admit some of my clients whilst being sucked did get excited quick and cum quick so bj’s often worked for me as profitable filler jobs. But if course you’d always get one who’d take an age to climax and you’d leave with an aching jaw!

I did and still love hand relief jobs. Have a client now who gets off on that rather than sex. Straight forward, simple. Tie, tease, maybe use a scarf or stockings, some dirty talk. Easy, profitable earnings:) wish everything was as straightforward! Would be interested to know what the percentage of customers wanting handjobs is now.

Not many at all but had an interesting one last week. The voyeur type who just likes to stand watching me play with myself and talk dirty while he does his own handjob! I really enjoy those bookings and wish I had more of them!

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Re: What do you prefer out of giving oral and having sex?
« Reply #14 on: 30 August 2018, 11:29:01 am »
Not many at all but had an interesting one last week. The voyeur type who just likes to stand watching me play with myself and talk dirty while he does his own handjob! I really enjoy those bookings and wish I had more of them!

I like those too :)! Havent done one for a while but theyre quick, easy :)