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Molasses

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #60 on: 22 May 2018, 02:03:50 am »
I never contact clients if they miss a booking I save the number as time waster, we don’t know if something has happened or if the mrs has there’s phone, I wouldn’t dare risk texting them first
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MrsTinkles

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #61 on: 22 May 2018, 10:20:15 pm »
“TIMEWASTER BANNED NUMBER SHARED”  >:D
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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #62 on: 22 May 2018, 11:00:59 pm »
“TIMEWASTER BANNED NUMBER SHARED”  >:D

Then they'll just use a different number.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #63 on: 27 May 2018, 09:12:02 am »
+ 1 , I keep the number and remind next time , I just save as no show , occasionally they have had an emergency or got scared etc , if I've nothing booked I sometimes give the break arrange another booking a gain a reg .

They can't see my face or hear my voice or my personality just from a few very tame pics online , I've not showed at the odd hairdressers before if it's a one off , but if I went back if they let me and I got an amazing service , I'd stick with them .


And I don't post their number up after one no show because it clogs the boards and everyone gets them it's part and parcel.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #64 on: 05 June 2018, 09:10:16 pm »
I don’t bother texting them. I block them. I refuse to give them any more of my attention & time.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #65 on: 06 June 2018, 09:27:05 am »
So many times wasters I blocked last time I toured here are using same number and calling me, it just cuts their call with true caller
 luckily I didn't delete just don't need to waste my time.
I just don't message anymore to no shows as other ladies have said they get a kick out of inconveniencing  us.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #66 on: 06 June 2018, 01:47:32 pm »
 Did text one yesterday, purely because he said it was an hous drive and he would be here between a fifteen minute time frame he text after that saying he was suck at work rrrrrrr

I did respond with well that means you didn't start driving so you knew you weren't going to make it !!

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #67 on: 06 June 2018, 10:18:05 pm »
I do not message any no show as I do not know the real reason for this but I save as no show x(the number of times booked and not shown up) if it has more than two without them giving me a very good reason then I do not accept a booking.

I recently had a guy who did a no show he then phoned a few days later saying he had been caught up in a local bad traffic incident when he was travelling to the previous booking but he couldn't let me know as he would have had to use his phone and there was loads of police about. I rebooked him and he arrived was a lovey man who I have seen a few times since

amanda92

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #68 on: 17 June 2018, 10:24:55 pm »
Save their number in your phone as  if they give you notice put 'CANCELLED' if they don't contact you and leave you in the lurch then a 'NO SHOW' for them. I like to put a red cross next to their name so when they call in future ( because believe me they will) you have a little reminder before you answer that's this person has previously contacted you and messed you around , therefore you give any one else priority over his booking  xx

KimD

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #69 on: 20 June 2018, 02:32:48 pm »
On the rare occasion I have a no show I text " you're a sad small man" then save their number under c***.

I must say, I do the same but not the texting bit. Rather than save them as c***1, c***2, c***3 (etc), I use a different word each time. However, I have now exhausted almost every swear word that exists in the English, French, Spanish and Swahili vocabulary. I am particularly potty-mouthed so know quite a few. Now, I have had to start to invent some. It's very therapeutic. I did consider voodoo dolls, but apparently you need a lock of their hair.
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English Green

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #70 on: 20 June 2018, 03:21:52 pm »
I have stopped messaging them anything because ones that do it on purpose want you to be bothered so when they do not show i just do nothing so they think i am not bothered. If they call again another time i ignore or might say something to put them on the spot. Hate giving the deliberate low lives any satisfaction that i am pissed off. I used to get annoyed and have a go but most enjoy that so now i try not to do anything.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #71 on: 20 June 2018, 03:41:03 pm »
I have stopped messaging them anything because ones that do it on purpose want you to be bothered so when they do not show i just do nothing so they think i am not bothered. If they call again another time i ignore or might say something to put them on the spot. Hate giving the deliberate low lives any satisfaction that i am pissed off. I used to get annoyed and have a go but most enjoy that so now i try not to do anything.

I completely agree. I think this actually applies in most realms of life. Ignoring someone often makes them feel small and insignificant which can be far more damaging than remarks or name calling, which can have the opposite effect of doing more damage to oneself. Oneself?! Did I just say that? Posh, ain't I?
« Last Edit: 20 June 2018, 03:43:19 pm by KimD »
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English Green

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #72 on: 20 June 2018, 11:05:25 pm »
I completely agree. I think this actually applies in most realms of life. Ignoring someone often makes them feel small and insignificant which can be far more damaging than remarks or name calling, which can have the opposite effect of doing more damage to oneself. Oneself?! Did I just say that? Posh, ain't I?

Haha yes you did but yes the ones that get off on it obviously are surprised if they say there down the rd and they do not call back they expect me to keep calling so they can ignore but i just do not bother now so there little exercise has back fired plus the probably thibk i double booked them anyway and have just took another. Hahaha

Rosesugar

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #73 on: 21 June 2018, 08:51:59 am »
I wonder if they are surprised expecting us to get in touch when they haven't showed up.

Then they think it's OK to try calling while being blocked maybe it just doesn't sink in to their stupid brains that their not important nor do we need to entertain them again
I have many no shows who are still messaging are you free months later and get no response from me ever..

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #74 on: 21 June 2018, 09:43:41 am »
I never contact clients if they miss a booking I save the number as time waster, we don’t know if something has happened or if the mrs has there’s phone, I wouldn’t dare risk texting them first

I kind of feel like their wife is their responsibility. Obviously I’d never want to cause any problems, say if I saw them in public, although I’d still be unlikely to speak to a client if I saw them in public as it freaks some of them out and you don’t know who’s around.
But on the whole I think a client should be responsible enough to tell you his phone/wife situation, ie if you can’t reply to a msg within 2 mins don’t send it or whatever trick he uses, his wife’s not my responsibility, aside from using s little common sense if he’s pushing his luck that far he needs to cover his back bettter
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